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Supernova
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Krishna
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i know the feeling. well except for the her being an alcoholic who really loves to drink. shit i can only imagine that makes things much more confusing..
best of luck with it!
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kosmic_charlie
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supernova said:I"m in love with an alcoholic who really loves to drink.
Been there. Careful.
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Mighty Bop
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Women are the devil. They will drain you of time and money....and I always get suckered in dammit.
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myndreach
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Love is great...when it's Trifecta love built on lust, commitment, and intimacy. When it's only made of one of those, or two, it's not "full" love, which is amazing. Each in itself is powerful, and gets confused with true and full love. When you have all three, you understand what was missing before, but until then, you can't.
Me and my wife have all three after years. It takes years to build that intimacy (not just sex lol). The intimacy where you can finish each others sentences, say without saying, connect with their feelings in a truly empathic feeling, etc. Only years can build that.
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Retired
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fuck love! i have had my spring fling and i am tired of it!
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Vvellum
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I"m in love with an alcoholic who really loves to drink. She's so fucking amazing.
sounds like trouble man.
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Mighty Bop
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myndreach said: Love is great...when it's Trifecta love built on lust, commitment, and intimacy. When it's only made of one of those, or two, it's not "full" love, which is amazing. Each in itself is powerful, and gets confused with true and full love. When you have all three, you understand what was missing before, but until then, you can't.
Me and my wife have all three after years. It takes years to build that intimacy (not just sex lol). The intimacy where you can finish each others sentences, say without saying, connect with their feelings in a truly empathic feeling, etc. Only years can build that.
I think this is very possible, but it's too much work to actually have to look for that kind of person. But if I fall into it somehow I will become a believer
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myndreach
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yeah, you definately have to find the right person which takes a lot of luck and/or hard work.
I was lucky and found her in high school over ten years ago. She's great.
The problem nowadays is too many people mistake lust for love, when lust is just part of it. Sure, lust is powerful, and I see why this happens. I used to do the same thing.
It's sort of like a psychadelic breakthrough...until you've had one you have really no idea what it's like.
To get a glimpse, look at a happy elderly couple walking in the park holding hands that has been married for 50 years...you'll sort of see it :-)
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Mighty Bop
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Haha but you can't help but think "Are they really happy??"
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Shroomism
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Careful bro !
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Mighty Bop
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The old people, not myndreach I guess people just get jealous when they see two people together who look happy
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Dark_Star
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Sometimes I think women/love aren't worth it, and just doing mad H is the best option. supernova, good luck with this relationship, I hope it works our for you.
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Noviseer
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they say LSD used to cure up to 50% of alcoholics in 1960's clinical trials. Why not take a big ol trip w. her and discuss her problem? Might just be crazy enough to work
Either way, good luck Love is good
edit: this post directed at supernova
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Edited by Noviseer (05/25/05 05:18 PM)
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