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I need legal help
#3776750 - 02/13/05 11:21 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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OK well my ex is dateing a multiple felon and I want to get his record for the fact me and her have a child and he has been busted for over 6 felonies since they have been together nevermind the like 12 felonies he got prior
now she said to me "give me one reason why he cant watch our son"
I said look at his crimanal record she says he has none but I live in small town USA and I know his scoop as I have known him for years he has been in jail well over 10 times and is faceing charges
so my question is how can I get his record for free to show her (all sites I find you have to pay 40 bucks)
I know I can tell the judge but I hate the whole system thingy and want to prove to her that I know whats up and she is walking on thin ice without haveing to go to court to prove it (I hate court)
PLEASE HELP ME I NEED IT
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delta9
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Re: I need legal help [Re: fee]
#3776805 - 02/13/05 11:33 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Some states have open records... If not, you'll need to make friends with a LEO or pony up the $40. Cracking into LEOs databases will cost you much more than $40, unless you do it yourself. Good luck, I feel for you... But hey, maybe, just maybe, the system actually reformed him................ I feel for you, bro!
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Burke Dennings
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Re: I need legal help [Re: delta9]
#3776844 - 02/13/05 11:44 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Delta9, you said the system may have reformed him! Hahahaha!
/wipes tear of laughter
Good one.
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Anonymous
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Re: I need legal help [Re: delta9]
#3776854 - 02/13/05 11:46 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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delta thanks bro but in the last two months he has been selling crack smoking it and selling oxy's ond doing it all in front of my son
NOT COOL
I dont want any "big brother action" I just wanna confront her with writen proof that I KNOW so she will lay off me and give me rights OR ELSE I WILL BRING IT UP IT COURT but I dont wanna
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delta9
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Re: I need legal help [Re: fee]
#3776877 - 02/13/05 11:57 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Heehee, thanks, electrode
fee: that is so not cool, man. If it gets bad enough I wouldn't hesitate to get the courts and LEO involved to get custody of my son (assuming you don't have anything incriminating going on yourself - don't want to lose him to child services ).
Good luck, whatever you decide to do.
P.S. She sounds like a crackwhore, but I think you knew that...
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BrAiN
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Re: I need legal help [Re: delta9]
#3776962 - 02/14/05 12:30 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yea man... Good Luck.
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Jim
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Re: I need legal help [Re: fee]
#3776971 - 02/14/05 12:33 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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call css man. dont hesitate. unlike police, they can investigate a claim like that.
-------------------- Use the Fucking Reply To Feature You Lazy Pieces of Shit! afoaf said: Jim, if you were in my city, I would let you fuck my wife.
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Twister
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Re: I need legal help [Re: Jim]
#3777005 - 02/14/05 12:43 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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If you know he does that stuff around your kid call CSS like jim said. Personally I'd kick his ass, but of course thats probably not the best option.
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Re: I need legal help [Re: Twister]
#3777020 - 02/14/05 12:46 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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^^^^^ seeds of hate only grow into bigger trees of hate
I would love to but the thing is she is letting it happen and its her son too so the one I should be pissed at is her
I really dunno what to do
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Re: I need legal help [Re: fee]
#3777033 - 02/14/05 12:52 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Call CSS. Its not something you can think about doing. You have to. It is your child! Your fucking child! You must do it because your child has the right to a safe environment. Do you have any legal custody?
-------------------- Use the Fucking Reply To Feature You Lazy Pieces of Shit! afoaf said: Jim, if you were in my city, I would let you fuck my wife.
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Re: I need legal help [Re: Jim]
#3777069 - 02/14/05 01:04 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Of course. Thats why I said it wasnt the best option. However, I would rather trust myself to protect my child then a government agency. I wouldn't consider it hate either. Does a bear that kills a hiker because he got too close to her cubs hate the hiker?
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Re: I need legal help [Re: fee]
#3777073 - 02/14/05 01:05 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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but in the last two months he has been selling crack smoking it and selling oxy's ond doing it all in front of my son
Congratulations for showing restraint that I would not have shown. I probably would have shoved a gun in the guy's face if he was doing that shit in front of my kid. Now that you have a kid it is a good idea not to "go off" like you could when you were eighteen.
You need to use your brain and not your anger in this situation. If I were you I would try to get the kid taken away from your ex and placed with you. If you want the kid to stay with the ex, this guy has to go. If you can't convince her to get rid of him and he is doing this shit in front of the kid, then she is not a good mother and you need to contact Child Protective Services.
I know guys who were stupid and stuck their dicks in nasty whores and they now have kids to these whores. These bitches do not take care of the kids, do drugs in front of kids, and fuck tons of guys. Because of these guy's predicaments, I have come to be very careful with whom I jump into the sack with. Although, considering I haven't gotten laid in 4 1/2 months, I might be willing to fuck one of those nasty whores right about now.
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Re: I need legal help [Re: Jim]
#3777076 - 02/14/05 01:07 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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I have weekends when its convient for her
but she is lifting the order as of this week and I do not know what I will get for visitation hopefully all week as she just gets wasted on opiates (no offense to anyone that does them but this is my son) and she allways has a baby sitter instead of me haveing my one true meaning to sucseed if you have a child you know what I mean
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Re: I need legal help [Re: fee]
#3777088 - 02/14/05 01:12 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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I don't have a child, but I have friend's who do and I love them as my own.
It is a serious matter. If you call CSS, they are not going to throw your kids in a home. They will look to you first, as their father. You need to get complete custody and not allow her to see her kids without cleaning up . Keep documentation. Document everything. Dates, times, places.
Here is something to consider: What does she know about you and mushrooms? Is she aware that you grow/ or have grown? If a custody battle is forecoming, be aware of everything that could be used against yourself. You don't want to be put on the spot defenseless in court.
-------------------- Use the Fucking Reply To Feature You Lazy Pieces of Shit! afoaf said: Jim, if you were in my city, I would let you fuck my wife.
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Re: I need legal help [Re: Jim]
#3777118 - 02/14/05 01:28 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
GratefulJim said: Here is something to consider: What does she know about you and mushrooms? Is she aware that you grow/ or have grown? If a custody battle is forecoming, be aware of everything that could be used against yourself. You don't want to be put on the spot defenseless in court.
well she bought me everything to get started back in the day
I do not have anything going as of now and havent sence we where together
but I have cancer and she has stolen pain killers from me in the past and i have that documented (not prosacuted) in police files so I have the upper hand by far in drug issue I am against a drug produceing conspierer (as myself) and she is with a convicted drug user/felon
so the drug thing I have under control if she brings it up she is fucked
but my biggest prob is I am honest I can not lie to a judge (or anyone (wich sucks) for me but not anyone around me)
being straight up true kinda bites at times
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Re: I need legal help [Re: Jim]
#3777444 - 02/14/05 05:20 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
GratefulJim said: It is a serious matter. If you call CSS, they are not going to throw your kids in a home. They will look to you first, as their father. You need to get complete custody and not allow her to see her kids without cleaning up . Keep documentation. Document everything. Dates, times, places.
I knew someone, a very good person who didn't use drugs or drink, who used to send her son to stay with his father every other weekend. He wouldn't let her come in the house, though.
CPS took the child away one day while at the father's because someone reported that he was giving the kid alcohol to drink, and the father was also dealing drugs. CPS wouldn't let the mom take the kid because they said she should have known what was going on.
I knew another guy who reported his wife for drinking. She was a drunk. CPS didn't do anything. He took her to court three times but the court dragged on giving him custody.
One day CPS came by and took the kids and because they couldn't locate the father, they put the kids in a home. He was out of town on a business trip. He had to go through this whole reunification process for a year before he could get his kids.
Be really careful with this. See if you can get legal advice at one of those places who offers free legal services. Sometimes courts even have a list of attorneys who do it for less money than is usually charged.
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Re: I need legal help [Re: Frog]
#3778430 - 02/14/05 11:34 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Never get a court appointed lawyer for a custody battle. NEVER!
Like Frog, I know many people who have gone through this because I have been involved for years with chemical dependency services.
I live in a very depressed area, so CSS is very busy, but yet they get things done. I live in a rural area. City will be different. Very different.
You are best filing for sole custody, and then bringing this to light.
-------------------- Use the Fucking Reply To Feature You Lazy Pieces of Shit! afoaf said: Jim, if you were in my city, I would let you fuck my wife.
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Re: I need legal help [Re: fee]
#3779190 - 02/14/05 03:37 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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You should be able to go to the CourtHouse and look at the records on MicroFiche... You can look at them for free, atleast here in Kern County, but if you want the Records printed up then if will cost you money...
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Re: I need legal help [Re: Its Pat]
#3779285 - 02/14/05 03:51 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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i know wisconsin has a site where you can look up peoples police records. what state do you live in?
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Re: I need legal help [Re: fee]
#3779582 - 02/14/05 04:53 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Like Its Pat said. It's public record.
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