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KristiMidocean
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taken from my cheast
#3817388 - 02/22/05 03:06 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Well my ex-boyfriend and I have been staying pretty close friends(we only broke up a few weeks ago and have been together for almost 2 year) which we both were on the same mind track one day we might get back together but today he called me on the phone and asked why I lied to him about buying my radiator(I knew i was busted) but the reason I didnt buy the radiator was so I could Buy his long over due christmas present a $250 stereo.... And he told me not to get him anything if I couldnt afford and that I need to fix my car before thinking of him....which he is right but I felt bad for not getting him anything because he got me $500 dimond earings.... so to make him think that I had enough money to do both I just told him that I got the radiator and that he didn't need to worry about it. well he caught me today and he said that he doesnt even want to be friend now or even talk to me again... which I thought I would be okay with this that I would be able to move on and be like what the fuck-ever... but now I find myself really upset over this... really hurt... not crying but more like what the hell.. I do something for him and he says he doesnt ever want to see me again??? I dont get what the fuck. I know I shouldnt have lied to him but shit you are going to end a 2 year friendship over that?????? am I being stupid for being a little pissed at him should I really be blaming myself??? what would you do in this situation?? Do you think he has other motives for doing this or not??
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Freeker
jackaroe
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I don't think this is the end. Closure, in my experiences, is a lot more sudden, shocking and final. If I were you I would wait it out, see if he tries to contact you. If he doesn't you could try sending him a letter or giving him a call. I think in time it will work out as long as you reach your hand out. Great relationships don't die over money, or radiators for that matter. Seems he's being a bit stubborn, but I guess time will tell.
Hang in there
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beejay
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so wait, you lied to him about buying something for yourself so you could buy something for him, correct?
While thats technically lying, it was not done maliciously. Either he's lying about his motives or he's just a dumbass.
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MeatSpace
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: beejay]
#3817415 - 02/22/05 03:13 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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why are you buying things for people and not taking care of yourself?
That's just dumb.
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KristiMidocean
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: MeatSpace]
#3817424 - 02/22/05 03:14 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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because I love him im more of a giving person then a reciver even in sex I like to please others... doing that make s me happy
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Todcasil
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: beejay]
#3817437 - 02/22/05 03:16 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
beejay said: While thats technically lying, it was not done maliciously. Either he's lying about his motives or he's just a dumbass.
indeed
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RJLR
No greater love
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: MeatSpace]
#3817443 - 02/22/05 03:17 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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you both need to talk, it can't be for the reasons he's says, that little lie wasn't really a lie... you were keep a present secret... I think some thing else is up... pick the right time to talk to him, make sure he's not going g to play with your feelings, and get to the bottom of this so you don't go crazy!!
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Freeker
jackaroe
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: Todcasil]
#3817446 - 02/22/05 03:18 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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"Taken from my Cheast"
I bet there was atleast 5 people who clicked on this thread hoping to see breasts. Typos do happen. I know I did
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KristiMidocean
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: RJLR]
#3817468 - 02/22/05 03:22 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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he wont answer my calls or anything. My mind keeps going over what is going on ....I think I am about to go crazy....I hate this ... I feel helpless... when he ended it like that he didnt even let me say anything he hng up on me .... soo I feel like there is so much to be said but he wont hear me he doesnt want to hear me fuck this sucks
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Todcasil
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sweetie i hate to say this but i think he was through with you sooner than you thought... and now hes being a jerk face.
im sorry
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delta9
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His loss, not yours. Get over him - if he can't see it was because of love for him that you did it, that's his own problem; that or he is just using it as an excuse to distance himself because he is too pussy to think of another reason.
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KristiMidocean
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: Todcasil]
#3817516 - 02/22/05 03:31 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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no i don't think so because I was the one saying that I needed time to see what I wanted..... I dont care if he doesnt want to be with me .. Im hurt because we do have a really tight friendship... he is my only best friend up in dallas the only person i constantly hang out with... we can talk for days..I not so much hurt that Im not his girl but that Im not his friend holy shit Im soo confussed
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dobinky
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he sounds like a girly man to me....being all emotional and what not....no offense to any woman!
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Freeker
jackaroe
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: dobinky]
#3817542 - 02/22/05 03:35 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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dobinky said: he sounds like a girly man to me....
It was on the tip of my tongue but I wasnt gonna say it.
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RJLR
No greater love
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Quote:
KristiMidocean said: no i don't think so because I was the one saying that I needed time to see what I wanted..... I dont care if he doesnt want to be with me .. Im hurt because we do have a really tight friendship... he is my only best friend up in dallas the only person i constantly hang out with... we can talk for days..I not so much hurt that Im not his girl but that Im not his friend holy shit Im soo confussed
he's playing with you, he sounds quite young or young minded... either you play his game, which will mean he'll probably do this every time he gets a bit bored, or you play it cool which means he can't do this to you, so when you get back together or back in contact he'll be forced to play it cool to and be open about he's problem with you... is he a bit of a drama queen???
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delta9
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: Freeker]
#3817569 - 02/22/05 03:40 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Freeker said:
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dobinky said: he sounds like a girly man to me....
It was on the tip of my tongue but I wasnt gonna say it.
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delta9 said: ... he is too pussy to think of another reason.
I said it for you
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Freeker
jackaroe
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: delta9]
#3817575 - 02/22/05 03:41 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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RJLR
No greater love
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: Freeker]
#3817731 - 02/22/05 04:14 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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You'll be alright babe!! just keep cool
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KristiMidocean
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Re: taken from my cheast [Re: RJLR]
#3817854 - 02/22/05 04:42 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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he is rather girlie but I use to like that.. Thanks for all of your advise... I wont call him......I didnt really do anything to deserve this
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Amethyst_Acid
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no one likes to be lied to
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