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InvisibleIcelander
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Re: SEX [Re: it stars saddam]
    #5116263 - 12/28/05 05:55 PM (18 years, 3 months ago)

While I agree that it is probably impossible to convey the fine details of ourselves to others, I don't think you need that for an intimate relationship. A willingness to do ones best to describe feelings and sharing thoughts and concerns along with pleasures will insure a good friendship. We know when we are witholding important informations to make ourselves look good or to protect ourselves. A trust and willingness to risk the truth is the requirement for any couple who really want to get it on. From my experience it isn't easy and takes courage. But the rewards are real.


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" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
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Invisibleit stars saddam
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Re: SEX [Re: Icelander]
    #5116330 - 12/28/05 06:15 PM (18 years, 3 months ago)

Right on.  :thumbup:

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Re: SEX [Re: Icelander]
    #5117156 - 12/28/05 10:18 PM (18 years, 3 months ago)

I don't really have much personal experience with this. I've never had sex with someone I shared a strong connection with, despite what I thought at the time. I look forward to it, but for the time being I'm really struggling with certain things...like connection versus attachment. I've always felt a certain attachment with love and lately everything I see and read and hear attacks attachment. Now I'm confused and scared.

Is feeling attached unhealthy, impure, shallow, something else?


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InvisibleHuehuecoyotl
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Re: SEX [Re: Jaimie]
    #5117267 - 12/28/05 11:04 PM (18 years, 3 months ago)

When you depend on another person or material object for your happiness it is attachment. Humans should be independant, not dependant. Happiness comes from within the self...not from another person or thing. So two humans who are not attached by codependancy can share their mutual happiness together. Hanging your happiness on the day to day presence of another human (or any material thing) is unhealthy because people and objects change. Nothing is ever for sure. Two independantly happy people have a much better chance of finding happiness together. That is the deal on attachment...it is a quick road to unhappiness and misery.


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Offlinekotik
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Re: SEX [Re: Huehuecoyotl]
    #5117297 - 12/28/05 11:16 PM (18 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Is feeling attached unhealthy, impure, shallow, something else?




its human to feel attached. in fact, plenty of other animals get attached too.

i dont understand what any of this has to do with sex. sex isn't really even that intimate to me. I feel perfectly fine having friends that i keep around to talk to, and friends i keep around for sex. its rare that ill come across a girl that can do both, but even then.. its really just a friend that i like to talk to, and fuck.

the whole attachment thing is really a waste of energy. then again, things change...


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Re: SEX [Re: Icelander]
    #5117331 - 12/28/05 11:30 PM (18 years, 3 months ago)

I have heard it was the religious folk who gave it the bad rap because it treatened their control

I think the religious origins of sex guilt comes not so much out of wanting to control the population as out of a feeling that worshiping $DIETY is paramount, and anything pleasurable is next to sin for its distraction from $DIETY.

This is why the very first drug prohibition laws came about at the hands of the church, and religious underpinnings are at the heart of prohibition laws today.

There are counties in Florid not far from me that are dry on Sundays. Presumably, this is because one should attend church on Sundays instead of partying.

Extend this aversion to pleasure in deference to $DIETY, and you get frowning upon sex, perhaps the ultimate pleasure.


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1) You can't get married to your spouse who is the same sex as you.
2) You can't have an abortion no matter how much you don't want a child.
3) You can't have a certain plant in your possession or you'll get locked up with a rapist and a murderer.

4) We need a smaller, less-intrusive government.

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Re: SEX [Re: Diploid]
    #5118397 - 12/29/05 10:08 AM (18 years, 3 months ago)

Or perhaps the religious leaders could see that the sexually-free pagans did not need a "middle man" to put them in touch with divinity.

Their natural connection to the earth, their sensuality & sexuality allowed them to experience a "higher power" within themselves, and thus there was no market for church-based religion.

Just like anyone with a product, the leaders chose a course which created a demand.  :shrug:

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Re: SEX [Re: Huehuecoyotl]
    #5351259 - 02/28/06 09:31 PM (18 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Huehuecoyotl said:
I like sex.




Yeah it is good.


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Re: SEX [Re: mr_kite]
    #5351629 - 02/28/06 10:52 PM (18 years, 1 month ago)

:doggystyle:

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InvisibleSilversoul
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Re: SEX [Re: Icelander]
    #5351702 - 02/28/06 11:10 PM (18 years, 1 month ago)

There is nothing wrong with sex in and of itself. But I think the pursuit of sex(as well as money, power, etc.) tends to corrupt people. It is not immoral unto itself, but it can be a catalyst for immorality, and often lead to an imbalanced life.


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Re: SEX [Re: Silversoul]
    #5411240 - 03/17/06 02:12 AM (18 years, 16 days ago)

Quote:

Paradigm said:
There is nothing wrong with sex in and of itself.  But I think the pursuit of sex(as well as money, power, etc.) tends to corrupt people.  It is not immoral unto itself, but it can be a catalyst for immorality, and often lead to an imbalanced life.




But without the pursuit of sex, there is no sex.... there is no reproduction and there is no continuation of humanity.

It's a natural thing; you don't see animals agonising over whether its okay or not - they do it, because they know that they have to do it.

From a personal perspective, I feel that a person can do as they will, but shouldn't harm anyone else in the process of doing that.  Perhaps one ought to consider their reasons for searching for and having sex - if its just the physical act, then does it really serve a purpose - then all you're doing is using the person to make you orgasm which to be honest isn't difficult to do by yourself...

Sex, should be the expression of something close, something special and intimate between people - you're sharing in something special and it should be treated as such.  Rejoice in the fact we gain pleasure out of it, but that's tied in with giving pleasure too.  We, and dolphins, are the only animals capable of "making love" for the enjoyment of it... I think there's definitely something special about sex - and it goes beyond the technique, the 'how many times', the number of orgasms - all that stuff.... its about sharing a moment, and in that moment joining with another soul...  :heart:

Peyote_Princess xXx :mushroom2:


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Re: SEX [Re: Peyote_Princess]
    #5411251 - 03/17/06 02:17 AM (18 years, 16 days ago)

dolphins  :sailboat:

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InvisibleSinbad
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Re: SEX [Re: Peyote_Princess]
    #5411366 - 03/17/06 04:59 AM (18 years, 16 days ago)

We have enough people in this world, without exasperating the problem. Fortunatly some human beings have intelligence as well as contraception. Why dont we try loving the people who are already alive, rather than pegging our hopes on a next generation that will be handed a world of increasing degredation, thanks to our mindless and destructive actions toward our own mother planet.


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Re: SEX [Re: Icelander]
    #5416185 - 03/18/06 03:06 PM (18 years, 14 days ago)

I think sex is weird, and i don't understand what people get out of it (besides offspring). But if you enjoy it, then more power to you.

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InvisibleMystikMushroom
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Re: SEX [Re: moog]
    #5416201 - 03/18/06 03:10 PM (18 years, 14 days ago)

All I know about SEX is that I don't get enough.

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Re: SEX [Re: MystikMushroom]
    #5416337 - 03/18/06 03:50 PM (18 years, 14 days ago)

I hear ya bro.

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Re: SEX [Re: moog]
    #5416491 - 03/18/06 04:35 PM (18 years, 14 days ago)

Quote:

moog said:
I think sex is weird, and i don't understand what people get out of it (besides offspring). But if you enjoy it, then more power to you.




you need to find yourself a sexy freeky girl and get down.  :mushroom2:

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Re: SEX [Re: Sinbad]
    #5417480 - 03/18/06 10:42 PM (18 years, 14 days ago)

Quote:

Sinbad said:
We have enough people in this world, without exasperating the problem. Fortunatly some human beings have intelligence as well as contraception. Why dont we try loving the people who are already alive, rather than pegging our hopes on a next generation that will be handed a world of increasing degredation, thanks to our mindless and destructive actions toward our own mother planet.




We are the problem.  When death rate exceed birth rate the world improves(appeased is a better word)? 

Loving people who are already alive leads to children because of love.  Look into a young childs eye and tell me you don't want to be a part of that. :heart:


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Re: SEX [Re: Cherk]
    #5419212 - 03/19/06 03:55 PM (18 years, 13 days ago)

Quote:

Smoker For Peace said:
Quote:

Sinbad said:
We have enough people in this world, without exasperating the problem. Fortunatly some human beings have intelligence as well as contraception. Why dont we try loving the people who are already alive, rather than pegging our hopes on a next generation that will be handed a world of increasing degredation, thanks to our mindless and destructive actions toward our own mother planet.




We are the problem.  When death rate exceed birth rate the world improves(appeased is a better word)? 

Loving people who are already alive leads to children because of love.  Look into a young childs eye and tell me you don't want to be a part of that. :heart:




Children hae the most beautiful eyes; I just get to thinking how wonderful it would be to see everything for the fist time - perhaps that is why we experiment with psychadelics, because we didn't appreciate it the first time?

But sex doesn't have to lead to reproduction for it to be worthwhile; even the Roman Catholic Church has accepted in a document last year about sex being an act drawing the couple closer together (though they still retain te reproduction must be a possibility type clause)

As for people that don't enjoy sex; it's not a technique - its about the situation and the partner - the best sex is making love (man!)

And for those not getting enough - hugs... I wish you pretty partners soon!

Peyote_Princess xXx :mushroom2:


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Re: SEX [Re: Peyote_Princess]
    #5419257 - 03/19/06 04:08 PM (18 years, 13 days ago)

Quote:

Peyote_Princess said:


But sex doesn't have to lead to reproduction for it to be worthwhile




true


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