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nightkrawler
explorer
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you seriously don't have to be an asshole about it green glow. if you're not going to contribute anything useful, don't post.
i hate condoms too. they are the worst. i've only had one one night thing without a condom before, the only other time i havent used a condom has been with girlfriends. i know it's a huge risk without a condom, and you made me think about it Kristi. i'm not ever going to go condomless on one night only things anymore. from this day forward i'm only gonna go without them if i'm in a relationship. i figure if i'm going out with someone and having a lot of sex with a condom, chances are i'm going to catch something if they have it anyway because condoms aren't 100%.
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KristiMidocean
fattie whale
Registered: 01/27/05
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Loc: Texas
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hey everyone I really thank you for your kind words. I really do.
for those of you who want to call me a slut that is your thing. I know who I am and I know that many people would think I was a slut because I was tested for stds but you know what that is your opinion.
My boyfriend and I are very much in love. However ( and I know this is sad) he has great fear of commettment and often times when things start to et really serious with us he breaks up with me. My heart gets crushed every time because I do love him so much.... If I sit at home waiting for him to call me I go nuts... crazy crazy crazy.......
in the two years we have been together I have only slept with one other guy.. and we were broke up when it happened.... I had just met thee guy but it was a friend of my best friend... I dont go to a club pick some guy up and take them home.. thats dirty... and as far as I knew he was a sweet guy looked clean and I was totally into him.... He helped me keep my mind off of the pain I was in.....
If that makes me a slut then oh well Im saying IM A SLUT.....
I truely love sex. if it can distract me for a few hours from jumping off a bridge then its good for me.... when my boyfriend and I got back together I told him what I did... Its not like I kept it a secret. I am coompletly honest with him.
My biggest regret however is that I didnt use protection... and that I could have possible have spread that to my boyfriend.
Anyways I didnt write this thread to start any fights I just wrote it to help people see how important ( no matter how clean the other person looks or how shity it feels) it is to protect yourself thats all
I love sex and I always will. Maybe Im not like what people say I am suppose to be but you know I was raised to be fake by my parents and in the last 3-4 years I have fought hard to be myself. Now that I am who I am I am not ashamed. So call me what you will because you can't break me down
Thank you to all of you who understand
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RandalFlagg
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Registered: 06/15/02
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KristiMidocean said: Thank you to all of you who understand
Hey, you and I are just horndogs. Nothing wrong with that.
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KristiMidocean
fattie whale
Registered: 01/27/05
Posts: 3,702
Loc: Texas
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you are so silly
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HarryFlashmanVC
That BeastlyFlashy
Registered: 05/24/05
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I truely love sex. if it can distract me for a few hours from jumping off a bridge then its good for me....
If you mean that truthfully, seek help. You're head is not right if the only thing that will stop you topping yourself is a length of cock.....
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Mitchnast
Toadmonger
Registered: 10/27/99
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Loc: Okanagan
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yeah really. if you need sex in place of peace of mind for whatever reason... futhermore if you can keep justifying torturing yourself with a boy who cant grow up...
then youre really nothing special. youre every other woman who never ammounted to anything and blames it all on men.
because your pivoting your value upon a dick. and they wont always stand up for you.
you know those old ladies who got married a few times and gave up? old and lonely and occasionally dating semi-insane burn outs? they were you at your age. couldnt figure out what to do for themselves, depended on a guy who couldnt commit and just never got it. never developed an adults common sense. and never were accountable.
its too late for them, not for you, but somebody no doubt told them this stuff when they were you and they never wised up, will you?
when youre alone you go crazy right? you dont have a mans sex drive. even the most wroreish of men dont contemplate suicide when they arent getting laid. theres something far more insidious in there. what you have is classic transference of your own problems onto men. youre terribly insecure. your jelous of girls who seem to be happy and have sex in their life, and it eats you, you want that normalicy, so much that you forgo relationships and personal safetey to get it. im not calling you a slut. that would make it to easy for you to deflect. a slut isnt "real" its just a subjective and malicious opinion. you got too much beating up on yourself to do to bother letting others do it with words.
i think you need to find some sort of meaning, some positive focus that has nothing to do with sex.
honestly i cant think of anything tho. not much i can think of that you couldnt try to endevour sexual relations through.
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Icelander
The Minstrel in the Gallery
Registered: 03/15/05
Posts: 95,368
Loc: underbelly
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Re: STD's and my story [Re: Mitchnast]
#4459903 - 07/27/05 11:57 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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honestly i cant think of anything tho. not much i can think of that you couldnt try to endevour sexual relations through. _____________________________________________________
How about a theraputic dose of shrooms?
Good post by the way.
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trendal
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Loc: Ontario, Canada
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The_Green_Glow said: Mod edit: Your flamey comments are not welcome.
This is off topic but...
Man you need to learn some manners if you want to continue posting in this forum. This forum was set up as a SUPPORT forum, to help your fellow members who are in emotional/mental/physical distress.
It is not a forum for you to insult people or judge others according to your own narrow viewpoint.
If you can't say something constructive...don't say anything at all (at least in THIS forum). If you can't abide by that simple rule, I'm sure one of the mods/admin will be more than happy to click that "BAN" button.
Just a friendly reminder
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Once, men turned their thinking over to machines in the hope that this would set them free. But that only permitted other men with machines to enslave them.
Edited by EllemyshShade (07/27/05 02:37 PM)
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drtyfrnk
PresidentialCandidate 2008
Registered: 01/24/05
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Loc: Ontario, Canada
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Re: STD's and my story [Re: trendal]
#4460250 - 07/27/05 01:43 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Thanks for posting that Tren, we all appreciate the reminder.
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MOTH
Wild Woman
Registered: 06/06/03
Posts: 23,431
Loc: In the jungle
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Re: STD's and my story [Re: trendal]
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trendal said:
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The_Green_Glow said:Mod edit: Your flamey comments are not welcome.
This is off topic but...
Man you need to learn some manners if you want to continue posting in this forum. This forum was set up as a SUPPORT forum, to help your fellow members who are in emotional/mental/physical distress.
It is not a forum for you to insult people or judge others according to your own narrow viewpoint.
If you can't say something constructive...don't say anything at all (at least in THIS forum). If you can't abide by that simple rule, I'm sure one of the mods/admin will be more than happy to click that "BAN" button.
Just a friendly reminder
You're totally right, Trendal. I guess I need to start cracking down more on flamey remarks in this forum.
Edited by EllemyshShade (07/27/05 02:37 PM)
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KristiMidocean
fattie whale
Registered: 01/27/05
Posts: 3,702
Loc: Texas
Last seen: 9 years, 7 months
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Re: STD's and my story [Re: Mitchnast]
#4462520 - 07/28/05 12:03 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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I would really love to talk with you!
You said a lot of really true things that kind of hit at my core.
Would you mind if I pmed you sometime/?
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Mitchnast
Toadmonger
Registered: 10/27/99
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Loc: Okanagan
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sure, i was worried you might take offense.
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ShroomOmatic
Ethno Apprentice
Registered: 10/14/04
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Loc: Sailing the Seas of Chees...
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I'm glad your ok and were lucky enough to make it out without any problems.
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The_Green_Glow
i consume yasoul
Registered: 02/20/05
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*Edit: please do not comment if you have nothing nice to say.*
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Edited by EllemyshShade (07/29/05 01:03 PM)
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Gijith
Daisy Chain Eater
Registered: 12/04/03
Posts: 2,400
Loc: New York
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Krisi,
It's great that you've been able to make it clear of STDs. Like other people have said, don't listen to anyone who tries to call you a slut or whatever. When men do it, it's probably cause they're a little threatened. When women do it, it's probably because the vast vast majority of women out there don't have as strong a sex drive and don't multi-orgasm and such. Just jealousy and fear...
One thing to be careful of is to make sure you're not using sexuality to actively seek out any sort of chaos. Sometimes, in girls particularly, an extremely active sex drive can be a sign of sexual addiction brought on by psych issues.... I'm definitely not saying this about you! But a good way to make sure you're being safe is to make sure you're not acting in any sort of compulsive way.
Good luck. Hope things work out with your boyfriend. Be safe.
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baraka
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hrmmmm....
welll....
yeah i guess. Be careful.
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Edited by baraka (07/29/05 05:41 PM)
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KristiMidocean
fattie whale
Registered: 01/27/05
Posts: 3,702
Loc: Texas
Last seen: 9 years, 7 months
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Re: STD's and my story [Re: Gijith]
#4477902 - 07/31/05 05:11 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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thats exacly what it was and you are right. A lot of he time I do things not thinking of the outcome might come too and this is not good. This has definatly made me think before acting and I have learned many lessons from all of this.
Thank you for your reply
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