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lid
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Re: Any advice for picking up ladies? [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
#4963899 - 11/21/05 12:35 PM (18 years, 3 months ago) |
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Give her one of these.
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mitchdot
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Re: Any advice for picking up ladies? [Re: lid]
#4963919 - 11/21/05 12:43 PM (18 years, 3 months ago) |
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thats the trouble man, you don't want random girls.
you want a girl you know and understand.
just think, if a girl will hookup with you on a whim, theres a pretty good chance she's not gonna stop with just your ass.
be social. if you like art, go to galleries, join groups.
don't go do shit just for a hookup, thats a waste of your time (not to mention pretty damn fake...)
enjoy yourself.
and for christsakes, don't act like you're hanging out with a girl just to say "hey, I'm with this girl..." mean that shit.
-------------------- Plan for the worst Hope for the best and the rest was written.
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HELLA_TIGHT
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Re: Any advice for picking up ladies? [Re: lid]
#4963944 - 11/21/05 12:51 PM (18 years, 3 months ago) |
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Rip her asshole.
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lid
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Re: Any advice for picking up ladies? [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
#4963974 - 11/21/05 12:58 PM (18 years, 3 months ago) |
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-------------------- molon labe.
Edited by lid (11/21/05 12:59 PM)
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peepeepottypants
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Re: Any advice for picking up ladies? [Re: lid]
#4964000 - 11/21/05 01:05 PM (18 years, 3 months ago) |
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hmm. How would one about putting their colon back in?
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HELLA_TIGHT
Madge the Smoking Vag


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Wanna find out?
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peepeepottypants
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Re: Any advice for picking up ladies? [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
#4964033 - 11/21/05 01:15 PM (18 years, 3 months ago) |
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verbally...yes physically...no
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kaniz
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Re: Any advice for picking up ladies? [Re: exclusive58]
#4964067 - 11/21/05 01:24 PM (18 years, 3 months ago) |
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In short - be gay.
I've had more girls try and hit on me / pick me up / show interest in me that its not funny. While I dont think I'm ugly, I'm not the hottest guy on the block either (6ft4, scurffy, and could stand to lose about 10 pounds).
However, after talking with them / etc, some of the reasons that came up to why they found me attractive and tried to pick me up before finding out I was gay.
- I became 'friends', not 'creepy guy staring at them' - had an honest intrest in THEM. I liked to talk about different things, get to know what they are going to school for. - They felt at ease around me - this is most likely because I wasnt trying to shag them. I guess this comes off across in my body language/etc also, but all in all - I wasnt giving off 'I want to see you naked' vibes - Have an interest beyond sports, drugs and music - read a few books, be somewhat current on news/politics, have REAL interests that you know about, and can converse about - Have opnions, and know how to back them up - have /real/ conversations. Have conversations that show her who you are, and what you are about.
This, has generally worked for me in the gay world also - IF I am looking for someone to date, and not just shag. If both parties are just looking for sex, then all the above is a waste of time :P
In short : show that you have an honest interest in her, her personality, and her interests. Even if you dont share common grounds, ie: she likes X, but you like Y, show an /honest/ interest in Y - then dont bother faking it, as then that will just come across as 'oh, he's trying to shag me'.
and also - stop trying so damn hard.
Act natural, be yourself - trying hard, and being a creep (even if you dont realize it), are the things that turn girls away. Show interest beyond wanting sex.
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Boom
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Re: Any advice for picking up ladies? [Re: kaniz]
#4964085 - 11/21/05 01:30 PM (18 years, 3 months ago) |
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Gay guys sure do know what the ladies like
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drtyfrnk
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Re: Any advice for picking up ladies? [Re: Boom]
#4964105 - 11/21/05 01:34 PM (18 years, 3 months ago) |
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It's true, listen to kaniz's advice. He has some damn good advice.
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Boom
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Re: Any advice for picking up ladies? [Re: drtyfrnk]
#4964112 - 11/21/05 01:35 PM (18 years, 3 months ago) |
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I know, I read it and agree with it. I'm merely being a moron
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stefan
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Re: Any advice for picking up ladies? [Re: mitchdot]
#4964278 - 11/21/05 02:11 PM (18 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
thats the trouble man, you don't want random girls.
you want a girl you know and understand.
true!
but you need to get to know 'random girls' to find one that does 
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be social. if you like art, go to galleries, join groups, play sports.
even better than really random girls 
also: -be 'yourself' (I know you and you're a very friendly and positive person so just stay cool like that, and if I'm correct good looking too, so you're all set with all of that ) -be confident (or at least act confident ) -show interest in things she tells you and ask questions about it (also a good way for having good conversations ) this will happen naturally though probably
good luck! you'll find that special one 
read kazis post and learn from that, exept from the be-gay thing 
ps It took me a while to find a nice girl that I really connect with, it's all worth the wait
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