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MAIA
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: barfightlard]
#4317135 - 06/20/05 01:16 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Get well, i hope so ...
MAIA
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Kerr
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: BoneMan]
#4317174 - 06/20/05 01:34 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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BoneMan
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: Kerr]
#4318836 - 06/20/05 09:47 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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well I went to the hospital tonight. its a terrible sight. hes just lying in the bed with countless tubes coming in and out of him.. a big neck brace to keep his neck and head straight. a tube in his mouth that breathes for him.. it looks like him, but its so weird.. it seems more like a life size doll of him.. his eyes were slightly open.. all i could think about was whether his soul was still in there, or if he had any kind of awareness at all.. but hes brain dead, and shows no response to any kind of stimulus.. tomorrow morning, they will do a few more tests but its pretty much hopeless. they're going to take him off the respirator and discontinue the drugs that keep his blood pressure going (his brain cant even regulate his blood pressure, or control his breathing, let alone think) so after that he will pass quickly and be at peace.
I will be waiting for him to contact me in a dream, just as 3 out of 4 of my grandparents did after they died. who knows if its real, but it sure is comforting.
i feel sooo bad for his parents and his brother. his bro is my age and was closer to him than he is to any friends, but he seems to be holding strong.. they're all being incredibly strong. the parents have been at the hospital for the last 2 nights, with little/no sleep. im trying to think of ways to help them out.
oh, and I already started to compose a song in my cousin's memory. its a delicate piano piece, and when i write some more of it i will record it and let you guys have a listen.
thanks for all of your support
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Stonerguy
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: BoneMan]
#4318864 - 06/20/05 09:56 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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I would def love to hear your song. I wish he gets better. Brain swelling is no good . Im sorry bro, make sure you help his parents through this they are going to be depressed for a long time. Much love
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: BoneMan]
#4318867 - 06/20/05 09:57 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Try to find out what caused this. What drugs, was it an OD, was it a combination of drugs.
Knowledge is power and the more we know about what happened, the less likely it will be to happen again.
My heart goes out to you and your cousin...
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: Stonerguy]
#4318889 - 06/20/05 10:04 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'm so sorry....
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BoneMan
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: Diploid]
#4318937 - 06/20/05 10:18 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Diploid said: Try to find out what caused this. What drugs, was it an OD, was it a combination of drugs.
maybe the autopsy will reveal that. his mom told me that the kids house he stayed at was a total dump. roaches, trash, booze. the dad had pain pills for a recent hip replacement surgery. the kid had been in trouble with the law before and when the police showed up he said "anything you find, its not mine"
also, when my aunt went to see my cousin into the ambulance and off to the hospital, the kid said "fuck you" and "get the hell out of our house" needless to say, he was hanging out with a bad egg.
as the police searched the house, they also went thru the garbage.. but in order to search that, they had to dump it outside.. because it was such a mess inside that the trash they just dumped out blended into the trash already on the floor.
but to answer your question, it was probably a combination of ADD meds, liquor, and possible pain pills or some sort. but who knows, it really doesnt make a difference now
from now on, im staying away from everything but pot and psychedelics.. i havent even tripped in over a year, but i feel like im overdue for one. looks like im gonna be waiting a while longer until this stuff all passes and i have come to terms with the loss.
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Stonerguy
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: BoneMan]
#4318952 - 06/20/05 10:23 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
BoneMan said: from now on, im staying away from everything but pot and psychedelics.. i havent even tripped in over a year, but i feel like im overdue for one. looks like im gonna be waiting a while longer until this stuff all passes and i have come to terms with the loss.
Take it easy for awhile, good thinkin.
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THE KRAT BARON
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: BoneMan]
#4318966 - 06/20/05 10:27 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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BoneMan said: also, when my aunt went to see my cousin into the ambulance and off to the hospital, the kid said "fuck you" and "get the hell out of our house"
This kid your cousin was hanging out with sounds like a piece of shit. I can't believe he was acting that way under the circumstances. That is just wild.
I'm very sorry to hear that your cousin isn't doing very well. Ill be sure to say a prayer for him tonight bro. Just keep praying and keep hope, that is all that can be done at this point.
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Learyfan
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: BoneMan]
#4319003 - 06/20/05 10:37 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'm pulling for him.
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BoneMan
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
#4319012 - 06/20/05 10:40 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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yea really, what a piece of shit, what a scumbag to say that to his mother! thats so low. so inconsiderate. but thats how many 15 year olds are.
(i would say most, but im a big opponent of making generalizations)
I envy him because soon he will know the answer to the question that no living person knows for sure. what happens when you die?
I also want him to know that we're not mad at him or ashamed or anything. the circumstances of his death are irrelevant when held up against the love we all have for him. I wish him a peaceful passing, and hope that he will get to explore limitless eternity and become one with the universe. or maybe be reborn.
some day, he and I will meet again
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: BoneMan]
#4319050 - 06/20/05 10:50 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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so thats it? theres no hope left?
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: BoneMan]
#4319066 - 06/20/05 10:53 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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I hope they charge the father with neglect causing death
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: BoneMan]
#4319070 - 06/20/05 10:54 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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OMG! that is sad. .anyone at that age is courious about drugs and other things in life..kind of and experimental age....I never seen this post until today,..sorry to hear about that..
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: BoneMan]
#4319114 - 06/20/05 11:03 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Indeed, the power of many minds thinking one thought is more powerful than most realize. My thoughts are there. May the energy needed be the energy given.
All the best.
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Re: Cousin in critical condition.. need some positive vibes pleeaase [Re: BoneMan]
#4319140 - 06/20/05 11:08 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Positive vibes sent. Look for support from family and friends during times such as these.
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