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OfflineCubieman420
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Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend?
    #4051146 - 04/13/05 05:34 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

This really nice girl that is in one of my college classes sits next to me, and we always talk. I could be completely wrong, but on a few occasions I could of swore she was flirting with me. She is really cool and I want to ask her to hang out sometime. The only problem is, I heard her mention to someone else something about having a boyfriend. I am somewhat confused on how to approach this I guess..... :confused:


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Cubieman420]
    #4051164 - 04/13/05 05:38 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

Well, just 'cause you "could almost swear she was flirting with you", doesn't mean she actually was. Maybe she doesn't actually have a boyfriend, so you could always just ask her out.


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Phluck]
    #4051211 - 04/13/05 05:51 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

Yea, I mean maybe I am taking her comments towards me to seriously, but all I can say is she is nice to me and really cool. I'll probably see what she doing this weekend if I get the nuts to ask her. And she'll probably say hanging out with her boyfriend......but oh well, I guess if I don't ask, I'll never know.


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Cubieman420]
    #4051356 - 04/13/05 06:29 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

If she never told you she has a boyfriend, then go with that. You don't know she has a boyfriend.


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Cubieman420]
    #4051594 - 04/13/05 07:18 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

Almost every girl I have ever dated had a boyfriend when we met. Thats how girls are, they rarely go without a boyfriend by choice. Just keep in mind that when shes done with you, she will keep you around until she has the opportunity to cheat on you. Such is the way of things.


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Catalysis]
    #4051980 - 04/13/05 09:28 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

Sometimes there are people.... men and women alike who flirt...not on a chance that there could "be something" there...but just to make the day interesting and fun. I work with a lot of people...both single and married/taken....whichever. We ALL flirt.
Flirting makes things go by quicker because we are all having fun.
Occasionally it CAN lead to other things...but almost never.

If you think she's interested, then go for it. Until then...just play along...for fun. :smile:

That's my 2 cents

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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
    #4052126 - 04/13/05 10:09 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

Desiree said:
Sometimes there are people.... men and women alike who flirt...not on a chance that there could "be something" there...but just to make the day interesting and fun. I work with a lot of people...both single and married/taken....whichever. We ALL flirt.
Flirting makes things go by quicker because we are all having fun.
Occasionally it CAN lead to other things...but almost never.

If you think she's interested, then go for it. Until then...just play along...for fun. :smile:

That's my 2 cents

~Desiree~




See, girls just fuck around with whoever interesting comes their way.  The only problem I see is that you might actually like her, in which case you need to be more careful.  If you just want sex out of it then go for it.  :thumbup:


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Catalysis]
    #4052500 - 04/13/05 11:53 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

It's not just fucking around with people in general. It's about having fun in boring situations.
Guys do it more than women do. It works both ways.


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Cubieman420]
    #4052567 - 04/14/05 12:19 AM (11 years, 7 months ago)

The thing about women is that they always have a boyfriend. I heard it phrased this way somewhere before; "A woman is like a monkey swinging through the trees. She doesn't let go of one branch until she has a hold on the next." It is common practice for women to line up their next perspective boyfriend before they completely sever ties with their current one. Once you realize this, you will see all women as being available. The outcome of the situation will just be based on what you have to offer the woman and what her boyfriend is currently offering. Should you feel bad for her boyfriend? Not really. He probably got together with her when she was dating another guy, whether he knew it or not. If you were able to sway her away from him then you did the guy a favor. She was bound to leave him in time anyway. I could go on for hours on the subject but I will end it here with one piece of advice. If you want to maintain the upper hand in the relationship, just don't let her know that she has you. Remain a challenge and you'll keep her interested in you, instead of the guy that sits next to her in class. Her current boyfriend is probably whipped if she is flirting with you every day.


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Cubieman420]
    #4052577 - 04/14/05 12:24 AM (11 years, 7 months ago)

Shiiiiiit, you can't turn a ho into a housewife, playa


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: PowerTrip]
    #4056088 - 04/14/05 08:43 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

The more I read shit like this, the less I want a girlfriend.....maybe it's a good thing that I'm socially inept.


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Dark_Star]
    #4056305 - 04/14/05 10:01 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

Its just a game, dont take it to seriously.


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Cubieman420]
    #4061972 - 04/16/05 11:20 AM (11 years, 7 months ago)

If she does have a boyfriend, the fact that it hasn't come up in converasation means that she probably doesn't want to talk to you about him. So go for it.


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Twister]
    #4062039 - 04/16/05 12:02 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

Ain't no shame in asking to go out for a cup of jo or a soda between classes.

Ain't a date, but you can spit yo game playa.

Throw down your cards, let's see um!


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: NewAgeDiciple]
    #4068657 - 04/18/05 02:51 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

You're in college buddy.. don't be TOO nervous about it all!

Just remember.. the WORST that she can say is.. 'no'. And once it's all over with.. you'll be stuck wondering why you didn't ask her out even sooner.. because you'll probably get her digits!

Men are always thinking that the girl has the upper hand. Believe me.. she doesn't! It appears as so because men are always (almost always) stuck making the first move. She's just as scared in the convo as you are, she's thinking about the same shit.. .. just go for it!!

If it doesn't work out you can always look back at this all as a learning experiance.... and you're charm has progressed... hopefully making you better and better until you finally meet 'the one'.

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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Dark_Star]
    #4068673 - 04/18/05 02:59 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

Find out for sure if she has a boyfriend or not, but if she does, don't aggresively pursue her. and if she pursues YOU. and she DOES have one, she's not someone you want to be with anyways. Any girl who would cheat on her current guy isn't worth your time in the first place, because chances are she'd do the same to you down the road.


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Re: Ask out this girl that has a boyfriend? [Re: Liz]
    #4070447 - 04/18/05 11:20 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

i definitely agree with ifallapart. the only girl who ever did me wrong was the one who hooked up with me when she was with somebody else.

and people are just flat out wrong about girls always having a boyfriend. maybe they date skanks, but i know plenty of single girls. if only i had some kind of self-esteem...


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