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ok well for some odd reason i cannot fall asleep with my girlfriend and it totally bothers her, she thinks i cannot be relaxed around her. anyway ive tried and tried and i just cant do it, i can get totally relaxed and comfortable but my mind will not shut off. anyone else have this problem or has any had this problem, any advice on how i could possibly work on this?
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I used to have that problem to some extent.. but I think part of it was due to the fact that my bed is only big enough for one person. At first it felt awkward and uncomfortable so I couldn't sleep. Being that close to her felt odd. After a while you can get used to it. Once you end up sleeping with her night after night it just becomes a normal routine. Just try to be confident and calm I guess, if that doesn't work, eventually you will be able to fall asleep from lack of sleep. I've been sleeping in this tiny jail sized bed with the same girl in it for a long time now lol. It takes time to get adjusted to having someone else in the bed with you if you are used to sleeping alone.
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I had the same problem when I had a GF. You just get used to sleeping by yourself for so long and it's weird falling completely asleep with another person. Plus I have restless legs so I move a lot and I was afraid I'd wake her up.
The easiest thing I did was once she was asleep I "uncuddled" then kinda scooted off by myself and fell asleep.
At first I wasn't even touching her, then slowly I could fall asleep closer and closer, then finally I was able to sleep all cuddled up.
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