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InvisibleIcelander
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Private sex lives
    #4324160 - 06/22/05 11:48 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Also a serious question, and all jokes welcome. :grin:

Do you have a private sex life that you are unwilling to share with anyone else? I find it hard to share all of my sexual thoughts with my partner. I am reluctant to share everything.  Do you think its important to share everything? What do you think? :mushroom2:


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Icelander]
    #4324172 - 06/22/05 11:58 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

i think it takes a certain type of person to be able to share all sexual thoughts with their partner, but to share these things certainly would strengthen the bond between you. personally i don't always share, (I'm not sure if this is what you meant but) like to be specific, my girlfriend isn't the best at giving head. she goes down there and gets the job done but i wont be able to get off if i just lay there and enjoy. i have to be proactive about it, with breath control and some serious concentrating. while I'm not complaining, i have received head from girls that were much better then she is. i find it to be a more enjoyable experience if you get to just lay there and receive. this is something that i have never shared with her. why? i don't know. maybe i will.


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Icelander]
    #4324194 - 06/22/05 12:11 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Yea, I pretty much share everything and why not? Unless it's some freaky shit like scat play that your partner would surely not be into (or would they?) I don't see why you wouldn't share it all. At worst she'll think you're a little strange, at best she'll fulfill all your fantasies and desires. I say spill it.


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Irradiated_Feces]
    #4324198 - 06/22/05 12:12 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

btw, theres a fuck of a lot of views on this thread and very little replies... hmm...


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Irradiated_Feces]
    #4324237 - 06/22/05 12:21 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

I consider myself very uninhibited, yet I still struggle with full disclosure of my kinks and quirks. I fixate on the reaction my disclosure will receive, and talk myself out of being completely honest. I hint around, suggest, flirt with the truth...then chicken out.


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Icelander]
    #4324245 - 06/22/05 12:23 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

I think it depends on the partner; some are more uptight than others.


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Veritas]
    #4324254 - 06/22/05 12:25 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

"Flirt with the truth"

Well no wonder you are having issues.  You flirt, but then don't deliver.  Come on woman, I thought you were the tantric artiste hedonist let it go type... :confused:


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Icelander]
    #4324268 - 06/22/05 12:27 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

"I find it hard"

Does this tie in with your masturbation thread? :tongue:


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: LunarEclipse]
    #4324293 - 06/22/05 12:31 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Yes, I agree that it is contradictory. I imagine that others cannot "handle" my full disclosure, but really I am afraid that I can't handle their negative response.


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: LunarEclipse]
    #4324323 - 06/22/05 12:38 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

LunarEclipse said:
"I find it hard"

Does this tie in with your masturbation thread? :tongue:




Of course :grin: and of course you would notice. :wink:


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Veritas]
    #4324324 - 06/22/05 12:39 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

If they are the right one for you there shouldn't be negative responses, or not ones that will hurt you anyways...


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Veritas]
    #4324328 - 06/22/05 12:39 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Veritas said:
Yes, I agree that it is contradictory.  I imagine that others cannot "handle" my full disclosure, but really I am afraid that I can't handle their negative response.




:thumbup:


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" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Irradiated_Feces]
    #4324345 - 06/22/05 12:43 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Yes, it is not really outside judgment I am worried about. I have already judged myself, and the work I do with Tantra is about freeing myself from that condemnation.


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Icelander]
    #4324878 - 06/22/05 03:21 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

I never share anything regarding sex and relationships with other people, only with other women. I feel much more confortable talking about my sex life with women then with men.


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: OldWoodSpecter]
    #4324927 - 06/22/05 03:34 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

That's a big one. Sharing intimate details of sex man to man is scary. I do have some friends who are on a shamanic path. We do share these things as they are part of the process of growth we are seeking. Also men on the tantric path are often very open and honest about there joys and travails in the sexual sphere. :mushroom2:


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" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Veritas]
    #4324986 - 06/22/05 03:46 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

I hint around, suggest, flirt with the truth...then chicken out.

So you are afraid to tell him of your fixation with chickens?  :grin:


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Swami]
    #4325005 - 06/22/05 03:50 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

So that explains the feathers and eggs. :shocked: :heart:

Lets give it a go. :mushroom2:


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Swami]
    #4325009 - 06/22/05 03:50 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Wouldn't that be chicken IN?

mmm mmm finger lickin' good...


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Swami]
    #4325032 - 06/22/05 03:56 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

fixation with chickens

Isn't that why Hanky got banned?  :blush:


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2) You can't have an abortion no matter how much you don't want a child.
3) You can't have a certain plant in your possession or you'll get locked up with a rapist and a murderer.

4) We need a smaller, less-intrusive government.


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Re: Private sex lives [Re: Icelander]
    #4325058 - 06/22/05 04:01 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

sexual sphere? Was is that?
I imagine a big ball where people screw each other on the surface


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