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how many times have we wasted time and energy on something that has a high improbabilty of changing or if everything seems to be against you at present time, or something that cannot be changed? and something that hasn't happened at all yet? why not accept it, build a bridge and get over it? i have looked at my own life and how much i have grown in the past year, and measure up my own reactions to other peoples reactions. i used to be one to complain, bitch and moan about quite a few things that were outside of my own power or even if it was directed within myself, and have actually released alot of this reaction except one, its seeing others bitching and moaning, i mean how much of a waste of time and energy is it? if you can't change your current situation, ride it out, if you can change it, get the balls and start making some changes. and also reacting to others reacting to there own perception in life, which i beleive is a waste also, its takes alot of reminding that others are living to there own experience, and perception. so one can release from this pattern.
BTW, this doesn't have to do with anything or anybody that has been happening on this board as of late, this is to do with some actions in my own immediate life.
-------------------- suicide a permanent solution to a temporary problem
i think there is a stage in your growth when other people can really bring you down with their negativity and they are best avoided until you have enough mental energy to override any negative impulses they send out.
comparing self to others is a waste but then again any movement is a waste since you go out and come back in, what difference? but there is a joy in moving find it everywhere and nothing is ever wasted.