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    #3889120 - 03/08/05 08:46 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

I am 19 and am wondering what I would tell my child about drugs. I do not want him to not do drugs, but I do not want him to party all the time. I remember even though my parents told my in a sense not to do drugs. I still smoked pot at a teenager and tried x. I also did shrooms. I know I was not extremely respectful in the sense of listening to my parents but I did respect the the drugs and did not abuse them. Unfortunately looking back at it now I tried pot WAY too early. (I think I did it in 4Th grade) I was wanting to know what you would say to your child to let him know you are alright with it but want them to wait. Or is this really impossible? I guess I'm trying to say that I just want my child to wait till he/she is older than I was when I first tried drugs. On a side not I am not expecting a child but my friend and I were talking about children and got me thinking about this.


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: mxdrk]
    #3889237 - 03/08/05 09:20 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

I solved this dilemma by never reproducing.


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: ToTheSummit]
    #3889294 - 03/08/05 09:28 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

Damn, the 4th grade...9th grade, for me.


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: mxdrk]
    #3889317 - 03/08/05 09:31 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

I never came out and actually told my kids "I got high". They've figured it out. They're 15 and 16. The funny part is they're into sports and don't seem
to have any desire to experiment at the moment. All that may change.


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: ToTheSummit]
    #3889454 - 03/08/05 09:53 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

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ToTheSummit said:
I solved this dilemma by never reproducing.


..about time someone said it! I dont have any and I am glad I have no children..there are too many people using sex to reproduce, and it it just plain wrong, there are too many people having way too many, especially where I live..sex is best for pleasure and fun and it is a fun addiction to get into..


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: Skunk420]
    #3889474 - 03/08/05 09:55 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

I have no problem with kids.  Actually, I am really good with them.  And I don't begrudge anyone wanting a family.  It was just never my thing and I don't regret not having any. :shrug:


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: ToTheSummit]
    #3889497 - 03/08/05 10:32 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

When I was going through my most serious experimental days, I kept a very vivd journal. It's filled with thoughts, ideas, poems, song lyrics, stickers, phone numbers, directions, party flyers....EVERYTHING. It's my life from about the age of 17 to 20.

On the very last page of my journal I wrote a note in case I decided to make some little humans one day. The note is basically this:

Dear kid,

This my journal for you to read and keep. Inside are all of my thoughts and dreams. I'm giving it to you because I want you to know me not only as your totally uncool mother, but as a person who grew up and made mistakes and learned and loved. So read it, and ask me questions if you want and we'll have a cup of coffee and I'll love you forever.

PS. I don't know who your dad is yet, but I'll pick a good one for ya, ok?


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: CherryBom]
    #3889498 - 03/08/05 10:34 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

/me thinks Bom will make a bitchin mom!! :thumbup: :heart:


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: ToTheSummit]
    #3889521 - 03/08/05 10:41 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)



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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: ToTheSummit]
    #3889525 - 03/08/05 10:42 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

iw ould never, ever have kids no matter what.


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: Amethyst_Acid]
    #3889544 - 03/08/05 10:46 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

I might be wrong, but there is a very big possibility that you change your mind on that one one day.  :heart:


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: CherryBom]
    #3889563 - 03/08/05 10:50 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

* checks amethyst's biological clock *

Yep, Cherry, she hasn't hit it yet :rolleyes:


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: ToTheSummit]
    #3889577 - 03/08/05 10:52 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

ToTheSummit said:
/me thinks Bom will make a bitchin mom!! :thumbup: :heart:




times a kajillion!  :grin:


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: ToTheSummit]
    #3889603 - 03/08/05 10:57 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

what happened? this place froze up for a while...well for me anyway...kids are cool, I just say you dont need to be better person to have them, but I would not tell my kids about drugs, I am sure they would find out on thier own..then I will tell them to smoke me out... :lol: ...jk


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    #3889652 - 03/08/05 11:08 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: ricochet]
    #3889673 - 03/08/05 11:13 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

I have noticed that too, most of the other ones just make rude and snive remarks..or some stupid comment that makes them look better then men in general..


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: ricochet]
    #3889700 - 03/08/05 11:18 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

i like some kids, im actually really good with (most) of them. i have no plans whatsoever of having any though. if i did, i would give them the "facts" as best as i've found and let them live their own life. i really don't think rules are the best way to teach/learn. Common sense++ is what i'd teach.


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: mxdrk]
    #3889853 - 03/09/05 12:04 AM (11 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

mxdrk said:
I am 19 and am wondering what I would tell my child about drugs. I do not want him to not do drugs, but I do not want him to party all the time.

I was wanting to know what you would say to your child to let him know you are alright with it but want them to wait. Or is this really impossible? I guess I'm trying to say that I just want my child to wait till he/she is older than I was when I first tried drugs.




Tell them the truth.

I tell my kids about drugs...and my use of drugs...past and present.

The good, the bad, and the real ugly!~

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My parents were cool with drinking, smoking pot and doing mushrooms...I always wondered why they let us get away with it...they were pretty straight. []
We had a pool table in the basement and I had a killer stereo...and we would spend hours down there partying our asses off.
My Dad would come down and check out our chicks... and give the old  :thumbup:
He even had a few drinks with us.
And we would leave and go hang down at Alki Beach...and raise a little hell.
Man those were good times.

So one day when I was in my 30's I asked my mom...why were you so cool about the drinking and drugs.

Her answer:

She said they(her and dad) knew they couldn't stop us from partying.
So they figgured it was better to let me and my friends party at home...than have us out getting into trouble somewhere else.
Plus they could keep an eye on us.
:wink:

They were smart parents...never saw it comin.

I try to be a cool parent to my kids too.

:smile:


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Re: Teenagers/children [Re: mxdrk]
    #3890471 - 03/09/05 02:02 AM (11 years, 8 months ago)

Well, I see it from my life. So I told my son it would be fine with me if he would be interested in trying it. He was around 12 or so when I told him.
I always roll my joints in the livingroom so he's sometimes there and even wants to make my filters.  :grin:

He may sometimes smell my pot, and I tell him how drugs work.
So it really depends on you, if your relationship is open enough.
And if he is interested in actually knowing about it.
If your overal exampled towards him/her is: "drugs are okay if you use them wisely and not use certain kinds" then that will probably be his/her point of view as well. But this also depends on all the outside information he has recieved before you give him that point of view.

I hope this is some help for you.  :cool:


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