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Do i have a reason to be pissed?
    #4545660 - 08/17/05 05:53 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

a good (female) friend of mine whos 19,
gave my other female friend whos SIXTEEN,
coke.

i've had my run with coke (eck) &
KNOW its nothing a 16 y.o
should have her hands on.

when i confronted the older gurl, she denied it,
but she couldnt look me in the eye
& she was trying her best to avoid the conversation.

i asked the 16 y.o & she denied it too.
after observing her actions for a minute, i knew she lied too. (teeth clenching, involentary mouth movements, that
fucking horrible SNIFFLING. eck.)

after realizing 2 of my good friends lied to me,
i was instantly radiating pissed off-ness.
& they both left within the minute, feeling ashamed & guilty.

the older gurl is one of my best friends
& after tonight, i think i lost all respect for her.

should i hold this grudge?
do i have a right to be pissed?


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: 40oz]
    #4545670 - 08/17/05 05:57 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

You have a right to do whatever you want. You also have a reason(doubled) to be pissed. But do not hold it against either individual. Unless the older person pushed it onto the younger person, then there is nothing but free choice involved. Perhaps have a chat with the younger person about the possible negative consequences of the drug.


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: 40oz]
    #4545753 - 08/17/05 07:40 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

fortyounces2freedom said:
should i hold this grudge?




no

Quote:

do i have a right to be pissed?




yes


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: 40oz]
    #4545798 - 08/17/05 08:34 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

who determines age with drugs?

theres no minimum age

forty you are concerned, thats cool  explain yourself to your friend

did she force it on the 16 yr old?

you don't have the right to determine who will and will not do drugs and at what age....

but hey

you'll make a great father

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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: 40oz]
    #4545830 - 08/17/05 09:13 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

discretion


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: 40oz]
    #4545837 - 08/17/05 09:16 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

If you drop the pissed act, the girl(s) will remember it. And it will happen again.

Ignore them both for a while and put them off. Make them worry.
When the girl(s) come to apologise or work things out, tell them how you feel about the lying, and then you tell them that you're simply worried about them because you know the back story. This is a good point to make the decision 'theirs'. But teach them the negatives.


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: RuNE]
    #4545852 - 08/17/05 09:27 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

...that or they'll just decide coke is more important
than 40.

I don't think it's ever good advice to turn your back
on people you consider friends, especially when they're
fucking with this type of shit.


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: afoaf]
    #4545861 - 08/17/05 09:34 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

It doesn't sound like the younger one is addicted. More or less a trial of a new drug. I dont think they'll want to lose 40 as a friend just yet, its too early in the game for that.

If they're deep, or a frequent user, then you gotta intervene.

If he acts like its ok, they will take it as 'its ok'. It will repeat.


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: 40oz]
    #4545918 - 08/17/05 10:17 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Yeah, sixteen is too toung for cocaine!


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #4546102 - 08/17/05 11:25 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

I really hate when a good friend does something shady and then lies about it. You can never be too sure what to do in that situation, but since these are girls that we're talking about in this case I'd suggest talking to the older one a little bit more, to see what the circumstances were (if she'll admit it) and then depending on what she says take that information to the younger one with your concerns.


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: Jadian]
    #4546968 - 08/17/05 04:14 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

i wouldn't  be upset that they did coke... Well, i would lose some respect for the girl who gave the 16 year old cocaine, but that isn't what would really get under my skin because other people need to learn their own lessons. 

I do, however, think you DEFINATELY have a right to be upset that they both lied to you.  But the thing is, you can't go about confronting them after they denied it, without making it into a bigger deal than it needs to be.

Trust is the foundation of any relationships including friendships, if you can't trust your friends keep straight with you, thats a bummer. If you know for sure they did it and then lied to you, you might drop subtle hints in conversation so they know that you know they lied to your face.. other than that, let time do its thing and try to put it behind you and your friendships. 

Your a smart dude, i think you know best what you should do for your own situation, so good luck man.  :shroomer:


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #4546995 - 08/17/05 04:20 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Prisoner#1 said:
Quote:

fortyounces2freedom said:
should i hold this grudge?




no

Quote:

do i have a right to be pissed?




yes




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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: 40oz]
    #4547013 - 08/17/05 04:24 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

dont trip on the coke thing man, just tell em how shitty it is and they shouldnt do it. but do tell them that ur pissed at them cause they lied to u. i fucking hate liars:nonono:


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: thegatewaydrug]
    #4547042 - 08/17/05 04:32 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

yah id play up the fact that they lied to you, cause tahst lame.

just because they did something you dont approve of doesnt mean you will stop being their freind, but lying to you out of fear...

maybe taht says something though?

they were so afraid to tell you, their FRIEND, that they took coke, or that she gave her coke...

i mean, i despise the substance, but they are humans, and have free will, there is nothing you can do but give them your cow eyes :sad:


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: Todcasil]
    #4547053 - 08/17/05 04:34 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

yea, let them have their fun just try to educate them about w/e they do so they dont be stupid like gettin hookd on it or OD on it


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: 40oz]
    #4547978 - 08/17/05 08:21 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Be pissed, but don't let it ruin your friendship. Drugs can make people do fucked up things. When I was addicited to heroin I got a couple friends high on it, friends who didn't use, and the circle of people that I used with were always bumping each other out, same with coke, OCs, etc...it's just getting high with your friends, just with a different drug.............or so it seemed at the time. Now I feel horrible about doing that, and my friends feel the same exact way. Someday your friend probably will too, it'll just take time. It takes a long time and a lot of bad shit for people to finally learn the lesson, to finally learn that some drugs are evil.

In the meantime, stick with both of them, and be there for them when they decide to stop using.


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: 40oz]
    #4547986 - 08/17/05 08:22 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Another question you should be asking:

How old is too old to be hanging out with 16 year olds?

IMO, 19 is the MAXIMUM age that you can get away with chilling with 10th graders. Even that's pushing it.


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #4548000 - 08/17/05 08:25 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

electrode said:
Another question you should be asking:

How old is too old to be hanging out with 16 year olds?

IMO, 19 is the MAXIMUM age that you can get away with chilling with 10th graders.  Even that's pushing it.




I would be asking myself that exact question if in the situation. Seems too young if you ask me and I'm 19. How old are you forty?? :crazy:


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #4548010 - 08/17/05 08:29 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

im 19 and i got some 16 yr old friends. i dont trust em or sell them anything but they cool. hell i even got a 15 yr old homie that can hook me up with hella strong vicodins and he gets alot of OCs (but i dont care about those so i dont need to buy em)


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Re: Do i have a reason to be pissed? [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #4548038 - 08/17/05 08:35 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

electrode said:
Another question you should be asking:

How old is too old to be hanging out with 16 year olds?

IMO, 19 is the MAXIMUM age that you can get away with chilling with 10th graders.  Even that's pushing it.





:nonono:

that may be fine for you but it doesnt hold true for everyone, I have many
friends that are minors, people that look up to me and that I offer guidance
people whos parents have met and trust me, on of them decides to run away
and the first place they come is my house, it's a safe haven, I notify their
parents and let them know everything is cool and act as an intermediary in many
situations, I help these kids to see the adults POV without passing judgement
on them for something they had done

when I was 28, I was the most popular guy at a local high school, I had never set foot in that school.


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