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mycogirl
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First move
#4701204 - 09/23/05 03:28 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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My uh, friend was wondering what is appropriate and inappropriate as far as etiquette goes.
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Re: First move [Re: mycogirl]
#4701215 - 09/23/05 03:30 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'd say either is just as good. I don't hold any certain pride of asking them out first, because I'm a guy.
Which ever feels the need too, should.
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mycogirl
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So its not uber weird to come on to a guy if your a girl? I won't be scarring him away with my dominate attitude?
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Re: First move [Re: mycogirl]
#4701233 - 09/23/05 03:33 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Good question. Used to it would just be the guy's responsibility but with all this equal oportunity stuff guys expect more from women. If a girl wants the same benefits, they need to have the same responsibilities. I think that's why it's slowly changed.
But with things the way they are now I say it depends on...
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Re: First move [Re: mycogirl]
#4701235 - 09/23/05 03:34 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Many guys like the domninant attitude.
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Re: First move [Re: Cowgold]
#4701236 - 09/23/05 03:34 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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im a dude im lazy so im really not into working for it unless im desperate. haha...if they want me they best fucking make it clear
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Yea, it is damn hard sometimes to tell if they like you.
Just come out and say, "I like you." Problem solved.
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Re: First move [Re: mycogirl]
#4701247 - 09/23/05 03:36 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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mycogirl said: So its not uber weird to come on to a guy if your a girl? I won't be scarring him away with my dominate attitude?
depends... haha. there's more 'girly men' now days that like being dominated.
I'm not a girly man though and I get a buzz when a girl makes a move. I find it interesting that she went against the grain to do it.
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mycogirl
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Okay, how do all you boys show girls you are into them?
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Re: First move [Re: mycogirl]
#4701253 - 09/23/05 03:37 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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more girls should take some initiative and make the first move
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Re: First move [Re: mycogirl]
#4701257 - 09/23/05 03:38 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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mycogirl said: Okay, how do all you boys show girls you are into them?
Beat on my hairy, man-chest.
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mycogirl
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Shit. I'm fucked. He doesn't have a hairy man chest, nor has he beaten on it...
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yea......some bizarre mating dances
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Re: First move [Re: mycogirl]
#4701272 - 09/23/05 03:42 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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mycogirl said: Shit. I'm fucked. He doesn't have a hairy man chest, nor has he beaten on it...
forget him baby
im here for you
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Re: First move [Re: mycogirl]
#4701277 - 09/23/05 03:43 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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mycogirl said: Okay, how do all you boys show girls you are into them?
Ask her if shed like to go for a ride and after a while whip out a ball of powder, mirror, and razor.
A nice dinner topped off by a few casual drinks afterwards usually breaks the ice. A little old fashioned but fuck it, it works.
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Nah, there's nothing really special I do when I'm interested in them. I may just talk to them more than usual.
I think it would be kinda creepy for them if I went out to the extreme, like to serenade them at their window.
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i have to admit that i do have a fear of rejection, which probably affects how hard i try
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True. To not try your best and be shot down, is a lot better feeling than going all out and still be rejected.
I'll just stick to my primal rituals!
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besides
masturbation is FUN
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mycogirl
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If everyone's scared of rejection... Thanks for all the input though guys.
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