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Vulture
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How do i get rid of these horrible nightmares!
#3797788 - 02/18/05 09:58 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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well ive been getting through the day a little better now since the whole breakup bullshit. Ive been hanging out with friends a lot and actually having some fun.
but bedtime is another story. I just miss sleeping in the same bed with her....it wierd sleeping by myself...and thinking that she is perfectly confortable probably sleeping in the bed with her new boyfriend jsut hits the wrongs spots in my brain i guess. Im always having incredible nightmares....not really scary stuff...but she is always in them...and something fucked up is always said and makes me fly off the handle. Last night i woke up and then felkl back asleep...i dreamed that i imediatly woke up to a phone call from her..yay i thought...then she said something (dont rememebr what) that just set me off....now im normally a very passive person that wont do shit to anyone. But i cussed her for all she was worth...i went absolutly insane! Threatening her new bfs life and that was the least of it.
I wake up exremely furious...or...sad and crying my eyes out. The night before last i dreamed i was getting back together with her and everything was fucking awesome....untill the next day she told me she was really pregnant and couldent had to go back to him. Oh man i cryed for about an hour...woke up totally out of it.
how the fuck am i gonna stop the insanity! ive been smoking the ganj before bed to try and tone them down...it hasent been helping....and not smoking definatly hasent helped either.
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WiserGod
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Re: How do i get rid of these horrible nightmares! [Re: Vulture]
#3798109 - 02/18/05 11:26 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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there's this stuff that the indian aghori's use on there feet to supress dreams...unfortunately i don't know the name of the plant they use maybe someone else can help or maybe you can do some research.
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The_Red_Crayon
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Re: How do i get rid of these horrible nightmares! [Re: Vulture]
#3798200 - 02/18/05 11:48 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Your having these nightmares because there is a problem that you have. Your dreams are exploiting your worst fears.
I used to have terrible nightmares almost everynight of drowning and the undead. I used to two be deftly afraid of these two things. I figured i was so afraid of these two things it was severely limiting my happiness.
I was afraid to go to sleep at night because i would have these continuous dreams, and than one day i just stopped having them.
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Vulture
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Re: How do i get rid of these horrible nightmares! [Re: The_Red_Crayon]
#3798609 - 02/18/05 01:27 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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i realise there is a problem...its just not something i can really help right now...im just trying to wait things out...sorta in limbo witht he whole things right now. Nothing is really making sense like it used to. I need to tlak to her but she is always at work and its just a big pain in the fucdking ass to even get a hold of her when he isnt around.
i need to meditate on this some i guess
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Locus
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Re: How do i get rid of these horrible nightmares! [Re: Vulture]
#3799782 - 02/18/05 05:36 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Well, yeah, obviously this is the big problem in your consious life that's being brought up subconsiously in dreams because it has been left unresolved. And you know you have to resolve this problem before the nightmares will stop. Somehow that's what you'll have to do and that will be the best for you mentally as well.
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Vulture
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Re: How do i get rid of these horrible nightmares! [Re: Locus]
#3801130 - 02/18/05 09:53 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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pick up the phone bitch!
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goob
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Re: How do i get rid of these horrible nightmares! [Re: Vulture]
#3805889 - 02/20/05 04:11 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Does a 'Dream-catcher' work? I just cleared out the basement and gave one away because I find all my dreams entertaining.
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