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Delyrium
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"you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute"
#4197776 - 05/19/05 10:52 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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can i say im offended? especially since it came from my boyfriend's mouth. so in response to this - i posted a picture of me on myspace in a corset. i get a call from him getting all defensive and shit. hehe.
but comeon!! maybe i don't dress like a whore, and i wish my boobs were bigger so i don't flaunt them (bc what is there to flaunt?). i THOUGHT i had sex appeal in bed - i wear sexy lingerie but he ignores it, tears it off and gets to work. ARGHHHHHHH fustrating.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197782 - 05/19/05 10:57 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Why are you still with him? He ignores... he makes hurtful comments.
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BanJankri
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197789 - 05/19/05 10:58 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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cuteness is above sexiness and hotness in my book
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Delyrium
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: BanJankri]
#4197791 - 05/19/05 10:59 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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well when i hear him tell me which girls pass us by or on TV or ANYWHERE are "sooo hot" i start feeling shitty...
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197793 - 05/19/05 11:00 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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If he doesn't make you happy, then you shouldn't be with him.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197800 - 05/19/05 11:02 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Post the picture and I'll give you my objective opinion.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197806 - 05/19/05 11:04 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Also, destroy his TV.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197807 - 05/19/05 11:04 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Delyrium said: well when i hear him tell me which girls pass us by or on TV or ANYWHERE are "sooo hot" i start feeling shitty...
I'm a pretty assholish guy to girls, but fuck I would never do that.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: InsatiableThirst]
#4197808 - 05/19/05 11:04 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
InsatiableThirst said: If he doesn't make you happy, then you shouldn't be with him.
Totally agreed. There are a shit load of guys out there who will respect you the way you should be. Don't take that mental abuse BS.. You are very sexy.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197809 - 05/19/05 11:04 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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shut up..just let me wrestle you to the ground and strangle you with nylons little girl...the wetness will drown me but id rather slowly die than be apart from that nirvana between your thighs....
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Delyrium
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Adamist]
#4197812 - 05/19/05 11:05 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197816 - 05/19/05 11:06 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't think you should. Its pretty normal for guys to find other girls hot or sexy (whether its normal to tell this to gf depends on your relationship I reckon) . But he probably knows being hot or sexy alone isn't enough as he has chosen you...so I would say no worries.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
#4197818 - 05/19/05 11:07 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Definitely. If you let someone get away with something once, they will do it again. Either that, or they'll continue to see how far they can go before you've had enough.
Like the old saying goes "Give em an inch, they take a mile."
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197826 - 05/19/05 11:09 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Your boyfriend needs to be smacked around a bit I think..
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197829 - 05/19/05 11:11 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Delyrium said:
that would definetly be hot in my book
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: BanJankri]
#4197836 - 05/19/05 11:53 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197839 - 05/19/05 11:54 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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I think that you should allow your boyfriend to 'look' at other girls, as long as it's not terribly obvious, or in front of your parents. I just can't stop myself from checking out a hot ass or some bouncing beauties. Commenting upon it is another thing, and comparing you to it is yet another things. I would rarely point out girls when Iw as with my g/f and when I did, she liked them too.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197840 - 05/19/05 11:54 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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that was not very nice at all, bitch him out..I always had more forward women then myself....maybe I get turned on by the forwardness..but I like women that aren't afraid to speak thier mind...it helps me out too, sometimes, I dont too. but dealing with the public at my job helps me out..
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197844 - 05/19/05 11:57 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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I think you should post naked pics, here. Two reasons.
a. We can judge your looks and give you our own subjective opinions and you can get an idea of your looks from that.
b. You'll piss your boyfriend off some more just to get him back.
Who's with me on this?
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197854 - 05/20/05 12:02 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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dont do it..be a individual..dont give into it,,,
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Skunk420]
#4197902 - 05/20/05 12:24 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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damn hey thats not a reason to dump your boyfriend for but listen to this.. you can try be all crazy cocktease, don't let too much skin uncover pretty soon, wear heels and generally, when even my hottest girlfriends [ ive had a girl who looks like angeliana jolie in tombraider - i kid you not ] , she was perfect, lips, legs, tits, ass... she was infitely better than any model ive ever seen - and she sometimes made the mistake of getting naked too soon and all that got abit unsexy over time... but one time she realised i guess and what she did was fuck me with her skirt on and a bra barely showing... and thats when i was like whoah!!!
the moral of the story, besides me getting a boner is, don't be too eeger to show your sexyness and through that, you will
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: grphish]
#4197912 - 05/20/05 12:32 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Um... you're hot... the end...
I could post long drawn out reasoning, facts, theories, and newspaper clipping supporting my claim but there's not really a point since your hotness is staring us all in the face.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: grphish]
#4197919 - 05/20/05 12:35 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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they were just experiences that is all, I have never had a boyfriend..just friendly experiences..how awkward..
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: StrandedVoyager]
#4197924 - 05/20/05 12:37 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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lol. agreed.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Skunk420]
#4197930 - 05/20/05 12:40 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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you let a man suck your dick were you that confused?
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: grphish]
#4197935 - 05/20/05 12:42 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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nope just horny... it happens all the time..it is called life..
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Skunk420]
#4197943 - 05/20/05 12:44 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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skunk78395 said: nope just horny... it happens all the time..it is called life..
...This thread took a left and I took a right.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: StrandedVoyager]
#4197951 - 05/20/05 12:46 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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why? it goes on all the time..try being open minded sexually.. what planet are you from?
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Skunk420]
#4197961 - 05/20/05 12:49 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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It's all good man, I'm just not very sexually open I guess.
Guys don't really turn me off, I just find them alot more annoying than girls.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197988 - 05/20/05 12:56 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Okay, I am a girl and I feel driven to respond to this.
Basically, honey, you are adorable. And for me, adorable = sexy. Everyone has different tastes, but if your boy doesn't think you're the hottest little thing on his block then he is BLIND.
You are adorable! And trust me, that's the highest compliment I will ever give to another human being based on physical appearence.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4197990 - 05/20/05 12:56 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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I've been called cute many times, but never sexy or hot. It's even worse when you're a guy. Know why? Cuz cute girls can still get laid. If you're a guy, you have to be hot or sexy.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: StrandedVoyager]
#4197992 - 05/20/05 12:56 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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in this day and age?? OMG!! no way!!
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Skunk420]
#4198018 - 05/20/05 01:02 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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So true...
In this day and age there's only three types of guys I come across.
The Image Conscious Stud - The guy who thinks the mark of a individual is how much sex they get and they feel obligated to tell you about it. They always have to project how much better they are than everyone and tell you about it at the same time.
Quote "Dude... I need some pussy"
The Image Conscious Scenester - The guy who thinks the mark of a individual is how unique they are by following trends.
Quote "Dude... meterosexualism was so last year, it's all about looking like huggy bear now"
The Image Conscious Unaffiliated - The guy who doesn't know who he is and just kind of follows the other two around
Quote "Dude... you're right"
Now I can't really stand being amongst any of those. I much prefer the neurotic and crazy psychosis of females. I can't imagine pillow talk with a guy being anything but creeping and weird too.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: StrandedVoyager]
#4198055 - 05/20/05 01:10 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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what about the drugged up guy that can't ever talk cause they're too busy laughing? they're people too you know! with emotions!
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: grphish]
#4198059 - 05/20/05 01:12 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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grphish said: what about the drugged up guy that can't ever talk cause they're too busy laughing? they're people too you know! with emotions!
I'm kind of that guy and I already have sex with myself.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: StrandedVoyager]
#4198079 - 05/20/05 01:15 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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okay i have to admit it youre hot. im horribly attracted to you. its the truth if i saw you at a party.. i could not resist hitting on you. its the straight truth. maybee you need to bw with someone that respects you a bit more?
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: StrandedVoyager]
#4198098 - 05/20/05 01:23 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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same here occasionally i have sex with brianna banks and gauge though as well
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4198108 - 05/20/05 01:25 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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You have butter teeth and a deformed looking head.
Hence the cropping on the picture to only show your body.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: grphish]
#4198132 - 05/20/05 01:32 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
grphish said: damn hey thats not a reason to dump your boyfriend for but listen to this.. you can try be all crazy cocktease, don't let too much skin uncover pretty soon, wear heels and generally, when even my hottest girlfriends [ ive had a girl who looks like angeliana jolie in tombraider - i kid you not ] , she was perfect, lips, legs, tits, ass... she was infitely better than any model ive ever seen - and she sometimes made the mistake of getting naked too soon and all that got abit unsexy over time... but one time she realised i guess and what she did was fuck me with her skirt on and a bra barely showing... and thats when i was like whoah!!!
the moral of the story, besides me getting a boner is, don't be too eeger to show your sexyness and through that, you will
Definately good advice. Don't let him just rip your clothes off. That does get un-sexy after a while and very boring. You have to act like you don't want it and keep him at bay. It's a hate / love situation for us, well for me and most other guys I know. Makes it a challenge and is rather kinky.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
#4198199 - 05/20/05 01:48 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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buy him a white lace glove and give it to him.
ask him if he thinks his hand is sexy with lingerie... then break up with him
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: InsatiableThirst]
#4198203 - 05/20/05 01:54 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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InsatiableThirst said: If he doesn't make you happy, then you shouldn't be with him.
That's some pretty fast judgement you got there. It's not really realistic, it always depends on more then one thing.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4198257 - 05/20/05 02:16 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Some guys think "cute" IS sexy! Also, some like smaller boobs as well. Your BF is an insensitive lout.....
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Le_Canard]
#4198270 - 05/20/05 02:20 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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I think you're beautiful, from what I've seen, and I'm sure you know that. Sounds as if something is clouding your guy's judgement. Maybe outside factors are affecting it, or maybe there is some hidden contempt. Communicate about it, yo, it has to be resolved, that kind of shit never stops building until its dealt with, and in late stages its devastating for everyone.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: BanJankri]
#4198372 - 05/20/05 03:47 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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BanJankri said: cuteness is above sexiness and hotness in my book
I agree.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4198419 - 05/20/05 05:44 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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ok. this post might come off as unbelievably bitchy, or whatever, but its my opinion. you're a very pretty girl...you shouldn't need validation of this. if you're insecure to the point that you need to post pictures of yourself in your underwear on myspace, you've got issues. From posts of yours that I've read, I have no idea why you're with your boyfriend. There was the post in the physical and mental health forum saying how he treats you like crap, and you're still in love with your ex...then the one in the gathering forum saying how you're coming to the NE gathering, but you need to do it without your boyfriend knowing, because he wouldn't approve. So you're sneaking around behind his back, he treats you like garbage, says rude shit to you...I mean what's the point? You guys obviously don't have a very healthy relationship, so why be with him? You don't need anyone to tell you you're sexy and hot. You should just know it. But if someone you're with doesn't make you feel good, you need to re-evaluate the situation. You should take that picture down, and have some self respect...I think you're way better than that, I really do. Who cares who else thinks you're hot and sexy? you should be fine with who you are and what you look like regardless of who says or thinks what. Find yourself a guy who thinks you're the hottest, sexiest, most beautiful creature on earth...one who you don't have to lie to to go party with some friends. Then post a picture of the TWO of you on myspace, for your ex to see. Maybe then he'll realize what he messed up.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
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You seem like a great person with a good heart and you are not unattractive at all. You are certainly insecure though, I've seen so many posts similar to this one by you. You have no reason to be insecure about yourself, you are a beautiful person inside and out, you know this and need to recognize it--who cares if someone else doesn't? I know, easier said than done, but its something all of us must overcome in life.
Your b/f needs to accept you for who you are. You also must accept him for who he is. If neither of you can/or are willing to meet in the middle, then it may be time to end the relationship.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
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Ah Del you know you'll always be awesome in my books!
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Liz]
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i cannot help but agree with you ifallapart...
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: mathflower]
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ifallapart said: ok. this post might come off as unbelievably bitchy, or whatever, but its my opinion. you're a very pretty girl...you shouldn't need validation of this. if you're insecure to the point that you need to post pictures of yourself in your underwear on myspace, you've got issues. From posts of yours that I've read, I have no idea why you're with your boyfriend. There was the post in the physical and mental health forum saying how he treats you like crap, and you're still in love with your ex...then the one in the gathering forum saying how you're coming to the NE gathering, but you need to do it without your boyfriend knowing, because he wouldn't approve. So you're sneaking around behind his back, he treats you like garbage, says rude shit to you...I mean what's the point? You guys obviously don't have a very healthy relationship, so why be with him? You don't need anyone to tell you you're sexy and hot. You should just know it. But if someone you're with doesn't make you feel good, you need to re-evaluate the situation. You should take that picture down, and have some self respect...I think you're way better than that, I really do. Who cares who else thinks you're hot and sexy? you should be fine with who you are and what you look like regardless of who says or thinks what. Find yourself a guy who thinks you're the hottest, sexiest, most beautiful creature on earth...one who you don't have to lie to to go party with some friends. Then post a picture of the TWO of you on myspace, for your ex to see. Maybe then he'll realize what he messed up.
i cannot help but agree with you ifallapart...
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: blink]
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oh I agree completely that at some level, we all need to be told we're beautiful at some point. But, in my opinion, posting sexy pics on myspace in response to a low blow comment from your boyfriend is not the long term solution here. Del, I hope you know I'm not trying to insult you, if I didn't care, I wouldn't bother giving you my opinion or advice on this. I just think that you can do way better that the situation you're currently in, and I think you know it. I know from reading other things that you've written that you don't like to be alone...but the thing is, as I've told other people, until you're ok with just being alone, and being happy that way, its going to be extrememly hard for you to be truly happy with someone else. I think your best bet would be to dump your boyfriend, take some time to yourself, learn to be happy and self confident, and in your next relationship, I think that would make all the difference in the world.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Liz]
#4198569 - 05/20/05 07:56 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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ya no - ur totally and completely right.
the myspace thing is actually just a little joke - in no way am i taking myself seriously... it's a little "photo war" my bf and i have been having.
it's weird - inside i know that a part of me wishes this relationship was different but then again when we are together, you can tell he really cares - he's just a stupid ass w/ a big mouth. ya know? because he is always like "oh comeon, i was just joking about that"... but to me, i AM extremely insecure so i take everything to heart because really.. WHY would someone say something if it wasn't true at all. i always believe that within every joke, there's a thread of truth.
i also feel that with this relationship - i've invested a lot of time in it. we did break up and it was really hard, so we ended up getting back together a week later.
we broke up b/c i met this other guy who is REALLY great - just an awesome guy and we started hanging out as friends. my boyfriend looked at my messages and saw a thing this guy wrote about wanting to be more than friends but understanding i have a bf and he knows where to draw the line... etc...
so my boyfriend told me either i stop talking and seeing this guy or we had to break up. eh... he's jealous but ya know he doesn't show me how much he cares until the breaking point. it sucks.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4198581 - 05/20/05 08:03 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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eh, a lot of guys have issues bringing up when something is botehring them before its too late. They (your boyfriend in this case) needs to learn that communication is key in relationships, and if he doesn't tell you what's going on in his head, there's no way you can discontinue doing things that make him uphappy, or on the other hand, do things that DO make him happy. If you really care about him, maybe a good thing to do would be to sit down and have a truthful discussion about how things have been going for you guys. I'm sure that him seeing that picture on myspace with comments from other guys on it, isn't exactly making him feel all warm and fuzzy inside. And on the flip side, when girls comment on him, don't you get a bit jealous, and worry? Heh...I know I do, as I'm sure you've noticed Maybe you guys need to stop playing the mind games, and just level with each other. I don't know your boy, but from what little I know of you, I may have been wrong in my intitial impression of you...you seem like a nice girl. You deserve a happy relationship, and the only way you're going to get that is to talk about whatever is wrong right now, tell him how his comments hurt you, and figure out how to make things better for both of you in the future. Just because breaking up with him was hard, that's not a reason to stay with him. All breakups are hard. But if you really DO want to make it work long term, I would suggest changing the way the 2 of you are handling your issues, and try being open and honest with one another. Feel free to PM me or IM me or whatever, if you want to talk. I mean that.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
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Fuck him if he's going to be that way. You are hot , you know it, I know it, every one knows it.(this isn't that boy from South Dakota is it?, I thought we were raised better then that.) Any way, if he's not going to get you any credit for your looks but say how other chicks are hot, fuck him!!
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: blackroselove]
#4198792 - 05/20/05 09:04 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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hahah no - my western man left me.
this is a good ol NYC boy... and i realize how i need me another country boy ASAP. hehe.
blah - it's always a back and forth thing. i try to sit down and talk w/ him but i feel like im talking to a 5 yr old w/ ADD. honestly... he's like a little kid sometimes. and im used to dating older guys so i dont even have the patience.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4199017 - 05/20/05 10:05 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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hahahaha....too true.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
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Delyrium....You are attractive enuf to easily find a better guy ..... Sexy is attitude not appearance...look at Tina Turner, she is not a "pretty" woman, but she is a very sexy woman.
The advice ifallapart gave you was right on target. (very wise words ifall...5 for ya )
If this "man" isn't treating you the way that you want to be treated....ditch the prick.
As long as you believe in yourself there is nothing that you cant make better/improve in your life.
Don't stay with a person who doesn't respect your feelings. (especially don't stay around and play head-games w/them.....this just brings you down even more)
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: niteowl]
#4199187 - 05/20/05 11:03 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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thanks
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Liz]
#4199195 - 05/20/05 11:07 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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ifallapart you can't just show up one year here and claiming shit starting to threaten about banning people and so on you're such a dirty sneaky person i want nothing to do with you and i want you to have nothing to do with me get off my back and i'll get off yours
ive been here for 4 years now and no stupid little person's gonna come here and start giving me shit like that
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Liz]
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ifallapart said: ok. this post might come off as unbelievably bitchy, or whatever, but its my opinion. you're a very pretty girl...you shouldn't need validation of this. if you're insecure to the point that you need to post pictures of yourself in your underwear on myspace, you've got issues. From posts of yours that I've read, I have no idea why you're with your boyfriend. There was the post in the physical and mental health forum saying how he treats you like crap, and you're still in love with your ex...then the one in the gathering forum saying how you're coming to the NE gathering, but you need to do it without your boyfriend knowing, because he wouldn't approve. So you're sneaking around behind his back, he treats you like garbage, says rude shit to you...I mean what's the point? You guys obviously don't have a very healthy relationship, so why be with him? You don't need anyone to tell you you're sexy and hot. You should just know it. But if someone you're with doesn't make you feel good, you need to re-evaluate the situation. You should take that picture down, and have some self respect...I think you're way better than that, I really do. Who cares who else thinks you're hot and sexy? you should be fine with who you are and what you look like regardless of who says or thinks what. Find yourself a guy who thinks you're the hottest, sexiest, most beautiful creature on earth...one who you don't have to lie to to go party with some friends. Then post a picture of the TWO of you on myspace, for your ex to see. Maybe then he'll realize what he messed up.
Sounds spot on to me... but as a guy yeah i probably think your attractive.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: grphish]
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your a tard... way to stay on topic there honkey
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Suffer]
#4199224 - 05/20/05 11:13 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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eh the topic's long gone there man
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: grphish]
#4199227 - 05/20/05 11:14 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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grphish said: ifallapart you can't just show up one year here and claiming shit starting to threaten about banning people and so on you're such a dirty sneaky person i want nothing to do with you and i want you to have nothing to do with me get off my back and i'll get off yours
ive been here for 4 years now and no stupid little person's gonna come here and start giving me shit like that
first off, why the hell did you post this in this thread? if you have a gripe with me, PM me. If you've been here for 4 years, you would think you'd know how to work the PM feature. Secondly, I can claim anything I want, regardless of how long I've been here for. If I have a fucking opinion, about your sorry ass, or anyone else, you can be goddamn fucking sure you're gonna hear it. I don't give a rats ass how long you've been here for, what I can about is the shitty manner in which you behave. I am many many things, but dirty and sneaky are not 2 of them, and I didn't "threaten you" with anything. I said I had voted for your to be banned in the poll about you in the IRC forum, which I did, based on your behavior in chat. Your lack of maturity speaks for itself, so keep talking shit and validating my point, you waste of air.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Liz]
#4199247 - 05/20/05 11:19 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: grphish]
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"I'm" not banning you from anything. If the vote goes against you, you'll be banned from chat temporarily, because of the offensive things you say. Quit acting like a 7 year old, I'm done with you.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: grphish]
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grphish said: ifallapart you can't just show up one year here and claiming shit starting to threaten about banning people and so on you're such a dirty sneaky person i want nothing to do with you and i want you to have nothing to do with me get off my back and i'll get off yours
ive been here for 4 years now and no stupid little person's gonna come here and start giving me shit like that
Authority is gained by respect and responsibility, both of which she has and you don't. Take it to PM or those of us that have been backing you are going to have to change our minds.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
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del your a pretty girl, nuff said
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: oDin]
#4199358 - 05/20/05 11:59 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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*hugz* aw del I know exactly what you mean and I'm almost positive I know how you feel. My boyfriend and I are the same way. Its a tuff spot and you can't help but feel a little insecure and if not insecure, crappy to say the least.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Gillette]
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I been at fault for dissiing my women friends but i wasnt talking about them i was really only talking about my own insecurities aka my budha/beer belly.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: boO]
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ifallapart said: ok. this post might come off as unbelievably bitchy, or whatever, but its my opinion. you're a very pretty girl...you shouldn't need validation of this. if you're insecure to the point that you need to post pictures of yourself in your underwear on myspace, you've got issues. From posts of yours that I've read, I have no idea why you're with your boyfriend. There was the post in the physical and mental health forum saying how he treats you like crap, and you're still in love with your ex...then the one in the gathering forum saying how you're coming to the NE gathering, but you need to do it without your boyfriend knowing, because he wouldn't approve. So you're sneaking around behind his back, he treats you like garbage, says rude shit to you...I mean what's the point? You guys obviously don't have a very healthy relationship, so why be with him? You don't need anyone to tell you you're sexy and hot. You should just know it. But if someone you're with doesn't make you feel good, you need to re-evaluate the situation. You should take that picture down, and have some self respect...I think you're way better than that, I really do. Who cares who else thinks you're hot and sexy? you should be fine with who you are and what you look like regardless of who says or thinks what. Find yourself a guy who thinks you're the hottest, sexiest, most beautiful creature on earth...one who you don't have to lie to to go party with some friends. Then post a picture of the TWO of you on myspace, for your ex to see. Maybe then he'll realize what he messed up.
i cannot help but agree with you ifallapart...
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4199521 - 05/20/05 12:59 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Del,
You have always been a little hotty in my eyes.
If I was 20 years younger...I'd steal you away from that jerk.
he doesn't appreciate what he has!!!!!
your a wonderful person...besides being extremely hot.
what more would a guy want?
nothing in my book!~
kick him to the curb...and find a man that appreciates you!~
much
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Roadkill]
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: blackroselove]
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blackroselove said: Fuck him if he's going to be that way. You are hot , you know it, I know it, every one knows it.(this isn't that boy from South Dakota is it?, I thought we were raised better then that.) Any way, if he's not going to get you any credit for your looks but say how other chicks are hot, fuck him!!
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
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Super attractive people always have these kinds of problems...
Isn't this the guy who you said looked like some guy off that MTV reality show? lol. Maybe you should re-evaluate why exactly your with him? If he was a hump-backed midget would you still have feelings for him?
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: grphish]
#4199671 - 05/20/05 01:30 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Learyfan, you rule!
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Silversoul]
#4199700 - 05/20/05 01:35 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Paradigm said:
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grphish said: [banned for flaming in The Pub]
Learyfan, you rule!
yeah, thanks. He was being a real prick
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Liz]
#4199754 - 05/20/05 01:45 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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I am glad he was banned too..good, he was flaming... in my thread..also..just because I was honest about my sexual experiences, why be against someone for thier sexuality? I was just experimenting anyway...A lot of people have tried it..
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4199790 - 05/20/05 01:51 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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wow, drama!!
its all rather exciting, since I'm not in any of it...
delyrium...
two wonderful things were said:
"if he doesn't appreciate you, find someone who does"... weather or not you think he cares, if hes not appreciating you, then he is an asshole and doesn't deserve your company or devotion.
"if he was a hump backed midget would you still be with him?"... seriously, if he was a less attractive guy treating you like this, would you still be letting him kiss you?
do you have any girlfriends you can spend some more time with instead of his (or any mans) ass right now? you need to get in touch with yourself STAT before you let anyone else touch you.
you are setting yourself up for failure, and that hurts to see you are OBVIOUSLY beautiful... you need to make that obvious to yourself though.
sincerely! 
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4199793 - 05/20/05 01:51 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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I always get that!! everyone thinks I am soo cute and that I look like a little doll!! I like it
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Silversoul]
#4199975 - 05/20/05 02:24 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Whoa, if any of you fuckers knew grphish and didn't judge him by a few posts...
Don't even get me started on the "shitty" threads you've made, SS7.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Adden]
#4199986 - 05/20/05 02:26 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sippin' on the haterade, huh? I've been here almost 3 years now. I've seen enough of grphish's posts to form an opinion of him.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: spud]
#4199991 - 05/20/05 02:27 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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spud said: You have butter teeth and a deformed looking head.
Hence the cropping on the picture to only show your body.
Every time I see her face I throw up a little bit.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: niteowl]
#4199997 - 05/20/05 02:29 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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look at Tina Turner, she is not a "pretty" woman, but she is a very sexy woman.

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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Liz]
#4200010 - 05/20/05 02:31 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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ifallapart said:
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Paradigm said:
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grphish said: [banned for flaming in The Pub]
Learyfan, you rule!
yeah, thanks. He was being a real prick
He's always being a prick.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Silversoul]
#4200014 - 05/20/05 02:32 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Cheering on a ban? Granted, it must've been warranted - I didn't see the post before it got edited - but that's plain childish.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Adden]
#4200018 - 05/20/05 02:33 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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He was being childish. He got what he deserved.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Silversoul]
#4200022 - 05/20/05 02:34 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Do I have to repeat myself?
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Silversoul]
#4200027 - 05/20/05 02:34 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Adden]
#4200039 - 05/20/05 02:36 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Uh oh, somebody was banned-- we'd better not crack wise! This is a serious matter, like a death in the family. Everyone should be as professional about this as possible.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: mantis]
#4200059 - 05/20/05 02:40 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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What an unfunny play on irony.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: spud]
#4200082 - 05/20/05 02:44 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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This is coming from a pretentious twat who scares 13 year old girls with his car.
Yup.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Adden]
#4200085 - 05/20/05 02:44 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: mantis]
#4200096 - 05/20/05 02:46 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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It wasn't my intent to scare them, the premeditated cause was murder.
I made a mistake, I am human after all.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Silversoul]
#4200110 - 05/20/05 02:48 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Unfortunately I can't use the quote feature and humorously show the Pub how you took goatse to the 21st century.
I wouldn't want anyone gloating over my ban.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Adden]
#4200127 - 05/20/05 02:51 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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s2dope said:
Whoa, if any of you fuckers knew grphish and didn't judge him by a few posts...
Don't even get me started on the "shitty" threads you've made, SS7.
I will say this as an outsider looking in...
grphish needs to chill out in the Pub!~
I have seen him flame people...many times here in the Pub.
that kind of behavior won't be tolerated in here!~
Ripple has asked me to intervine when the need arrises...so here I am.
You wanna do name calling and act like cyber fools...go somewhere else and do it.
Now please get back on topic.
thank you!~
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Adden]
#4200147 - 05/20/05 02:54 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Does this thread remind any of you guys of middle school? In middle school I used to be a sucker for this really hot chick and would always be trying to get with her but she would always try and keep me at the just friends level. I would always get to hear about what nasty things her new boyfriends were doing to her so she could try and get me to reassure her how pretty she was or how nice of a person she was or some crap. When I look back I can't believe how much I played the fool but I didn't come out empty handed I did manage to hook up with several of her friends
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200276 - 05/20/05 03:21 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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This thread really needs a universal 

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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: emptywisdom]
#4200370 - 05/20/05 03:44 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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what a wanker.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Phoshaman]
#4200386 - 05/20/05 03:47 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Phoshaman said: what a wanker.
Your not gonna drag me into this garbage.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4200504 - 05/20/05 04:14 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Fliquid said:
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InsatiableThirst said: If he doesn't make you happy, then you shouldn't be with him.
That's some pretty fast judgement you got there. It's not really realistic, it always depends on more then one thing.
I would have to disagree. In my opinion, the bottom line is if you aren't happy in a situation, get out. I agree there are certain circumstances where you may be more lenient but if someone you are with is constantly making you feel bad or inadequate or constantly picking at your self-esteem, then it's time to weigh out the pros and cons and decide which outweighs the other.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: InsatiableThirst]
#4200534 - 05/20/05 04:24 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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hehe the pub is like deliryiums "nice guy". She knows there are tons of desperate kids just waiting to tell her, "your beautiful". Good job kids, you are not only an emotional tampon for your girl friends in real life, you even fulfill that job on the internet. her boyfriend thanks you for keeping her emotionally satisified, while he fucks her.
god i'm a genius!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4200551 - 05/20/05 04:31 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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so tru
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Liz]
#4200562 - 05/20/05 04:34 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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ifallapart said: I just think that you can do way better that the situation you're currently in, and I think you know it. I know from reading other things that you've written that you don't like to be alone...but the thing is, as I've told other people, until you're ok with just being alone, and being happy that way, its going to be extrememly hard for you to be truly happy with someone else. I think your best bet would be to dump your boyfriend, take some time to yourself, learn to be happy and self confident, and in your next relationship, which should be with BigNerd, I think that would make all the difference in the world.
You gave that nail a concussion, fallie.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: BigNerd]
#4200578 - 05/20/05 04:38 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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BigNerd said:
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ifallapart said: I just think that you can do way better that the situation you're currently in, and I think you know it. I know from reading other things that you've written that you don't like to be alone...but the thing is, as I've told other people, until you're ok with just being alone, and being happy that way, its going to be extrememly hard for you to be truly happy with someone else. I think your best bet would be to dump your boyfriend, take some time to yourself, learn to be happy and self confident, and in your next relationship, which should be with BigNerd, I think that would make all the difference in the world.
You gave that nail a concussion, fallie.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4200587 - 05/20/05 04:41 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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looner2 said: hehe the pub is like deliryiums "nice guy". She knows there are tons of desperate kids just waiting to tell her, "your beautiful". Good job kids, you are not only an emotional tampon for your girl friends in real life, you even fulfill that job on the internet. her boyfriend thanks you for keeping her emotionally satisified, while he fucks her.
god i'm a genius!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You took the words right out of my mouth.
Not very gentle about telling the truth though, eh?
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Ravus]
#4200595 - 05/20/05 04:43 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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The truth hurts, in most cases.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4200600 - 05/20/05 04:44 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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ahahahhaha looner... good one but i wasnt really looking for compliments - just curious as to why he feels the need to say junk like that. like... making the idea of being "cute" a BAD thing. blah
Gillette... ugh dont start - u remind me of audrey hepburn and in my eyes that's like THE most beautiful person ever. 
thanks everyone - and the drama was a fun read 
i definately am gonna listen to everyone - esp ifallapart... im taking the night off to go and have fun w/ my girlfriends (which i def need to spend more time w/ but they have boyfriends too which occupy them... eh).
oh well... inside i wish i was a carmen electra but i guess im happy w/ who i am. but im always struggling for better - it's just a problem some people have. eh.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200609 - 05/20/05 04:47 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Why must you neglect my responses?
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: spud]
#4200636 - 05/20/05 04:54 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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spud said: Why must you neglect my responses?
o - well cause im used to them by now
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200638 - 05/20/05 04:54 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Delyrium said: oh well... inside i wish i was a carmen electra but i guess im happy w/ who i am. but im always struggling for better - it's just a problem some people have. eh.
Del,
Trying to better yourself is not a problem. The problem is that you're fixating on aspects of yourself that you can't really change (short of very expensive, and in your case pointless, surgery). What you really need to work on is your self-esteem.
Because I'm a nice guy and I want to help, I promise to hit on you constantly in Ohio.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: BigNerd]
#4200651 - 05/20/05 04:57 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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hahaha - ya self esteem is hard to get. u can't find it in a diet, in a workout, in a magazine, in other people or on tv... and im tryin to find it but it's tough... esp when i gravitate towards the wrong people.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200682 - 05/20/05 05:07 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm thinking you should gravitate towards BigNerd, he seems nice AND hes cute (which is a good thing )
I'm in your corner BigNerd lol
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200691 - 05/20/05 05:09 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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There are two kinds of people in the world. The first kind isn't happy until everyone around them is miserable. The second kind isn't happy until everyone around them knows how miserable they are. I am the third kind.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: mathflower]
#4200695 - 05/20/05 05:09 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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and he uses lube after he slips you roofies.
a real gentleman 
No I'm kidding, BigNerd is a sweetheart.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200711 - 05/20/05 05:12 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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That's all true, but don't forget that even though your friends can't do it FOR you, they can still be very helpful in supporting you.
And by the way, your hair would look really good in my lap.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200725 - 05/20/05 05:13 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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You wont find it any where but within your self its in there you just need to find it. And it wont be in fancy cloths or in what some one else says. Its just under layers and layers of excess bagage so to speak under other peoples misguided views, medias tendency to show this "ideal" beauty.
It has takin me a very long time to achieve where i am, and i tend to fall back into old ways of thinking but with daily affirmations,with daily soul searching im tending to get closer and closer.
This is all just from my point of view on my life as i see it. No offence if any is takin and its just what i been going threw, if it works for me it might just be that but i hope it can help others.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200734 - 05/20/05 05:15 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Delyrium said: can i say im offended? especially since it came from my boyfriend's mouth. so in response to this - i posted a picture of me on myspace in a corset. i get a call from him getting all defensive and shit. hehe.
but comeon!! maybe i don't dress like a whore, and i wish my boobs were bigger so i don't flaunt them (bc what is there to flaunt?). i THOUGHT i had sex appeal in bed - i wear sexy lingerie but he ignores it, tears it off and gets to work. ARGHHHHHHH fustrating.
I've been with my wife for over ten years now. In appearances, she is cute, she does not try to dress HOT or whatever. She is beautiful.
Remember, after years, cute become beautiful, and hot becomes annoying slut LOL.
Also, after years with the same woman, and knowing each others wants/needs in bed, I seriously doubt there could be a HOTTER woman than my wife ;-)
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: myndreach]
#4200775 - 05/20/05 05:26 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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"you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute"
That's what girls always say to me except drunk girls at parties who say the opposite.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Divided_Sky]
#4200807 - 05/20/05 05:33 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Thats so true i rather be cute then hot any day. I have had plenty say i am cute but never in my life ever had one say i was hot.
Del ur beautiful thats way better then hot, and your cute wich is way better then hot cuz id rather snuggel up against a cutE then with a hotty,
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BigNerd
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Liz]
#4200839 - 05/20/05 05:42 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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ifallapart said: and he uses lube after he slips you roofies.
you were asking for it, you slut!
*ahem* I mean, nothing was ever proven in court, you're not supposed to talk about it.
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Delyrium
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: BigNerd]
#4200948 - 05/20/05 06:18 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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hehe well im going out tonight - and got into a fight w/ the bf because a guy he doesnt like will be there. so it was either my bf doesnt come w/ me bc he'll start a fight - or not see all my friends who came home from college tonight.
so ya... im going, getting drunk and having fun w/ my best friends!!!
i should try using my daily afirmations... i have a box of them. it's just tough. heh.
bignerd - please do me the favor of slipping me a roofie... i need a good lay.
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BigNerd
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200960 - 05/20/05 06:24 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Delyrium said: bignerd - please do me the favor of slipping me a roofie... i need a good lay.
Baby, I can make you feel like I've never had sex before! 
Have fun with your friends. I want at least 3 minutes of fun dedicated to BigNerd tonight.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: BigNerd]
#4201002 - 05/20/05 06:35 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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He was being honest. I guess he should be shot. Only thing for sure, the longer we debate, the older and less sexy you will become. My advice: find some other way to value yourself. This be the last friendly voice you'll hear...
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Fliquid
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: InsatiableThirst]
#4208687 - 05/23/05 12:10 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Fliquid said:
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InsatiableThirst said: If he doesn't make you happy, then you shouldn't be with him.
That's some pretty fast judgement you got there. It's not really realistic, it always depends on more then one thing.
I would have to disagree. In my opinion, the bottom line is if you aren't happy in a situation, get out. I agree there are certain circumstances where you may be more lenient but if someone you are with is constantly making you feel bad or inadequate or constantly picking at your self-esteem, then it's time to weigh out the pros and cons and decide which outweighs the other.
True but she didn't provide enough information in her original post for anyone too assume that the situation was bad enough to make such a quick decision.
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Delyrium
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4208698 - 05/23/05 12:14 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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i just need to kinda ask myself if the things i dont like are just natural relationship quirks or if it's really just a shitty situation.
we hung out tonight, just snuggled really. eh he's great sometimes. i told him we really need to get away for the weekend ... make it a nice romantic thing. we'll see.
also i said something awful this morning. i got a call this morning. it's my friend Jen and she just got engaged yesturday. so i was like so happy for her and her BF is soooooooooooo nice and great for her. so after the call, i look over and see my bf. and he's already kinda pissy because i wasnt going to his family's dinner party b/c i had work to do. so i just get up, was like "ya jen just got engaged... " and im like "she's so lucky... and here i am with a relationship that sucks"
so he was like "then just leave" and im like "i am.. right now" and so i walk out and he goes to the door and was like "SEE SUSIE... WHY ARE YOU TRYIN TO START A FIGHT AGAIN?? UR TRYING TO START!"
hehe... i was mean. i admit it. it was harsh.
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Fliquid
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4208748 - 05/23/05 12:33 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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You want him to be someone he's not. He seems to respond to you bad, and you respond bad worse. Then he responds worser, and you do the same. But you both don't actually try to speak in a resolving way. And if you both keep up the hostile way of speaking, then speaking on a more reasonable platform will almost become impossible.
Try to speak out whats on your heart and ask him to do the same. Be fully open and be prepared to hurt and get hurt.
That's my bag of IMPO, good luck.
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looner2
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4208755 - 05/23/05 12:37 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Beautiful Fliquid, thank you for that, it will touch most who read it, I'm sure.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4208768 - 05/23/05 12:46 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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I am so waiting for feedback from a guy who puts comments like:
sold his child into thailands sex trade. truly awful.
In someone's ratings.
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looner2
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4208775 - 05/23/05 12:48 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Whoa. This is the pub, not a place to be bitter and lament on the past. I send peaceful vibes your way!!!!
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Fliquid
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4208798 - 05/23/05 12:56 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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This is the pub and you are abusing the situation to glorify yourself.
What do you want from me?
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looner2
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4208805 - 05/23/05 12:58 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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What are you talking about?
The only thing I want from you is to keep churning out posts like the one I commended you for. It was A+. Touching. Poignant.
In short, magical!
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4208816 - 05/23/05 01:02 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Oh Looner2 now I really love you 
NOT! 
The End.
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4208957 - 05/23/05 02:09 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Delyrium. You are afraid of being alone, and you happen to have him, or whoever.
Face your fear or it will consume you, and you know it.
nothing is too hard. the fear of success drives you to stay in relationships, success of being alone and finding out who you are beyond someone elses arm candy. you are many more important things than that, and they are better than what you portray.
what your boyfriend does to you is called mental/emotional abuse, and you've probably dealt with it in your earliest relationships (maybe your first love, or perhaps your father or mother?) so you feel like it is normal to be treated as such. they loved you after all. he loves you (yet you treat him the same way).
but its not so simple. or is it? why should you want to make other people feel the way you hate feeling? why should you have to stand up for feeling that way any more as an adult? you do not. you choose your company, and you choose yourself. living is a constant decision, you're always deciding what to do next, so make a decision that is actually healthy for you.
i think i may have spoke harshly, but consider my words.
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