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RandalFlagg
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: mantis]
#4665081 - 09/15/05 12:59 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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mantis said: What would be the sociological advantage of having a bunch of kids running around without dads?
A free welfare check.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: RandalFlagg]
#4665120 - 09/15/05 01:06 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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I like you.
Some people think uninhibited reproduction is ideal; they should take a look at Africa or some American ghettos.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Veritas]
#4665122 - 09/15/05 01:06 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Actually I would beg to differ that homo sapiens, and our evolutionary ancestores have ALWAYS lived in tribes/packs. Love probably didn't come about in our species, but at some point it did evolve. And it evolved because the expression of the genes that allowed for it enabled a higher rate of survival among those individuals with that allele. Thus, survival of the fittest. Erroneous traits are generally discarded through time, with evolution.
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Veritas
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: mantis]
#4665123 - 09/15/05 01:06 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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If monogamy is based on a strong, loving bond between parents, then I agree that it is the best arrangement for child-rearing.
If it is based on duty, expectations, obligation, guilt, etc...then it creates a toxic atmosphere for children to grow in. Far better for them to grow up with a single parent, IMO.
BTW having sex with one guy doesn't increase your chances of getting pregnant, just having more frequent sex. If a woman is having sex with a different guy every day during ovulation, or the same guy with the same frequency, she has the same chance of conceiving.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Veritas]
#4665150 - 09/15/05 01:11 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Why guys don't get girls: Testosterone & estrogen levels are a little different.
Ex: A girl sees a guy and thinks about whether or not she could marry him, how the kids would look, the house and the white picket fence.
A guy sees a girl and thinks, man I'd like to bend her over and...
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Veritas]
#4665152 - 09/15/05 01:11 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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That's not what I meant. There was a recent study that suggests the female body "recognizes" familiar sperm, and makes conception more likely.
I'll try to find it...
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Twister]
#4665155 - 09/15/05 01:12 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Your conclusions are just fine IF Darwinism explains everything.
What if Love is not a genetic trait, but an expression of the Life force/spirit/soul? Can you still compare it to physical traits which are obviously genetic, and thus subject to explanation through science?
While I find research into the human genome utterly fascinating, I cannot see it as the final answer to "Life, The Universe, And Everything." And the only way that Darwinism can be factually applied to human emotions and behaviors is if everything is genetic.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: FooMan]
#4665162 - 09/15/05 01:14 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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This "I man. I must stick cock in hole!" Bullshit stereotype is just annoying and completely ridiculous.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Cowgold]
#4665168 - 09/15/05 01:15 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Cowgold said: This "I man. I must stick cock in hole!" Bullshit stereotype is just annoying and completely ridiculous.
Says you.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: RandalFlagg]
#4665176 - 09/15/05 01:16 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: FooMan]
#4665182 - 09/15/05 01:17 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Not all girls are looking for marriage, kids, and the white picket fence. And some guys ARE.
IMO men and women often don't "get" each other because they relate to one another as generalizations/stereotypes instead of unique individuals.
Rather than ask questions and listen to the answers, they assume many things are true about the other person based on their sexual equipment.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Cowgold]
#4665189 - 09/15/05 01:19 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Please don't tell me that you are thinking about romance and long walks on the beach when you see ahot girl walk by. You would only be kidding yourself.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Veritas]
#4665197 - 09/15/05 01:20 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well, being a rational person I don't believe in a life force, spirit, or soul. Everything related to life IS genetic. Of course genetics isn't the end all be all of scientific theory, but it is for biological theory.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: FooMan]
#4665201 - 09/15/05 01:20 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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The first thing I look for is a good neck.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Veritas]
#4665217 - 09/15/05 01:23 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Veritas said: Not all girls are looking for marriage, kids, and the white picket fence. And some guys ARE.
IMO men and women often don't "get" each other because they relate to one another as generalizations/stereotypes instead of unique individuals.
Rather than ask questions and listen to the answers, they assume many things are true about the other person based on their sexual equipment.
I'm talking about first impressions. I'm not saying that my statement is the absolute truth. We are all individuals with our own needs and desires. My first thoughts when I see a girl are "could I fuck her?" It may not be pretty or politically correct, but it's being straight up.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
#4665221 - 09/15/05 01:23 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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HELLA_TIGHT said: The first thing I look for is a good neck.
True!
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: FooMan]
#4665224 - 09/15/05 01:24 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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I like a kind mouth.
The kind I wanna stick my dick in!
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: FooMan]
#4665227 - 09/15/05 01:24 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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FooManShroom said: Please don't tell me that you are thinking about romance and long walks on the beach when you see ahot girl walk by. You would only be kidding yourself.
If I saw this girl:
this is what I would say....
Randalflagg: Hi there. I just wanted to introduce myself. I am a nice and sensitive guy. I enjoy talking about my feelings. I like looking at the stars and having candle-lit dinners with that special someone. I am not thinking about sex at all right now...I swear!
Edited by RandalFlagg (09/15/05 01:26 PM)
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: RandalFlagg]
#4665231 - 09/15/05 01:25 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg said:
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mantis said: What would be the sociological advantage of having a bunch of kids running around without dads?
A free welfare check.
Funny but incorrect. A welfare check doesn't afford anykind of decent or easy life for a single mother nowdays.
If she wants the cash she needs to divorce a wealthy husband.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Twister]
#4665240 - 09/15/05 01:26 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ahhh I see now. Too bad you've closed your mind so young.
Science and logic are wonderful tools, but nothing compares to an open mind for facilitating full experience.
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