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InvisibleMOTH
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I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile
    #3832181 - 02/25/05 10:44 AM (11 years, 9 months ago)

I invited a girl I've known for awhile into my apartment to live with us for a short period of time. She became homeless since her husband started being abusive. She is bringing a cat.

Anyway, I'm kinda nervous because our apartment is less then 700 square feet and already we have two people and 3 cats living in it. However, I am happy to help her out.

She'll be staying with us for a month, possibly more.

Has anyone ever done this and how did it turn out?


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: MOTH]
    #3832190 - 02/25/05 10:47 AM (11 years, 9 months ago)

My best friend came to live with me for 3 months after his trouble with his mother came to a head. Granted, I was living at home and home was a three bedroom apartment, and my bedroom was pretty big, so space wasn't an issue. But it always feels good to help those in need when the one place they thought was home has become hell, it's a real good thing you're doing. He had gotten into a huge fight with his mom the night he finally came over and went into his room and slammed the door. Then he heard all this smashing, and then the cops arrived, and he came out and the living room had been totaled. By his mom. And she told the cops he did it. They didn't believe her (Cause she's wacko) but they told him he should leave for everyone's sake.

I had a great time with him, but it also gets stressful, especially about $$$...


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    #3832423 - 02/25/05 12:28 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: ]
    #3832484 - 02/25/05 12:46 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

Thanks guys, I'm hoping this will be a good experience. I have faced some opposition about her living with us from the husband though, since he is very relunctant to have our lives as a couple "interrupted" as he put it.

But I think this will be one of these things that five years down the road I'll look back at with amusement and fondness.


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: MOTH]
    #3832502 - 02/25/05 12:50 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

Obviously if a wedge gets driven between you two you just have to look at the situation objectively and just decide if it's her that's driving the wedge or if it's just his uncomfortability with the situation and then see how it goes from there, whether you two can talk it out or whether you just have to tell her she needs to find some place else to go....Good luck though Elle.


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Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake.

-Erik Davis


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #3832547 - 02/25/05 01:03 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

never lived with another guy but when me and my gf had a place her sis got kicked out and lived with us for a little over a month, it was chill like everyone said the only thing is the money part gets a little annoying when their not pitching for anything, but its good karma.The satisfaction of helping your friend out will be well worth it :peace:


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: infamous]
    #3832600 - 02/25/05 01:17 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

be good people.

but, expect it to be horrible....  then when its awesome, itll be a nice surprise :smile:

i harbored my wifes sister and her son after the husband became abusive.  it can be lost of fun, it really can, but be careful they dont overstay their welcome, it will inevidably happen.  they nee dto be trying to find a place to live, not crashing at your house for until you get fed up.

my advice :smile:


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: Todcasil]
    #3832807 - 02/25/05 01:54 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

Is she hot?  Are you fearing any naughtyness between any parties that would be detrimental to your marriage?

Is she...  trustworthy?  Are you fearing for anyone's safety or property, be it person or cat, might be damaged or go missing?

If not, it should go pretty smoothly and you'll look back fondly in years to come, if she gets back on her feet. :smile:


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: delta9]
    #3832818 - 02/25/05 01:56 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

She's attractive.  I don't think I'd try to get all sexual with her though, just because it might make things really awkward.  (we do have the same fetish though, which could get interesting.  :crazy:)

I'm not worried about her ratting me out about any illegal stuff.  I think for the most part she's pretty cool about it.


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: MOTH]
    #3833127 - 02/25/05 02:55 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

ugh you already know how i feel about this you know when I meet her tomarro I will be completly honest with you on how I feel about her....... so we will see :smile:


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: MOTH]
    #3833146 - 02/25/05 02:58 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

You should definitely make love to her.





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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: Learyfan]
    #3833323 - 02/25/05 03:55 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

:lol: Learyfan.


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: Learyfan]
    #3833326 - 02/25/05 03:57 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

He's got a picture for everything.

God bless him for that one.


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-Erik Davis


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #3833328 - 02/25/05 03:58 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

:heart: :lol: :heart:


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: MOTH]
    #3833412 - 02/25/05 04:39 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

shes gonna sleep with your hubby. :doggystyle:


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: 40oz]
    #3834129 - 02/25/05 07:47 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

fortyounces2freedom said:
shes gonna sleep with you & your hubby. :doggystyle:




Shes attractive so whats the problem here ?


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: MOTH]
    #3834351 - 02/25/05 08:51 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

Just make sure she understands what you expect from her before she moves in. This kind of conversation is always a little awkward, but it beats the hell out of what could happen without doing it.


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Re: I'm going to have a girl living with me for awhile [Re: MOTH]
    #3834791 - 02/25/05 10:42 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

I don't understand how/why people can be abusive  :nonono: makes me sick. You're a good person Elle, I hope this works out!  :goodluck:


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