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Forgot how bad being single sucks
    #4195569 - 05/19/05 02:56 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Wow.


#1 Sympathy post.


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Adden]
    #4195573 - 05/19/05 02:56 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

#2

go to a party


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Infrared]
    #4195587 - 05/19/05 02:59 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

No more modding?


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #4195597 - 05/19/05 03:00 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

nope


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Adden]
    #4195613 - 05/19/05 03:03 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Actually it depends on your perspective.

Being single is fantabulistic compared to being in a confining, controlling relationship. Now you're free to be you.


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Shroomism]
    #4195630 - 05/19/05 03:06 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

You bring up a good point Shroomism, the ex was horrible like that. In general, a total antithesis of me.

And blink, I wish I did. I still can't go to the gym (been 3 months now) due to the car accident.. I feel like hell.


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Adden]
    #4195651 - 05/19/05 03:12 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

it's a matter of what ur used to. single to me seems scary - i don't like knowing i dont have someone w/ me. however, it's also great because u need to learn that u are indepedent and can love urself 100 million times more. plus - u can get random ass..


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Adden]
    #4195654 - 05/19/05 03:13 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

All too often in modern relationships we become dependent on one another. Dependent on each other to feel secure, to feel happy, to feel ok with ourselves. This is not healthy. An ideal relationship would have both parties free to be themselves.. to express themselves freely, with mutual love, support, respect, acceptance, and understanding on both sides. No control over each other. No mind games. Just two whole beings, joined together in harmony by their mutual compassion for one another, learning from each other.. sharing, and growing and evolving. That's what love is.

Yeah being single sucks, when you realize you wont have that same comfort zone anymore. When you realize the regular pussy is gone. But your hand will solve that problem, and it wont give you grief. Being alone gives you time to reflect and be yourself.. something you may have been holding back in a relationship. Maybe the next time around things will work differently. That's what I'm hoping for myself. In the meantime I'm loving myself.

And like delyrium said - random ass.


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Adden]
    #4195664 - 05/19/05 03:14 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Once you're done withe the whole "being single sucks phase" You'll find that more and more, you're ok just being you. By yourself. And when you're ok with that, thats when you'll be able to be in a healthy, happy relationship. You can't be ok being with someone else if you're not ok by yourself.


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Liz]
    #4195691 - 05/19/05 03:18 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

I found that when I was in an unhappy relationship.. I yearned to be single.
Then I got my wish. And I yearned to be in the unhappy relationship.

But fuck all that. I'll be happy by myself. And if there's gonna be another relationship.. it's gonna be a happy one.


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Shroomism]
    #4195699 - 05/19/05 03:18 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

You might not believe me, but random ass isn't my cup of tea.

I'd rather make love than fuck.. any day.


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Liz]
    #4195709 - 05/19/05 03:19 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

ifallapart said:
Once you're done withe the whole "being single sucks phase" You'll find that more and more, you're ok just being you.




Yeah I think ifall's right here...you're used to being part of a collective and the "this sucks" phase is the feeling of separation...once your soul simply readjusts itself to solitary living, you'll find yourself out of the "this sucks" phase.

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s2dope said:
You might not believe me, but random ass isn't my cup of tea.

I'd rather make love than fuck.. any day.




Right on!


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-Erik Davis


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Shroomism]
    #4195711 - 05/19/05 03:20 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Shroomism said:
All too often in modern relationships we become dependent on one another. Dependent on each other to feel secure, to feel happy, to feel ok with ourselves. This is not healthy. An ideal relationship would have both parties free to be themselves.. to express themselves freely, with mutual love, support, respect, acceptance, and understanding on both sides. No control over each other. No mind games. Just two whole beings, joined together in harmony by their mutual compassion for one another, learning from each other.. sharing, and growing and evolving. That's what love is.






well said


glad I found it


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Adden]
    #4195723 - 05/19/05 03:21 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

s2dope said:
You might not believe me, but random ass isn't my cup of tea.

I'd rather make love than fuck.. any day.




well good for u!! im the same way - but i figured most guys see the plus of random ass. hehe.


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Adden]
    #4195733 - 05/19/05 03:24 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Well yeah same here. Making love is where it's at.
You might not believe me.. but you don't have to be in a committed relationship to make love.


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Shroomism]
    #4195740 - 05/19/05 03:24 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

I agree with that...but how often does random ass really end up being making love?

I think that's often the illusion people go into it with...and then walk away with a different perspective of what they just did.


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-Erik Davis


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: goobler]
    #4195744 - 05/19/05 03:25 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

awesome. I'm glad you found it too, I'm happy for you

May you both be happy for the rest of your lives

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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Shroomism]
    #4195758 - 05/19/05 03:28 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

I've made love to someone in the past and we weren't together, but its a really confuzzled situation that I don't even have the time to type out. But just the raw emotion is awesome and you can tell if your partner feels the same way or not.


Thank god I posted this, I'm already beginning to feel better.. you guys (and gals) are bringing up some REAL good points.


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #4195760 - 05/19/05 03:28 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Well, you're probably right. Random ass is usually going to be about fucking.
I'm just making a point.. that it's about what two people bring to each other, and the love they share between them. It doesn't have to be fucking, if they don't want it to be. You don't have to be married, you don't have to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Those are just labels and binds. It's all about the love.. and the communication, and honesty. and respect.

I learned the easy way, and the hard way.


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Re: Forgot how bad being single sucks [Re: Adden]
    #4195764 - 05/19/05 03:30 PM (11 years, 6 months ago)

Also.. if I posted this in Phys/Ment Health I'd just be getting "feel better soon, man!" or "you'll find someone you love!" responses.

I :heart: t3h Pub.


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