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InvisibleRavus
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One-Night Stands
    #4229591 - 05/28/05 12:09 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

What are the Pubber's opinions of one-night stands, or simply finding a girl who you like to experience her without getting into a relationship?

Personally, I love them, and most of my favorite relationships in the past have grown out of these experiences. I believe this is more of humanity's natural way of doing things- approach each other, grow to like each other a bit, give each other some pleasure, and then, if you still want to be with them, advance the relationship further. And if you don't want to advance the relationship, at least you had a good time.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Ravus]
    #4229597 - 05/28/05 12:13 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

It's the incompetent quantum waves that always mix shit up with their entanglement and wave-particle duality, but what are you going to do?

I need a one night stand tho. Bar sluts hrmmm.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Ravus]
    #4229600 - 05/28/05 12:14 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

not for me & never had them.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: baraka]
    #4229606 - 05/28/05 12:16 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

i have them every so often, but really hate it if i sleep with a girl whom i wouldn't want to/wouldn't be able to have a decent conversation with... of course, it happens, and that next morning is always freaking akward when you realize that you don't know this naked person laying next to you at all.

i more often tend to have one-night stands with friends... get very drunk and end up getting together with a friend, and then the next day chuckling about it together...


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: baraka]
    #4229607 - 05/28/05 12:16 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Well, all my experiences of this sort aren't with random strangers or bar-sluts, as that's a good way to spread diseases and get yourself in some trouble, but rather acquaintances or friends who I was not involved with romantically. I doubt I'd have a one-night stand with a random stranger, as I usually need to at least know the person as an acquaintance to determine that they don't just sleep around excessively and are mentally stable.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Ravus]
    #4229610 - 05/28/05 12:18 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

I used to all the time when I was 16-20 but I don't really find myself in those situations anymore. If I'm single and looking I have a couple ex's I can call up and have no strings attatched sex with. Right now I'm in a happy healthy relationship.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Ravus]
    #4229618 - 05/28/05 12:20 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

one-night stands are plenty of fun. I have them every so often when I'm single. as long as everyone involved fully consents and protection is used, it's all good.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Vvellum]
    #4229655 - 05/28/05 12:33 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

I just was involved in a one night stand about 13 days ago. Now it has exploded because the person I was with is in a relationship with someone and has been for 3 years. This one-night-stander and myself are best friends and now it is odd because her boyfriend wants to get married...

It has made a big mess.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Ravus]
    #4229673 - 05/28/05 12:41 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

You know, it's never been something for me but I wouldn't rule it out completely. I think it's healthy for people to have flings now and then, even ones as short as just one lusty night.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Ravus]
    #4229964 - 05/28/05 02:32 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

I agree with what Shroomery member 114933, Ravus has stated.




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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Ravus]
    #4229973 - 05/28/05 02:35 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

They are great.. if no drama is involved.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Shroomism]
    #4229979 - 05/28/05 02:37 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Right drama bites


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Ravus]
    #4230245 - 05/28/05 04:28 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

I've only had one. They're nice, but I don't like to go for bar sluts or anyone like that. My standards for who I'd have a one-nighter with aren't all that different from my standards for a relationship with, so for me, there's not much point to it. I'd much prefer to be at least friends with benefits with the girl.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Silversoul]
    #4230251 - 05/28/05 04:30 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

I'd much prefer to be at least friends with benefits with the girl.




Explain the difference between that and a girlfriend.

Maybe you can cheat on each other, but other than that girlfriends have always been just friends with benefits to me.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Ravus]
    #4230254 - 05/28/05 04:32 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

I dunno. I guess it's not all that different from an open relationship. My point is I'm not really inclined towards one-nighters.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Ravus]
    #4230765 - 05/28/05 07:04 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

I have had a few of them...it is fun, but I want more after that..but one of them was not a good thing, I almost got my ass beat up because of it...good thing I have some people that had my back because of it....drama shit..


Edited by skunk78395 (05/28/05 07:05 PM)


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Skunk420]
    #4230959 - 05/28/05 08:00 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

I met a girl in a bar, took her home and had unprotected sex and never saw her again. That's a true blue one night stand. I was later tested for HIV and got off in the clear. Never showed any symptoms for other STD's. I would never do it again but I like to bring up the memories of it from time to time when I masturbate. It was really fucking sexy. She was a cool chick. I don't think of her as a slut or in any derogatory way. I remember her fondly. I hope she's doing fine.


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
    #4231046 - 05/28/05 08:49 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

true, that is most likely true, yea you got to be careful, get to know her first, then use a condom..that is crazy, this day and age..even in Utah there are a number of std's going around, even in the straight community..mostly it is higher in gay men...but, you can catch any desiese from anyone no matter your sexuality..


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: Ravus]
    #4231323 - 05/28/05 10:05 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

hmmm one night stands are not for me... i've had 2 in the course of my life... one of them i had fun and don't regret and the other one i really do regret because i had no fun at all and almost ruined a relationship... keep in mind that both these 1night stands were with girls i already knew... either way i think the price i pay for a one night stand is too high considering the fun i have... for me there is nothing like the intimacy and connection of having sex with the person you love... god it's unbelievable...


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Re: One-Night Stands [Re: In(di)go]
    #4231595 - 05/28/05 10:51 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

There's been a lot of girls I've just wanted to hump and have nothing more to do with them, because I know we'd be great friends but probably not make it in the long run. But I can't get past that, I don't think I could really have a one-nighter and not think about a chick.

I suck. But I've been in a few long term relationships, all virgins, all total hunnies and having unprotected sex here and there's great. I can't complain with the sex life I have now. :smile:


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