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 Vulture
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 Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? 
#3712600 - 02/01/05 09:45 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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i will add to this post pater when i have time and explain the whole story...as of right now im getting my stuff together to move out of my girlfriends house.....the most inportant thing in my life is in love with another man! She apparently loves both of us and is completely torn. But has decided to give him a chance because he is finacially secure and does more things for her. And god knows if i had the if i had the ways and means id do everything thing i could for her to be happy.
just looking for some incouraging words
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Phoshaman
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 Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Vulture]
#3712886 - 02/01/05 10:29 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Time.
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 mecreateme
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Phoshaman]
#3713034 - 02/01/05 10:55 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah, don't get all pissed off at her and go do something you will regret. Not to say you don't deserve to get a good revenge fuck in but that will ruin the relationship if you really happen to like her. I hate it when people fuck around and in my book they are done for when it happens but I understand extenuating circumstances, just chill and let things run their coarse.
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Vulture
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: mecreateme]
#3713058 - 02/01/05 11:03 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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thanks man....i needed to hear that. Ive just never had to deal with soemthing like this before...it hurts so much....and im not going to try to get revenge...im better than that. I want her to be happy...its jsut hard being so close to valentines day and all. And it was so wierd cause she was the best thing in the world that ever happened to me...then she got a job and started hanging with one of her coworkers and within a month its like she has nothing to do with me anymore
i will always love her....but i cant let myself fall into a depression...i must shine on!
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EarthAngel
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Vulture]
#3715807 - 02/01/05 08:36 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Kia Kaha~ (Maori for Be Strong)
If it didnt work out, then the universe has betta planned for you,as hard as it may be to see right now, there is alot more out there 
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World Spirit
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Vulture]
#3715830 - 02/01/05 08:41 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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I think "time" is the best word anyone can give. Take it easy and take it slow, brother.
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Silversoul
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Phoshaman]
#3717192 - 02/02/05 01:20 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Phoshaman said:
Time.
Yup. However, there are ways of minimizing the symptoms. Go out with your friends often, keep yourself busy, and try to be alone as little as possible.
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Vulture
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Silversoul]
#3718702 - 02/02/05 11:15 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Paradigm said:
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Phoshaman said:
Time.
Yup. However, there are ways of minimizing the symptoms. Go out with your friends often, keep yourself busy, and try to be alone as little as possible.
these are the thing that i try to do. But it is very hard seeing as how my whole life revolved around her. everything i thought about was something to do with her. Everything i did i did for her. My friend are in school...or i cant get in touch with them. Im recently unemloyed. Living back home.....the frustrations are building!
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baltazar
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Vulture]
#3718742 - 02/02/05 11:25 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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You have the cure in your own heart and dont let it get broken ...
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Catalysis
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Vulture]
#3720480 - 02/02/05 06:26 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Duct tape, it will fix anything
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baltazar
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Catalysis]
#3722837 - 02/03/05 12:27 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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lol 
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nonoman
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: baltazar]
#3723924 - 02/03/05 08:39 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Sorry to hear it bro, rest assured in karmic return. Your attitude and style of dealing with this will result in the ebb flowing back your way...
Peace
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JacquesSauniere
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: nonoman]
#3723970 - 02/03/05 09:04 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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this may prove to be a test for you aswell as a test for her,
its very easy to shower someone with financial security and other stuff as in gifts and places out when you have it, and sometimes people forget that. she hasnt known this person for long and hasnt lived with them to really see what they are like, i mean what the hell, first few month of any relationship is pretty cool and exciting, its only after time and being put through shit that you really see if someone is for you.
maybe she will want you back, maybe she wont
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Arf
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: JacquesSauniere]
#3724936 - 02/03/05 02:20 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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hey man, im sorry to hear about that but sometimes thats just the way things go, you know? ive been in a similar situation and at first i was mad like really mad, she messed me about a bit and we didnt speak for pretty much half a year but we got it sorted. so basically what im saying is give it time, like everyone said and talk about it i know if im feeling down having someone to talk to really helps.
hope it all works out!
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Arf]
#3727438 - 02/03/05 09:35 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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Damn, thats fucking harsh....
If she dropped you after a month with this other guy the relationship probably wasn't going to last alot longer IMO. Therefore, you are probably better off right now anyways....
Keep busy man, and accept the fact your single right now and that isn't a bad thing. There are millions of beautiful and cool women out there that are capable of giving the same happiness as this one did even if it may not seem like it now. Work on the other frustrations in your life now. Work on yourself. These kinds of things tend to make us turn a negative eye on ourselves and that is counterproductive.
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Vulture]
#3727909 - 02/03/05 10:46 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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If she broke up with you because someone else has more money ,then she is a whore.I know it's harsh but that's what women who trade relationships for sex and money are.
Move on man,you obviously had feelings for her and she cheated on you.
I know it's hard losing a girlfriend you actually love but it happens.
The only thing you can do is get right back out there and start dating again.
Good luck and keep your chin up.
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fungis_eata
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: swm]
#3728499 - 02/04/05 12:27 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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[edit by concrete: this is a serious foum]
Edited by concretefeet (02/04/05 02:20 PM)
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NosferatuMan
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Vulture]
#3729334 - 02/04/05 08:00 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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[edit by concrete: that is so completely uncalled for that i think a ban is in order].
Edited by concretefeet (02/04/05 02:21 PM)
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Vulture
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: NosferatuMan]
#3737240 - 02/05/05 08:08 PM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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i cant tell you how much i appreciate all the thing you guys do for me...you help me out with all my hard times and help me put things into a logical perspective.
althought i havent really told the whole story as it would be a bitch to read because there is so much that goes into it. I think iv figured out what i have to do. Stonerware as always talked to me and gave me some great advise on waht actions i should take next. I will always love her and nothing is going ot change that. But i must let her have some space for a while and get back on my feet. Once that happens ill start seeing wahts up with her and see if she realizes what a dumb mistake she has made
if not then fuck it i guess....i cry myself to sleep every night...i have dreamd about her and wake myself up crying...and i have dreams about us getting back together and then wake up and realize it was a dreama nd cry some more...i miss her so much it hurts...but i must keep on trucking and shine on!
peace borthers and sisters....much love for each and every one of you!
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Arf
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Re: Anyone got a cure for a broken heart? [Re: Vulture]
#3744284 - 02/07/05 05:00 AM (18 years, 9 months ago) |
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hey man,
glad your gettin back on your feet, we're always here to help, dont forget that!
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