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InsatiableThirst
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Fliquid]
#4200504 - 05/20/05 04:14 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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InsatiableThirst said: If he doesn't make you happy, then you shouldn't be with him.
That's some pretty fast judgement you got there. It's not really realistic, it always depends on more then one thing.
I would have to disagree. In my opinion, the bottom line is if you aren't happy in a situation, get out. I agree there are certain circumstances where you may be more lenient but if someone you are with is constantly making you feel bad or inadequate or constantly picking at your self-esteem, then it's time to weigh out the pros and cons and decide which outweighs the other.
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looner2
ABBA fan

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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: InsatiableThirst]
#4200534 - 05/20/05 04:24 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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hehe the pub is like deliryiums "nice guy". She knows there are tons of desperate kids just waiting to tell her, "your beautiful". Good job kids, you are not only an emotional tampon for your girl friends in real life, you even fulfill that job on the internet. her boyfriend thanks you for keeping her emotionally satisified, while he fucks her.
god i'm a genius!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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spud
I'm so fly.

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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4200551 - 05/20/05 04:31 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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so tru
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BigNerd
Sociable loner


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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Liz]
#4200562 - 05/20/05 04:34 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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ifallapart said: I just think that you can do way better that the situation you're currently in, and I think you know it. I know from reading other things that you've written that you don't like to be alone...but the thing is, as I've told other people, until you're ok with just being alone, and being happy that way, its going to be extrememly hard for you to be truly happy with someone else. I think your best bet would be to dump your boyfriend, take some time to yourself, learn to be happy and self confident, and in your next relationship, which should be with BigNerd, I think that would make all the difference in the world.
You gave that nail a concussion, fallie.
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mathflower
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: BigNerd]
#4200578 - 05/20/05 04:38 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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BigNerd said:
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ifallapart said: I just think that you can do way better that the situation you're currently in, and I think you know it. I know from reading other things that you've written that you don't like to be alone...but the thing is, as I've told other people, until you're ok with just being alone, and being happy that way, its going to be extrememly hard for you to be truly happy with someone else. I think your best bet would be to dump your boyfriend, take some time to yourself, learn to be happy and self confident, and in your next relationship, which should be with BigNerd, I think that would make all the difference in the world.
You gave that nail a concussion, fallie.
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Ravus
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4200587 - 05/20/05 04:41 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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looner2 said: hehe the pub is like deliryiums "nice guy". She knows there are tons of desperate kids just waiting to tell her, "your beautiful". Good job kids, you are not only an emotional tampon for your girl friends in real life, you even fulfill that job on the internet. her boyfriend thanks you for keeping her emotionally satisified, while he fucks her.
god i'm a genius!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You took the words right out of my mouth.
Not very gentle about telling the truth though, eh?
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InsatiableThirst
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Ravus]
#4200595 - 05/20/05 04:43 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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The truth hurts, in most cases.
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Delyrium
lemonadeh.o.n.e.y.

Registered: 12/26/99
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: looner2]
#4200600 - 05/20/05 04:44 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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ahahahhaha looner... good one but i wasnt really looking for compliments - just curious as to why he feels the need to say junk like that. like... making the idea of being "cute" a BAD thing. blah
Gillette... ugh dont start - u remind me of audrey hepburn and in my eyes that's like THE most beautiful person ever. 
thanks everyone - and the drama was a fun read 
i definately am gonna listen to everyone - esp ifallapart... im taking the night off to go and have fun w/ my girlfriends (which i def need to spend more time w/ but they have boyfriends too which occupy them... eh).
oh well... inside i wish i was a carmen electra but i guess im happy w/ who i am. but im always struggling for better - it's just a problem some people have. eh.
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spud
I'm so fly.

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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200609 - 05/20/05 04:47 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Why must you neglect my responses?
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Delyrium
lemonadeh.o.n.e.y.

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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: spud]
#4200636 - 05/20/05 04:54 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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spud said: Why must you neglect my responses?
o - well cause im used to them by now
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BigNerd
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200638 - 05/20/05 04:54 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Delyrium said: oh well... inside i wish i was a carmen electra but i guess im happy w/ who i am. but im always struggling for better - it's just a problem some people have. eh.
Del,
Trying to better yourself is not a problem. The problem is that you're fixating on aspects of yourself that you can't really change (short of very expensive, and in your case pointless, surgery). What you really need to work on is your self-esteem.
Because I'm a nice guy and I want to help, I promise to hit on you constantly in Ohio.
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Delyrium
lemonadeh.o.n.e.y.

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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: BigNerd]
#4200651 - 05/20/05 04:57 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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hahaha - ya self esteem is hard to get. u can't find it in a diet, in a workout, in a magazine, in other people or on tv... and im tryin to find it but it's tough... esp when i gravitate towards the wrong people.
-------------------- Fuck Ted Nugent he?s a fucking jerk I wish that he?d be gone Chauvanistic republican Kills animals cause he Forgot how to write a song
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mathflower
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200682 - 05/20/05 05:07 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm thinking you should gravitate towards BigNerd, he seems nice AND hes cute (which is a good thing )
I'm in your corner BigNerd lol
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magicpurplecow
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200691 - 05/20/05 05:09 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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There are two kinds of people in the world. The first kind isn't happy until everyone around them is miserable. The second kind isn't happy until everyone around them knows how miserable they are. I am the third kind.
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Liz
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: mathflower]
#4200695 - 05/20/05 05:09 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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and he uses lube after he slips you roofies.
a real gentleman 
No I'm kidding, BigNerd is a sweetheart.
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BigNerd
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200711 - 05/20/05 05:12 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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That's all true, but don't forget that even though your friends can't do it FOR you, they can still be very helpful in supporting you.
And by the way, your hair would look really good in my lap.
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Corporal Kielbasa

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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200725 - 05/20/05 05:13 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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You wont find it any where but within your self its in there you just need to find it. And it wont be in fancy cloths or in what some one else says. Its just under layers and layers of excess bagage so to speak under other peoples misguided views, medias tendency to show this "ideal" beauty.
It has takin me a very long time to achieve where i am, and i tend to fall back into old ways of thinking but with daily affirmations,with daily soul searching im tending to get closer and closer.
This is all just from my point of view on my life as i see it. No offence if any is takin and its just what i been going threw, if it works for me it might just be that but i hope it can help others.
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myndreach
philosopher



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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Delyrium]
#4200734 - 05/20/05 05:15 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Delyrium said: can i say im offended? especially since it came from my boyfriend's mouth. so in response to this - i posted a picture of me on myspace in a corset. i get a call from him getting all defensive and shit. hehe.
but comeon!! maybe i don't dress like a whore, and i wish my boobs were bigger so i don't flaunt them (bc what is there to flaunt?). i THOUGHT i had sex appeal in bed - i wear sexy lingerie but he ignores it, tears it off and gets to work. ARGHHHHHHH fustrating.
I've been with my wife for over ten years now. In appearances, she is cute, she does not try to dress HOT or whatever. She is beautiful.
Remember, after years, cute become beautiful, and hot becomes annoying slut LOL.
Also, after years with the same woman, and knowing each others wants/needs in bed, I seriously doubt there could be a HOTTER woman than my wife ;-)
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Divided_Sky
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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: myndreach]
#4200775 - 05/20/05 05:26 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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"you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute"
That's what girls always say to me except drunk girls at parties who say the opposite.
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Corporal Kielbasa

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Re: "you'll never be sexy or hot... you're just cute" [Re: Divided_Sky]
#4200807 - 05/20/05 05:33 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Thats so true i rather be cute then hot any day. I have had plenty say i am cute but never in my life ever had one say i was hot.
Del ur beautiful thats way better then hot, and your cute wich is way better then hot cuz id rather snuggel up against a cutE then with a hotty,
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