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OfflineUncleLuke
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What could cause this?
    #4284776 - 06/11/05 11:35 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

For the past couple months I've been having delusions or something. Every time I talk to my g/f on the phone, I think she's lying to me about something even though shes not. I always have this strong feeling like she's cheating on me or lying to me or hates me, but really I know she isn't. I have no idea why I always feel this way. She's my best friend and she would never lie to me or cheat on me... ever. She's always been honest with me.

What is causing me to keep feeling this way?? It's like every time I talk to her on the phone now, I get real depressed because I feel like she's not being honest with me.

Someone help me! Tell me what is causing this!!!


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Invisiblepsyillyazul
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Re: What could cause this? [Re: UncleLuke]
    #4285007 - 06/12/05 01:42 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Dishonesty. I think you can sense it. Sit down and talk. Its all in the patterns. Are you honest??


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OfflineUlisSausage7
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Re: What could cause this? [Re: psyillyazul]
    #4285032 - 06/12/05 01:47 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

well maybe you are getting suspicious for a reason, talk to her about it


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InvisibleIcelander
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Re: What could cause this? [Re: UlisSausage7]
    #4285906 - 06/12/05 09:18 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

To the above two posts.

:thumbup: :thumbup:


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" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
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Re: What could cause this? [Re: UncleLuke]
    #4286056 - 06/12/05 11:02 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

UncleLuke said:
For the past couple months I've been having delusions or something. Every time I talk to my g/f on the phone, I think she's lying to me about something even though shes not. I always have this strong feeling like she's cheating on me or lying to me or hates me, but really I know she isn't. I have no idea why I always feel this way. She's my best friend and she would never lie to me or cheat on me... ever. She's always been honest with me.

What is causing me to keep feeling this way?? It's like every time I talk to her on the phone now, I get real depressed because I feel like she's not being honest with me.

Someone help me! Tell me what is causing this!!!




This might just be a lack of confidence on your part.


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: NosferatuMan]
    #4286242 - 06/12/05 12:21 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

If he didn't have any confidence he wouldn't have a girl in the first place.


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: Adden]
    #4286249 - 06/12/05 12:23 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

not true.
insecurity can often rear it ugly head after you have something to loe
then make you lose it.


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: UlisSausage7]
    #4286288 - 06/12/05 12:37 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

UlisSausage7 said:
well maybe you are getting suspicious for a reason, talk to her about it




Definately talk to her about it. I understand where you're coming from because I can have that trust issue with my own. The best thing you can do is to communicate about EXACTLY what bothers you at all times. This will likely bring you closer, unless she actually is hiding something which sounds doubtful.

The feeling of discussing something with someone that was really bothering you about them is amazing when you come to peaceful closure. Do it for the peace of mind of your relationship.


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: Society]
    #4286487 - 06/12/05 01:31 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

I have talked to her about it. She's not hiding anything. A very strong value in our relationship is honesty. We would never lie to one another. I know shes not doing anything wrong, so why is it bothering me all day? Could this be a symptom of severe depression? Social anxeity? Borderline Personality Disorder?
Am I having delusions? Am I just being paranoid? Am I going insane?


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: UncleLuke]
    #4286622 - 06/12/05 02:04 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

You sound pretty paranoid. Chill. Everything is fine. You are okay, she is okay, and best of all, you both have as long as you want to solve what ever problems you need to. Or not. Completely up to you. Don't feel like you need to fill some prefit kicks, neither expect her to fit into glass slippers. Do you know what Love Is?? Do you Love each other, or do you hope that you do?? Are you willing to work for it?? In my experience people can all together be living a LIE and be 100% unaware of it. That would be most of the population. Sucks. Suppose the Truth is making itself known.


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: psyillyazul]
    #4286648 - 06/12/05 02:08 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

This is not good. When trouble arises, why does everyone claim insanity?? Take responsibility and figure shit out. Insanity is a crutch used when you can't explain your Self. Solve the Problem. You have a brain, right?? The fucking brain is amazing!! Use it. You are not insane!! The feelings you feel are normal, listen to them, right them. Forget insanity, forget delusions, forget disorder... For these are all realizations of the higher dimensions. Disorder is the common ground. The higher ground. Welcome.


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: UncleLuke]
    #4286882 - 06/12/05 03:08 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Perhaps it would be wise to take a break from psychoactives, if you do them frequently.


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: psyillyazul]
    #4287023 - 06/12/05 03:52 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

I've only taken acid once and shrooms once. Other than that I drink beer about once a week, and smoke pot about once every 2 weeks.


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: UncleLuke]
    #4288435 - 06/12/05 09:16 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

you are tapping in to the timeless truth, thus rendering truth itself, untrue,...

my guess..


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: psyillyazul]
    #4288452 - 06/12/05 09:23 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

For the most part I agree with this. This is not good! :mushroom2:


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: Icelander]
    #4289999 - 06/13/05 04:11 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

It's definitely sounds like a bit of insecurity and depression. I use to feel that way too. It's a vicious cycle that only you can break. I mean the world doesn't make it any easier with guys always coming on to any girl they can. A lot of girls act all sexy and flirtatious towards guys but that doesn't mean they would actually fuck those guys. Girls just love to flaunt and this could also be the problem. If she's a bit wild, then let her know she needs to tame down some. If you are sure that she's telling the truth then it's insecurity on your part causing the constant thoughts. Negative thoughts about her will only make it worse, you've gotta fight them out of your head with everything you've got or it will get worse. It's hard to stop thinking this way but with time it will subside and things will get better.


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: EnCHaNTeDHoBBiT]
    #4302472 - 06/16/05 03:51 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Fight them out of your head?? Fight?? The idea is to make peace with your negaitves. Find solutions not band-aids.


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Re: What could cause this? [Re: psyillyazul]
    #4302479 - 06/16/05 03:59 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

In my experience, alcohol is The Depressant. It gives you the illusion that you make progress as a human being while your inhibitions are down.
When you wake up sober, none of the nights 'progress' is carried over. You soon find drinking is the only way to unlock this seemed Self. You soon fall into a rut. Mushrooms on the other hand... Well, eat enough and instead of blacking out, you... Well the opposite. You are flooded with consciousness. Illuminated. If you think this chick is lying she probably is. Tell me, has your intuition in your experience usually been right or wrong?? Do you read people well??


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