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Liz
Owl Lady
Registered: 11/16/04
Posts: 6,962
Loc: Massachusetts
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Bom, if he's talking about who I think he's talking about, dont encourage him to bring flowers or sweep her off of her feet. That lousy cheating whore deserves neither. Sorry todcasil, but from what you've told me of her, your wife is a real bitch.
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CherryBom
Yoga Gypsy
Registered: 12/26/98
Posts: 11,177
Loc: Ontario
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Re: ? [Re: Liz]
#4043059 - 04/11/05 09:25 PM (18 years, 11 months ago) |
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Way to crack open the story.
Tod, what if you're not in love with her? What if you are just attachted to her in a comforting, familliar kind of way?
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Todcasil
rogue DMT elf
Registered: 08/08/99
Posts: 16,381
Loc: Crawling on the floor...
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it is difficult. if it is only attachment... familiar and comforting, then i must love her for ignoring me.
when i do not love being ignored.
i am just not sure what to do with myself. im pretty sure she just feels sorry for me, so she wont say anything directly to make me not want to be with her.
she called me her husband today and i freaked out.
because im TRYING to stop thinking about us that way. then she says something like "well your still my husband"
and i say "dont tell me that" as i start to cry, and she says, well talk about it when you get here.
i get there and she wont talk about anything. so on my way out i say "thanks for talking".
she says "im sorry, i am tired."
i go home feeling angry because she wont even tell me she doesnt want to be with me. i need that. i need that closure. ive asked her for it, and she still wont tell me.
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Skunk420
Registered: 06/13/04
Posts: 18,524
Loc: inside
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..sorry about what I said...on my last post.. that would be pretty difficult to deal with, I have never been married, but I felt like I was...but yes that would be hard, I have been in similar circumstances myself...
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oDin
Registered: 08/12/99
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Last seen: 10 years, 9 months
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move on, be a good person, but move on
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Todcasil
rogue DMT elf
Registered: 08/08/99
Posts: 16,381
Loc: Crawling on the floor...
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Re: ? [Re: oDin]
#4043388 - 04/11/05 10:46 PM (18 years, 11 months ago) |
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i am trying to be a good person.
i am trying to move on.
oDin, i respect you as a gentlmen and a friend... I am trying to do these things, and sometimes it works.
i feel all im lacking is closure for me to move on. believe me i want too.
-------------------- Men look at themselves and they see flawed humans, we look at women and we see perfect GODDESSES Women look at themselves and they seem utterly human, when looking at men they see proud GODS. ~Casil
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Senor_Doobie
Snake Pit Champion
Registered: 08/11/99
Posts: 22,678
Loc: Trump Train
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I can't really offer anything except to say, be patient, as patient as you can be. Love is a fickle bitch...she sounds like she's confused, probably wrestling with feelings of her own, but I'd keep my distance, and wait and wait and wait and wait and maybe some day you guys will be friends.
That's all you can hope for really
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blink
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Krishna
कृष्ण,LOL
Registered: 05/08/03
Posts: 23,285
Loc: oakland
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Re: ? [Re: blink]
#4044430 - 04/12/05 05:17 AM (18 years, 11 months ago) |
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the only way i've been able to do it is a lot of physical space inbetween us, and new objects for my affection. it certainly isn't easy nor painless, but what other choice have you got?
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