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BigNerd
Sociable loner


Registered: 10/31/03
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Loc: local elementary school
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Liz]
#4200839 - 05/20/05 05:42 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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ifallapart said: and he uses lube after he slips you roofies.
you were asking for it, you slut!
*ahem* I mean, nothing was ever proven in court, you're not supposed to talk about it.
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Delyrium
lemonadeh.o.n.e.y.

Registered: 12/26/99
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Loc: vermont
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: BigNerd]
#4200948 - 05/20/05 06:18 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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hehe well im going out tonight - and got into a fight w/ the bf because a guy he doesnt like will be there. so it was either my bf doesnt come w/ me bc he'll start a fight - or not see all my friends who came home from college tonight.
so ya... im going, getting drunk and having fun w/ my best friends!!!
i should try using my daily afirmations... i have a box of them. it's just tough. heh.
bignerd - please do me the favor of slipping me a roofie... i need a good lay.
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BigNerd
Sociable loner


Registered: 10/31/03
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200960 - 05/20/05 06:24 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Delyrium said: bignerd - please do me the favor of slipping me a roofie... i need a good lay.
Baby, I can make you feel like I've never had sex before! 
Have fun with your friends. I want at least 3 minutes of fun dedicated to BigNerd tonight.
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magicpurplecow
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: BigNerd]
#4201002 - 05/20/05 06:35 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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He was being honest. I guess he should be shot. Only thing for sure, the longer we debate, the older and less sexy you will become. My advice: find some other way to value yourself. This be the last friendly voice you'll hear...
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Fliquid
Back from being gone.


Registered: 03/18/02
Posts: 6,953
Loc: omotive
Last seen: 8 years, 6 months
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: InsatiableThirst]
#4208687 - 05/23/05 12:10 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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InsatiableThirst said:
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Fliquid said:
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InsatiableThirst said: If he doesn't make you happy, then you shouldn't be with him.
That's some pretty fast judgement you got there. It's not really realistic, it always depends on more then one thing.
I would have to disagree. In my opinion, the bottom line is if you aren't happy in a situation, get out. I agree there are certain circumstances where you may be more lenient but if someone you are with is constantly making you feel bad or inadequate or constantly picking at your self-esteem, then it's time to weigh out the pros and cons and decide which outweighs the other.
True but she didn't provide enough information in her original post for anyone too assume that the situation was bad enough to make such a quick decision.
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Delyrium
lemonadeh.o.n.e.y.

Registered: 12/26/99
Posts: 5,941
Loc: vermont
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4208698 - 05/23/05 12:14 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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i just need to kinda ask myself if the things i dont like are just natural relationship quirks or if it's really just a shitty situation.
we hung out tonight, just snuggled really. eh he's great sometimes. i told him we really need to get away for the weekend ... make it a nice romantic thing. we'll see.
also i said something awful this morning. i got a call this morning. it's my friend Jen and she just got engaged yesturday. so i was like so happy for her and her BF is soooooooooooo nice and great for her. so after the call, i look over and see my bf. and he's already kinda pissy because i wasnt going to his family's dinner party b/c i had work to do. so i just get up, was like "ya jen just got engaged... " and im like "she's so lucky... and here i am with a relationship that sucks"
so he was like "then just leave" and im like "i am.. right now" and so i walk out and he goes to the door and was like "SEE SUSIE... WHY ARE YOU TRYIN TO START A FIGHT AGAIN?? UR TRYING TO START!"
hehe... i was mean. i admit it. it was harsh.
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Fliquid
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4208748 - 05/23/05 12:33 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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You want him to be someone he's not. He seems to respond to you bad, and you respond bad worse. Then he responds worser, and you do the same. But you both don't actually try to speak in a resolving way. And if you both keep up the hostile way of speaking, then speaking on a more reasonable platform will almost become impossible.
Try to speak out whats on your heart and ask him to do the same. Be fully open and be prepared to hurt and get hurt.
That's my bag of IMPO, good luck.
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looner2
ABBA fan

Registered: 06/20/04
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4208755 - 05/23/05 12:37 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Beautiful Fliquid, thank you for that, it will touch most who read it, I'm sure.
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Fliquid
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4208768 - 05/23/05 12:46 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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I am so waiting for feedback from a guy who puts comments like:
sold his child into thailands sex trade. truly awful.
In someone's ratings.
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looner2
ABBA fan

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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4208775 - 05/23/05 12:48 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Whoa. This is the pub, not a place to be bitter and lament on the past. I send peaceful vibes your way!!!!
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Fliquid
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4208798 - 05/23/05 12:56 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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This is the pub and you are abusing the situation to glorify yourself.
What do you want from me?
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looner2
ABBA fan

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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4208805 - 05/23/05 12:58 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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What are you talking about?
The only thing I want from you is to keep churning out posts like the one I commended you for. It was A+. Touching. Poignant.
In short, magical!
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Fliquid
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4208816 - 05/23/05 01:02 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Oh Looner2 now I really love you 
NOT! 
The End.
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mathflower
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Registered: 05/14/05
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4208957 - 05/23/05 02:09 AM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Delyrium. You are afraid of being alone, and you happen to have him, or whoever.
Face your fear or it will consume you, and you know it.
nothing is too hard. the fear of success drives you to stay in relationships, success of being alone and finding out who you are beyond someone elses arm candy. you are many more important things than that, and they are better than what you portray.
what your boyfriend does to you is called mental/emotional abuse, and you've probably dealt with it in your earliest relationships (maybe your first love, or perhaps your father or mother?) so you feel like it is normal to be treated as such. they loved you after all. he loves you (yet you treat him the same way).
but its not so simple. or is it? why should you want to make other people feel the way you hate feeling? why should you have to stand up for feeling that way any more as an adult? you do not. you choose your company, and you choose yourself. living is a constant decision, you're always deciding what to do next, so make a decision that is actually healthy for you.
i think i may have spoke harshly, but consider my words.
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