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wrestler_az
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frustration
#4211826 - 05/23/05 08:44 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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i am frustrated. almost all the time. i get frustrated when i dont know what to do, or where to go. i get frustrated when i cant seem to make plans. and when i do, i get frustrated at my lack of will power to keep those plans. i get frustrated with my family. i get frustrated with my jobs. i get frustrated at how easily frustrated i am. the more i live my life, the more it seems like a bad acid loop i cant get out of, no matter how i try. and i try hard, sometimes maybe too hard. ive come a long way in my self growth, but it seems the further i get the further i must go.
just some mindless venting
-------------------- how's your WOW?
Edited by yageman (04/20/06 4:20 PM)
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EnCHaNTeDHoBBiT
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Yeah, we all get this way sometimes I'm sure. When I feel like I have absolutely no ambition, no drive to do anything, that's what gets me down. Only we can change it. You've gotta be honest with yourself and begin to make promises to yourself. You gotta make yourself follow through cause no one can do it for you. That's what I tell myself, it helps sometimes. It's hard to relax when everything's caught up in a ball of neverending frustration. But relax you must. Even though it sounds selfish, you must think of yourself and blow others off whenever possible. They'll just keep you frustrated. Go around with the I don't give a fuck attitude until the frustration subsides and it will help you get the frustration off your chest. I know that's what I do and it helps. You gotta love yourself, be good to yourself, then things will begin falling into place. Just Relax, do something nice for yourself everyday.
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wrestler_az
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im at a really weird spot in my life right now. everything ive ever wanted is just beyond my grasp....if i keep reaching, ill get there eventually. its just my life seemed easier when it was all so far away i couldnt even see it. change is hard.
-------------------- how's your WOW?
Edited by yageman (04/20/06 4:20 PM)
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EnCHaNTeDHoBBiT
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Yeah it's definitely easier when things seem so far out of reach. When they start closing in and you're almost there, it's like shock and even harder than ever to achieve. I've dealt with this and continue to deal with this. It sucks but things have to get better. You wouldn't allow them to get worse so don't worry. At least you acknowledge your goals and plan to achieve, some don't even get that far, so you're already most the way there.
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Doom
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wrestler_az said: i am frustrated. almost all the time. i get frustrated when i dont know what to do, or where to go. i get frustrated when i cant seem to make plans. and when i do, i get frustrated at my lack of will power to keep those plans. i get frustrated with my family. i get frustrated with my jobs. i get frustrated at how easily frustrated i am. the more i live my life, the more it seems like a bad acid loop i cant get out of, no matter how i try. and i try hard, sometimes maybe too hard. ive come a long way in my self growth, but it seems the further i get the further i must go.
just some mindless venting
I suggest you drink more alcohol.
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wrestler_az
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Re: frustration [Re: Doom]
#4215362 - 05/24/05 05:25 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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-------------------- how's your WOW?
Edited by yageman (04/20/06 4:20 PM)
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Icelander
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This works well for Doom!
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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EarthAngel
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wrestler_az said: im at a really weird spot in my life right now. everything ive ever wanted is just beyond my grasp....if i keep reaching, ill get there eventually. its just my life seemed easier when it was all so far away i couldnt even see it. change is hard.
I go through these thoughts and feelings at least once a week, the only thing i found is to go for a walk in the forest and realise that we are'nt already where we want to be, because its not time to be there, and it wont happen until it is the right time so instead of working myslef into a turmoil of complete misery, i just sit down and reflect and begin to be thankful again of what i have done, have and accomplished 
Basically, you know your frustrated, you know why, its only you who can get out adn just do it.
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Jellric
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Don't attach so much energy to outcomes. You are only draining yourself needlessly. Deal with what you have control over and leave the rest to others. Leave no enemy behind. Deal with each issue as it arises. When things don't go as you wish turn the page. Do what you can to make a positive outcome in the here and now and your future will tend to be positive.
Being frustrated is pointless because you are looking in the rear view mirror and not watching the road ahead of you. Before you know it you are in an accident. You go further down the road and review your accident and before you know it you're in another one! There's your " bad acid loop".
-------------------- I AM what Willis was talkin' bout.
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