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Offlinetomk
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While we're at it, BDSM
    #4177025 - 05/15/05 03:37 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

:rotfl:

Alright, while we are having sex talk.  Anyone else get into BDSM stuff?  Pain, spanking, bondage, detailed role play, sadomasochism, hot wax, electricity, forced chastity, orgasm denial, submission, obedience, punishment, humiliation, etc.  (all consenual).

I personally think the 'subspace' many BDSM practicioners go for is a type of ego loss similar in some respects to psychedelics.  I also know that while I'm tied up and blindfolded I get synastesia more then on psychedelics, across my sense of sound and touch and vision, like they are all wired together.  It's a real trip to be tied up, unable to move, and to not be able to tell if a sensation, which you are seeing, is the music in the background or some sensation being applied to my skin.

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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: tomk]
    #4177036 - 05/15/05 03:44 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

Never got into straight up BDSM. My ex girl liked it when I pulled her hair really hard.. She always asked me to slap her ass really hard too.. hah.. I can't say I enjoy any form of BDSM personally on the submissive end. Well I guess orgasm denial... well not exactly denail but teasing can be really kinky and the end result is fuckin awesome.


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #4177073 - 05/15/05 03:59 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

I too enjoy a good hair grab and pull while I'm giving head, spanking is not bad either. I haven't really experienced more in depth BDSM, but that really doesn't mean I wouldn't do it. I'll try anything twice, you may just have a shitty experience the first time... and that goes for everything from sex to new foods.


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Offlinetomk
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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #4177075 - 05/15/05 04:00 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

See, I'm wired like your ex-girl. I'm not even interested in sex where I'm not going to have some marks afterwards. I don't like making love. It's boring. Keeping in mind this sort of thing is consenual (consent is obtained in advance so that begging for it to stop doesn't end it) I like sex to be closer to rape then anything else. I like getting caned, hard. I like it when my partner gets turned on by me struggling and crying. I like it when I am to caught up in responding to painful stimulus to respond to the sex.

I think with most BDSM, you sort of have to start out as a submissive. You can't really be a dom until you have a good idea what goes into the submissive mindset.

If you have a lover who is approaching you about this sort of thing, you should realize that their desires probably run deeper into their psyche then they let on, especially if your relationship was previously vanilla (vanilla is what BDSM people call boring old making love with no frills). I bet your girl really wanted you to take over and hurt her even more when she told you this stuff. Talking to your partner openly about this could bring some of it out.

Cum control is great. You need to be tied up for it to work. After a while, you can't handle it any more, and will jack yourself off if not restrained. Cum control isn't just the awesome result. It's being jacked off just to the point of orgasm, then brought back there many times, each time getting closer, but not being allowed to cum. Then, your dick is put in a cock cage and you must sleep. Several times during the night, you are woken up, jacked off almost to orgasm, but not allowed to cum. You wake up the next morning, tied up, to a blowjob or a handjob that does not stop until you have cum twice, and then given 5 minutes before being made to cum again. Then, 10 more minutes, then a fourth orgasm. This lasts until you do not have anything left to shoot. It is both agonizing and bliss.

Creativity + sex + enough trust in a partner to let go of control fo the situation is great.


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: tomk]
    #4177086 - 05/15/05 04:09 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

Wow, thats pretty hard core. Much more involved then any of my sexual encounters.


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: tomk]
    #4177089 - 05/15/05 04:12 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

I'd tie a girl up, spank her, pour wax on her, get her to the brink of orgasm and stop like fifty times until she finally gushed everywhere; I'd also do detailed roleplay, obedience, punishment etc.

Some girls like that shit, it'd be fun to play around with I'm sure.

Now where are they?!??!??!?!?!??!??! ;D


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Offlinetomk
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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: DrunkenCowgirl]
    #4177097 - 05/15/05 04:16 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

The way you describe your sexual response, you sound like some types of BDSM might be for you.

It would be worth pursuing your intrest in this area. I'm not saying this as a guy trying to hit on you, but as a gay guy who seems to be wired in a similar way to you. I think bondage may help you have orgasms with your partners, because it does let you let go, which is what you said you had trouble with. If you do like hair pulling and stuff, you may also like spankings. If you find a good partner, he would take you through the ropes by gradually building up a spanking in such a way that it wasn't violent but hard enough to get the part of your brain that responds to hair pulling going millions of miles faster then just hair pulling gets it going.

One of the great things about BDSM is that there are a lot of people who will take the time to help you find yourself in this activity. There are people who will help you go through activities until you find what works for you, without exploiting you. This whole time, they are guiding you, but you have the ultimate power to end things if they get uncomfortable. If you get in touch with some of these people, you could open up direct contact with another aspect of your sexuality you have only experienced tangentially.

If I am right, and you are wired like me, this is the sort of thing that would give you so much bliss from sex. Once I started doing BDSM stuff, my fantasies about non BDSM stuff just stopped. Completely.

The best way for a non-dominant female to find a partner would be to contact other submissive females, who would then direct you to men who they have had good experiences with. Looking for men directly will lead to a bunch of guys who think that saying they will spank a woman but only do so because they think such a woman would be an easy way to get off. You would instead want to find an experienced partner who has initiated other people and who would talk to you in huge detail about your progress before and after each scene, so that you could grow into a role you feel best suits you.


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM *DELETED* [Re: tomk]
    #4177100 - 05/15/05 04:17 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: Adden]
    #4177103 - 05/15/05 04:21 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

s2dope said:
I'd tie a girl up, spank her, pour wax on her, get her to the brink of orgasm and stop like fifty times until she finally gushed everywhere; I'd also do detailed roleplay, obedience, punishment etc.

Some girls like that shit, it'd be fun to play around with I'm sure.

Now where are they?!??!??!?!?!??!??! ;D




Well bro.. Get yourself a ball of raw uncut and hit the club. I'm sure you will find a couple hot chicks that will want to get down any way you please. hah.


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Offlinetomk
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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: DrunkenCowgirl]
    #4177104 - 05/15/05 04:22 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

:lol:

I remember when my exboyfriend went manic (he was bipolar) and decided to start a porn company.  The model was in for a milking scene where he had to cum about 5 times in a half hour.  We were gonna shoot it the next day, and so I had to tie him to a chair and go between feeding him bonghits, taking bonghits of my own, sucking him off almost to the point of orgasm, without letting him cum, and watching until he started to get soft to start over.  This lasted all night.  He said it was experientially similar to a hippyflip by the start of the next day, and he wants me to repeat the experience with some MDMA and no focus on being ready for a porn shot the next day.  Boy, those days were rough.


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: tomk]
    #4177111 - 05/15/05 04:26 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

I never really thought of myself as a submissive person. Your really making me think here, Tomk. I think before I persue anything like that I need to really figure out what I want. I wouldn't want to put myself in any situation that would make we want to shy away from sex, even with a "good partner" as you say. I think getting into that before I was mentally ready would freak me out alot. I grew up pretty sheltered and I really just entered the sexual world 2 years ago.

I will take everything you've said to heart though, alot of it makes sense. I just think I need to find out where I stand. It any of my ramblings make sense at all.


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #4177119 - 05/15/05 04:29 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

First of all, if your girl is doing stuff to try and draw your wraith, you are going to have to go gingerly. I'd suggest sharing these posts with her and asking her reactions. If she does have a thing for pain, and is not aware enough of it to seek out a good partner, she is going to end up in a very abusive relationship. Even if you aren't together with her, you should try and direct her masochistic sexual energy into a channel that will not get her harmed. (In BDSM lingo 'hurt' is what masochists want, but 'harm' is the bad stuff no one is interested in.) If she has this trait, you can help her channel it even if you aren't going to be the one hitting her.

May I ask if she was ever involved with things like cutting? Like would she cut herself as a response to stress? A lot of times, people who have a lot of masochistic sexual energy will cut to deal with it. These same people say that cutting is to BDSM like bad masturbation is to great sex. Just curious.


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: tomk]
    #4177125 - 05/15/05 04:34 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

I would love to live where you do,, people are so much more free,,


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: DrunkenCowgirl]
    #4177133 - 05/15/05 04:39 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

Alright. I have to go to bed because I have to work in 4 hours, but let me continue this conversation later.

You say "I've never really thought of myself as a submissive person."

What do you think of when you think of a submissive person? Maybe you have some stereotypes that are inaccurate. Maybe you think a submissive person can't be assertive, or has to accept things they do not want, or some other notion. There are lots of different ways to be submissive. I'm sexually submissive, but I'm not going to pretend to be someone I'm not to make someone else happy. I'm not going to act like I'm not intellegent to make some guy happy, or give him all my money and let him control it. At this stage, I would suggest you don't look inward, but rather look at your preconcieved notions about the BDSM world. Then, after cleaning out the preconceptions, you can look at yourself and find where or if you think you would fit. Right now, I think it would be bad for you to think about where you stand without first taking the time to look at how your notions of the BDSM spectrum compare with the reality of the situation.

Maybe having a dialogue on this will help you find where you stand. I would answer your PM's in confidence if there are things you are not comfortable talking with around all these people.


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: Skunk420]
    #4177136 - 05/15/05 04:41 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

well this is some crazy shit up here. No BFSM for me. I do have hella fetishes thoug, like cheerleaders, and nice asses. LOL. Nah but this thing is pissing me off how I dont have a ranking. nobody loves me. what kinda craker jacker shit ish beezy up wit dat.


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: Arcanis]
    #4177139 - 05/15/05 04:45 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

I feel like I am outcast becuse I dont express myself enough..


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: tomk]
    #4177142 - 05/15/05 04:46 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

I'm off to bed as well, but I think I might PM you tommorrow.
Thanks for all your advice Tomk.

I rated you Arcanis.


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM *DELETED* [Re: tomk]
    #4177144 - 05/15/05 04:46 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: tomk]
    #4177874 - 05/15/05 12:54 PM (12 years, 1 month ago)

I think the leather and rubber fashion to be visually stunning as is the sight of someone tied up or in some other form of bondage. The actual sexual act, for me, doesnt do too much - I do like to be held down or tied up by my girl. I also like to dominate myself - but spanking, slapping, hair pulling, dirty talk, and general aggressiveness is far as I go - that's fulfilling enough for me. Really havent had the desire to go further, but I would be down with the right person.

I do respect you tomk for your sexual openness and experience. Far too many people are afriad of their bodies and mental desires.


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Re: While we're at it, BDSM [Re: Vvellum]
    #4178083 - 05/15/05 01:39 PM (12 years, 1 month ago)

my girl likes that shit. she likes to be choked a lot to the point of almost passing out. likes the hair grabbing...likes rape porn....all that shit.

:shrug: its fun


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