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So i guess i have no chance at this girl?
#4527863 - 08/12/05 07:40 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Names and shit are made up.
Anyways wednesday night me, my freind jim, nikki, and nikkis bestfriend jen were drinking at jims house.
Anyways were all pretty drunk. Nikki has to go home at 12:30 cause she had probation the next morning early. i drove her home.
I come back and Jen asks me "do you like nikki?" i am like "what do u mean?" and she says "do you like her like like that?" and i say "yea i guess i do" and she says "do you just want to hook up with her or be her boyfriend?" and im like "i dont know i guess either"
Anyways the next night comes and Jen calls me around 9. She was at work all day and calls me up and says "hey do you know where nikki is? (she has no cell phone)" and i say "no i havent talked to her all day". then she asks me if i want to hang out but i was already out so i didnt.
But im assuming that they didnt hang out last night. Im also assuming that Jen told Nikki what i said cause they are absolutely best friends.... Jen was working until 8:30 tonight and i was expecting them to call me tonight for sure (one of them usually calls me every day....)
But they havent called me yet and im guessing they arent....
So yea. I have made out with Nikki 2 times but she was pretty drunk both times (as was i, and the 2 times were like a month apart)
im looking for some advice in this situation? These girls almost always hang out together and call me like 4 or 5 times a week to hang out. And Nikkis away message on aol says shes hanging out with Jen. I mean its possible they are hanging out with a bunch of girls or something like that but i just need some of you guys opinions on this. Im pretty drunk right now and need to know wtf i should do if anything. I mean even if nothing else i would like to remain friends with the both of them cause i consider them to be good friends. I would like to be more with Nikki but if not i mean i am fine with that too
Edited by TysonTomko (08/12/05 07:43 PM)
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527869 - 08/12/05 07:43 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Edited by Booooom (08/12/05 07:44 PM)
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Boom]
#4527873 - 08/12/05 07:44 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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boooom come on man i am serious for once.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527874 - 08/12/05 07:45 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Are you 15?
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Boom]
#4527877 - 08/12/05 07:46 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Oh...
And yeah call her, wtf, they call you 4-5 times a week? Call them, go hang out with "Nikki" or whatever
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: adrug]
#4527878 - 08/12/05 07:46 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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adrug said: Are you 15?
I was thinkin' bout having a reply like that
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527880 - 08/12/05 07:47 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: adrug]
#4527883 - 08/12/05 07:48 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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adrug said: Are you 15?
i was on this site before you dude. show some fucking respect. Either give me a good answer or dont respond. im drunk as hell and need some god damn clear thinkign
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Worf]
#4527884 - 08/12/05 07:49 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Of course you have a chance. Just give her teh
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527886 - 08/12/05 07:50 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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1) Call this girl 2) Meet up 3) ...
It's pretty simple, if they are calling you that many times a week
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527888 - 08/12/05 07:50 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ask Jen what the deal is.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527889 - 08/12/05 07:50 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Wait for sober times, then call her and ask her if she wants to drink something with you.... Thats how we do it in Holland
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527894 - 08/12/05 07:52 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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You were? Funny, my reg date is years before yours. Not that it matters anyway...
I'm just saying, the whole back and forth, having her friends ask you if you like her, that's just juvenile. Reminds me of junior high school.
If you're NOT 15, I suggest you try finding a chick who has the gumption to actually talk to you herself instead of relaying "do you like so and so" messages through her friends.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Annom]
#4527895 - 08/12/05 07:52 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Annom said: Wait for sober times, then call her and ask her if she wants to drink something with you.... Thats how we do it in Holland
yea dude but thats the problem. i drink with jen and nikki both all the time. I am pretty sure Jen told Nikki what i told her.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Boom]
#4527896 - 08/12/05 07:52 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Booooom said: 1) Call this girl 2) Meet up 3) ...
It's pretty simple, if they are calling you that many times a week
Yeah, that's all! Just make sure you are alone with her....
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: adrug]
#4527901 - 08/12/05 07:54 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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adrug said: You were? Funny, my reg date is years before yours. Not that it matters anyway...
I'm just saying, the whole back and forth, having her friends ask you if you like her, that's just juvenile. Reminds me of junior high school.
If you're NOT 15, I suggest you try finding a chick who has the gumption to actually talk to you herself instead of relaying "do you like so and so" messages through her friends.
this isnt my first name....
and her friend didnt ask on nikkis behalf. i think she just wanted to know. i asked her why she thought i might and she said cause i acted like i did.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527910 - 08/12/05 07:57 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Worf]
#4527918 - 08/12/05 07:58 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Don't be scurrrrrred. Just tell the chick you like her, see what happens. If that doesn't work, grow up and move on.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Worf]
#4527919 - 08/12/05 07:58 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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outputrotation said: beeerr weeed
come on dude dont just say my name. like i drank a lot already tonight and just really want some advice
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Annom]
#4527920 - 08/12/05 07:59 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Do you think she asked because you acted like you love her?
Forget about her and your friend, what do you think that Nikki thinks about you?
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Worf]
#4527925 - 08/12/05 08:01 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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outputrotation said: beeerr weeed
don't ruin the fun plz!
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Worf]
#4527929 - 08/12/05 08:02 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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outputrotation said: beeerr weeed
ya, i think so.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Annom]
#4527933 - 08/12/05 08:05 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Annom said: Do you think she asked because you acted like you love her?
Forget about her and your friend, what do you think that Nikki thinks about you?
i dont know dude. I mean i wouldnt say i "love" nikki at all. i find her attractiv and like her personality tho. I mean yea i basically talked with nikki most of the night on wednesday and she knew me and nikki made out in the past so im guessing thats why she asked me. Jim and her were alone for like 10 minutes when i was giving her a ride home. Jim is one of my best friends and he might have said something to jen along the lines of "whats the deal with jen and Tyson" and then she asked me
I really dont know what nikki thinks about me. I mean she ims me a lot and calls me a lot but she us usually hanging out with Jen when we chill (the 2 of them are best friends and almost always hang out) She does im me a lot in the afternoon to make plans with me at night tho.
And both times i made out with her niether of us mentioned it after the fact. I mean she was very drunk both times we did it. So i really dont know. We definitly are friends and get along but besides that i really dont know much better then you
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527951 - 08/12/05 08:12 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Why don't you call her and ask her for a "private" conversation(don't use these words)?
That is a normal thing for friends. Friends don't always meet in a group.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Annom]
#4527959 - 08/12/05 08:15 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Annom said: Why don't you call her and ask her for a "private" conversation(don't use these words)?
That is a normal thing for friends. Friends don't always meet in a group.
me and her have chilled one on 1 before obviously. What do u mean tho? Like nikki and jen are best friends and i respect that. Jen is a very nice girl and i am good friends with her. I really dont mind if she chills with us cause nothing really is changed if she does.
Do you mean on the phone or in person?
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527972 - 08/12/05 08:22 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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No problem with chilling with Jen and Nikki, but if you want to be her BF you need to talk with Nikki without Jen.
Not on the phone, in person. Ask her out for diner or something and just observe how she reacts to things you do and say. Be subtle and just watch her reaction.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Annom]
#4527984 - 08/12/05 08:29 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Annom said: No problem with chilling with Jen and Nikki, but if you want to be her BF you need to talk with Nikki without Jen.
Not on the phone, in person. Ask her out for diner or something and just observe how she reacts to things you do and say. Be subtle and just watch her reaction.
well you would agree that jen probaly told nikki what i said about her? the 2 of them are extremely good friends. like i really cant stress enough how good of friends they are.
the only reason im worried is cause i would assume jen told nikki and if nikki was interested she would have called me or something.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527985 - 08/12/05 08:29 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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ya, get her alone. then put your thumb up her butt. thats the best way ive found to see how a girl really feels about you. never fails
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527991 - 08/12/05 08:32 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah, I'm sure she told Nikki. That's why there is no way back.
I don't know why Jen asked you and I don't know if Nikki likes you that much, but there is only one way to find out. You can take the risk or forget about it.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4527994 - 08/12/05 08:32 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Jesus Christ, just ask Jen if Nikki is into you or not.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: wrestler_az]
#4527999 - 08/12/05 08:33 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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wrestler_az said: ya, get her alone. then put your thumb up her butt. thats the best way ive found to see how a girl really feels about you. never fails
Never failed for me either!
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4528019 - 08/12/05 08:43 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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You're stressing over this shit way too much. You should never go through another person to let a girl know how you feel. You should've told her to talk to you directly from the start.
I wouldn't stand for that kind of junior high bullshit.
Then again, that girl could've just been curious as to whether or not you liked her friend.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: mantis]
#4528033 - 08/12/05 08:46 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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mantis said: I wouldn't stand for that kind of junior high bullshit.
I have to agree with that.
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Annom]
#4528057 - 08/12/05 08:57 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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-------------------- -QuantumMeltdown Total abstinence is so excellent a thing that it cannot be carried to too great an extent. In my passion for it I even carry it so far as to totally abstain from total abstinence itself. -Mark Twain "The time has come the walrus said, little oysters hide their heads, my Twain of thought is loosely bound I guess its time to Mark this down, Be good and you will be lonesome Be lonesome and you will be free Live a lie and you will live to regret it That's what livin' is to me That's what livin' is to me" Jimmy Buffett
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: Annom]
#4528060 - 08/12/05 08:59 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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mantis said: I wouldn't stand for that kind of junior high bullshit.
I have to agree with that.
what jr high bullshit tho? Like i think her friend wanted to just know just to know. anyways im going out so dont expect a response from me for a couple hours or tommorow
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
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-------------------- -QuantumMeltdown Total abstinence is so excellent a thing that it cannot be carried to too great an extent. In my passion for it I even carry it so far as to totally abstain from total abstinence itself. -Mark Twain "The time has come the walrus said, little oysters hide their heads, my Twain of thought is loosely bound I guess its time to Mark this down, Be good and you will be lonesome Be lonesome and you will be free Live a lie and you will live to regret it That's what livin' is to me That's what livin' is to me" Jimmy Buffett
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: QuantumMeltdown]
#4528101 - 08/12/05 09:17 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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QuantumMeltdown said:
you found a pick of "nikki" and "jen" !?!
wow they are hot.....wonder which ones nikki?
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: wrestler_az]
#4528120 - 08/12/05 09:21 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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^dude wtf. you are a moderator and supposed to be an example of a good poster. I asked repeatedly that i be taken seriously in this topic and you dont have enough respect towards me to do that?
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4528126 - 08/12/05 09:25 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Why dont you think we are taking you seriously? This pic is pretty serious bro.
-------------------- -QuantumMeltdown Total abstinence is so excellent a thing that it cannot be carried to too great an extent. In my passion for it I even carry it so far as to totally abstain from total abstinence itself. -Mark Twain "The time has come the walrus said, little oysters hide their heads, my Twain of thought is loosely bound I guess its time to Mark this down, Be good and you will be lonesome Be lonesome and you will be free Live a lie and you will live to regret it That's what livin' is to me That's what livin' is to me" Jimmy Buffett
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Re: So i guess i have no chance at this girl? [Re: TysonTomko]
#4528130 - 08/12/05 09:27 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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ummmm..... i am?
/me chesks pants for banning stick
nope, not there
anyway, its called a joke.....and right now im stoned and cant take anything seriously. just go talk to her man, alone with out her friend. what are you so scared of? shes just a girl. quit being such a drama queen. grow some balls and go find out. the sooner the better....you hesitate too long and you might just become another "friend" losing any chance you might have once had. if shes just another bitch and that dont bother you none, then fuck it. either way its just better to get it over with.
seriously
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