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Offlinetomk
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: LethalX5]
    #4553024 - 08/18/05 07:20 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

If you love her, what you should do is say this.

"I'm really glad you love me, and I love you too. So, what I want you to do is feel free to look around at college. I would hate for someone I love to be chained by a relationship to me. What we have is great, but I want you to be open to finding someone you can be with on a regular basis, because your happiness is important to me. This doesn't mean we are breaking up, it means our relationship won't last if you feel bound to me. So, go ahead, have some sex, find some boyfriends, and decide what's best for you. I'll still be available to you as a friend or lover or boyfriend, but I don't want to be a chain that stops you from having your own life. So, don't worry about what happens."

Your girlfriend is worried dude. The best thing you could do for her is to remove her anxiety.


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InvisibleCowgold
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: Todcasil]
    #4553057 - 08/18/05 07:29 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Todcasil said:
absence make the heart grow fonder :heart:

:thumbup:




that's what I was lookin for.  :thumbup: 

Quote:

Lazlow said:
Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

Comte de Bussy-Rabnutin


  and i've never heard it like that.  GOODSTUFF


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Offlinedrtyfrnk
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: Cowgold]
    #4553214 - 08/18/05 07:58 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

Awesome letter dude!  Glad things are going great!

Hope you get to marry her one day :laugh:


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OfflineGillette
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: drtyfrnk]
    #4553381 - 08/18/05 08:38 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

hey now, not all chicks cheat when they go away to school, I never have.

I'm sure things will work out just fine. An hour and a half is still really close, and if you both want to make it work it will <3


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OfflineHeinous_Anus
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: Todcasil]
    #4553388 - 08/18/05 08:39 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Todcasil said:
absence make the heart grow fonder :heart:

:thumbup:




True, but you do need some contact, every now and then.


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InvisibleRavus
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: tomk]
    #4553414 - 08/18/05 08:44 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

You know most sane average humans would never say that though. :smirk:

Not everyone is into free-love.


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OfflineQuantumMeltdown
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: Ravus]
    #4553462 - 08/18/05 08:57 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

Tomk is homosexual so he has a different perspective. Gays are notorious for being very promiscuous.


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Total abstinence is so excellent a thing that it cannot be carried to too great an extent. In my passion for it I even carry it so far as to totally abstain from total abstinence itself.
  -Mark Twain

"The time has come the walrus said, little oysters  hide their heads, my Twain of thought is loosely bound I guess its time to Mark this down, Be good and you will be lonesome
Be lonesome and you will be free
Live a lie and you will live to regret it
That's what livin' is to me
That's what livin' is to me"
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InvisibleRavus
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: QuantumMeltdown]
    #4553472 - 08/18/05 09:00 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

So you wouldn't fool around with Tomk?

He seems like the type of guy who'd be very laid back about it. And he definitely seems to know what he's doing.


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OfflineVex
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: LethalX5]
    #4553475 - 08/18/05 09:01 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

sounds to me like she has already made up her mind to cheat on you, or that she knows she won't be able to stop herself from doing it. good luck with her though.


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OfflineQuantumMeltdown
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: Ravus]
    #4553485 - 08/18/05 09:04 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

Of course I would. What a stud. JK.  :wink:


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Total abstinence is so excellent a thing that it cannot be carried to too great an extent. In my passion for it I even carry it so far as to totally abstain from total abstinence itself.
  -Mark Twain

"The time has come the walrus said, little oysters  hide their heads, my Twain of thought is loosely bound I guess its time to Mark this down, Be good and you will be lonesome
Be lonesome and you will be free
Live a lie and you will live to regret it
That's what livin' is to me
That's what livin' is to me"
Jimmy Buffett


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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: LethalX5]
    #4553526 - 08/18/05 09:14 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

You have an awsome woman man. If only I could find one like that...


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InvisibleVvellum
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: LethalX5]
    #4553712 - 08/18/05 10:11 PM (18 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

not that far away. 1hr.30min. and i dont see this as a goodbye letter or it would have been "goodbye" she would have just said it to my face.




Well, I hope you are right. But in my experience and in the experience of people I've known through the years, long distance relationships are incredibly difficult if not prone to failure, particularly when someone goes off to college where they meet many people and forge new relationships. Most likely, there will come a time where she will let the past fade or you cannot handle the suspicion and decide to date someone new. I think this is more likely true in relationships that were on/off while those involved were together - in the same town.

Let us know in a few months...


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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: Vvellum]
    #4554280 - 08/19/05 01:05 AM (18 years, 6 months ago)

Hope everything works out for the best, the only thing that can fuck with a guy's head to no end is a woman.


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OfflineTodcasil
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: Fospher]
    #4554290 - 08/19/05 01:07 AM (18 years, 6 months ago)

"theres nothing worse than a woman you dont like"

except one you love.


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Men look at themselves and they see flawed humans, we look at women and we see perfect
GODDESSES
Women look at themselves and they seem utterly human, when looking at men they see proud
GODS.


~Casil



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OfflineFospher
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: tomk]
    #4554299 - 08/19/05 01:11 AM (18 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

tomk said:
If you love her, what you should do is say this.

"I'm really glad you love me, and I love you too.  So, what I want you to do is feel free to look around at college.  I would hate for someone I love to be chained by a relationship to me.  What we have is great, but I want you to be open to finding someone you can be with on a regular basis, because your happiness is important to me.  This doesn't mean we are breaking up, it means our relationship won't last if you feel bound to me.  So, go ahead, have some sex, find some boyfriends, and decide what's best for you.  I'll still be available to you as a friend or lover or boyfriend, but I don't want to be a chain that stops you from having your own life.  So, don't worry about what happens."

Your girlfriend is worried dude.  The best thing you could do for her is to remove her anxiety.




Translation: Go ahead, find some other dudes, score some bone, and if no one better turns up, Im always your last resort.

Grrrrrrrrrrrreeaat advice  :thumbup:


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InvisibleBurke Dennings
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: LethalX5]
    #4554315 - 08/19/05 01:17 AM (18 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

and my papa joe loves you!!! lol!




Does your girlfriend actually write things like "lol" when she's composing notes and letters?


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InvisibleRavus
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #4554321 - 08/19/05 01:19 AM (18 years, 6 months ago)

I was thinking that too. She writes like a middle school nub.


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InvisibleBurke Dennings
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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: Ravus]
    #4554327 - 08/19/05 01:21 AM (18 years, 6 months ago)

I'm thinking they may not be seperated for more than a semester.


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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #4554412 - 08/19/05 01:53 AM (18 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

electrode said:
Quote:

and my papa joe loves you!!! lol!




Does your girlfriend actually write things like "lol" when she's composing notes and letters?





the whole "style" of the letter was suppose to be like a "funny high hopes thing"  she is not trying to be a professional at all.  i guess you would have to know her do be able to know that though.  like i can tell them mood she is trying to show in the wording of the letter if that makes any sense and by her handwriteing.  this was the first time i ever have seen "lol" from her before since she is barely online and that's the only place you see it.  but she is going to be a teacher so she knows her stuff.  i really do love allot of the comments you guys left so thanks allot.  the only one i didn't was the one my tomk :mad: .  but ty guys!!!


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Re: Just droped my g/f off at ISU and she left me this note. [Re: LethalX5]
    #4554443 - 08/19/05 02:17 AM (18 years, 6 months ago)

this reminds me of the that comercial where the guy is leaving his GF and she gives him a note and tells him not to read it till he gets there, but he read it anyway and it said "Just 3 months ago, (next page) I had a Penis"

:rofl2:


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