Erase everything you thought you ever learned or knew about balancing out your masculine and feminine energy. Take every yin yang stereotype and make like they are fanciful ideas someone made up.
For humankind alike it comes down to love of self and others and the lack of love for the self and others-fear.
Even lack of love is nonsense. There is more in limitless abundance to be harnessed then any life form that can harness it can know what to do with it. Ever fill up with it to the point of feeling like your going to burst at the seems. WOW thats a great powerful feeling.
We as human beings are all givers and receivers. Love is a self balancing system of giving and receiving. Fear due to lack beliefs is the unbalanced system that just takes, denies and rejects. This is what is to be understood, the difference between how love balances and fear makes us feel off balance and as if we need to be balancing. Male and female stereotypes have nothing to do with it as all humans have the capacity to love give and receive. If one can give/provide and accept and receive humbly without expecting anything in return or feeling they have to give in return, then they are not in fear but in the security of self love and self worth. Thats how you recognize strength in others. The weak aspect can't give without expecting in return nor accept without feeling in debt-negative about it.
The bottom line is that LOVE both humbly gives and receives freely of itself as love is secure in itself worth and its boundless limitless eternity.
FEAR, hoards and forcefully takes and rejects what comes from out of another's love. When fear gives, it always has a manipulative agenda and expects payback. Fear is a closed restrictive system. Love is an open, free and expansive one.
Love gives AND receives of the self and to and from others. Love is a positive balanced system by its own nature.
Fear takes from the self and others. Fear is like a void, a black hole that sucks things into it and creates a downward spiral, and pulls down like gravity.
If there was no such force as gravity, there would be no feeling need for balance in the first place. You'd never have anywhere to fall down into or know what falling even felt like let alone the crash landing which is what we fear-the pain and damage that results from a bad fall.
Getting into balance with your personal power means getting into love and out of fear, like getting into higher financial net worths and out of financial debt. In love, you keep moving out in an expansive nature in all directions. Love receives from the self by drawing in from the self and pushing the self out.
The polarity at hand has to do with fear being pit as loves opposite when really fear is just where self love and love and acceptance for all is in lack.
Contrary to popular beliefs, we don't truly balance out to our use of power and strength by being 50% love- 50% fear. Fear is a negative and cancels out the love bringing you to zero.
50-------------0+++++++++++++++50 balances out to ZERO-No power.
Replace ALL negatives with positives and you will have positive power and when you have positive power balance is a given because their is no negative creating a gravity pull for you feel you need to counter balance yourself against.
Self love has to do with knowing the love we come from and are made of. In essence, its what we are. Love has to be nothing extra special other then understanding it to be the balanced nature of energy giving and receiving of itself and making more of itself when it builds more. It's an expansive energy, a self fluffing energy, a self sustaining energy.
Love is the best of humankind as it is the energy that nurtures, protects, provides, ensures, stabilizes, grows, cares and is what just IS in all of its glory or lack there of.
We come into full balanced power and strength when we replace the negative fear value with the positive love values.
It's about knowing the worth of the love within you. You won't know your self worth until you know your love. You come to realize it by sharing and giving it to others and yourself. You come to know it and experience its power when you build, construct and create with it.
When you realize the power of your love, the fear washes away and egoic pride is replaced with humbleness of being.
When we fall out of balance, in terms of love and fear, its actually because we are either giving love to everyone but ourselves or, are giving it only to ourselves and no others, or are not giving it at all to the self or others.
Withholding from the self is a negative.
Withholding from others is a negative.
When the bank withholds from you, you have no money, no power. The more you have to borrow or steal, the more you "feel" you "fall" into debt and the more you "feel" you owe life. The burden and pressures increase and life can become miserable and unbearable under the weight.
The bank can and will forgive you of your debts. You first have to realize that the bank and banker is within you, it is The Greater You, the love of you.
Falling out of balance in terms of positives and negatives works like this. Negatives are voids in need of being filled. They create pulls from the positive. Negatives cry out for positives to fill their emptiness. You experience fulfillment when you stop creating negatives to be filled.
Negatives create downward pulls on the positives. If you balance out the good and the bad with the 50 50 scale, you end up with a negative pull draining your positive, throwing you off balance in the process and leaving you with Zero positive power to build your reality with.
Like a bank account, what can you add to your life with zero or negative dollars in it? NOTHING. You have to beg, borrow, or steal to have power to use and create a false net worth with.
Think of the power of money like the power of love. It's a credit. Fear is a debit and love is a credit. People fear falling into debt without ever realizing that all they have to do is stop creating negatives to fall into. stop creating negatives that will pull at you like gravity making you feel like you have to keep balance in the first place.
What use is it if you can balance out your check book if its left with a ZERO or negative balance? You're in trouble if the balance is 0 or in the negatives. There is no power in balancing yin and yang itself. Power itself is balanced. What matters is having a positive net worth.
There is no Power to live, build or create with in a personal account that balances out to zero or in the negatives. Balance is not what you are after. feeling in a need for it is just a sign we are in the feeling fear of falling into all of the negative holes we have created which are pulling down on us.
You quit creating them by quiting seeing them, thinking them, and feeling them. Only our acknowledgment of them brings them to life. The love within fills those holes and voids as it goes out before us before we even get to them.
You develop a way of life, that sees the good and positive in all things. Start accolading it and appreciating it everywhere you see positive. Infuse everything that crosses your path with your love. Open yourself up to receive the loving view of the world from the lover within.
Fill the negs with positives and quit making negatives and you will know the inherent balance of nature and feel no need to get or be balanced. It's a call for more LOVE in your life, from you to you, from you to others and from others to you. It's trifold system-you to you, you to others, and others to you. Love is all inclusive giving and receiving of itself an expansive building of itself, upon itself from inwards moving outwards it grows and sows and reaps its own reward of being.
-------------------- Ahuwale ka nane huna.
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