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OfflineKristiMidocean
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guys i dont get them! help
    #3710803 - 02/01/05 12:49 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

so my ex boyfriend calls today to say that he is sorry for being an ass this past weekend about me going to Austin... he sat there and cried to me that he missed me soo much when i was gone.... Okay so here is the problem I love him i do but after this weekend i feel so different about myself that i i kind of want to be alone to regroup my view towards life and love ... but I'm afraid that if i don't stay with him now that he wont be there when and if i realize that he is the one I'm should be with... i don't know whether or not i should move on and stay on the path to discovering myself or to be with a man that sooo clearly loves me..... please help i need some advise


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: KristiMidocean]
    #3710818 - 02/01/05 12:52 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

tell him what you're telling us, honesty in these situations is the best way to go, and if he really loves you (and judging by the tears he does) he'll understand and once the dusts clears all the pieces of the puzzle will fit.


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: KristiMidocean]
    #3710835 - 02/01/05 12:55 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Well, I don't know how much of a help this may be to you, but here goes. We men are pretty dense when it comes to the subtle hints and clues women give out. We have to be told pretty directly how you're feeling about a situation. I think you should tell him pretty much what you wrote here. At least something to the effect that you still care for him, but you need time to think things over. Hope you find that helpful! :sun:


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: KristiMidocean]
    #3710856 - 02/01/05 01:00 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

KristiMidocean said:
after this weekend i feel so different about myself that i i kind of want to be alone to regroup my view towards life and love ... i don't know whether or not i should move on and stay on the path to discovering myself




Time to move on, the world is yours! If you don't, you might get stuck in a rut and regret it.


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: KristiMidocean]
    #3711004 - 02/01/05 01:31 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

He must abide by the old saying, "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it is yours."

You want a break, you should take it and he should let you take it. If you then decide to return to him, he'll take you back if he really loves you.

It's that simple.


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: TM]
    #3711022 - 02/01/05 01:35 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

most guys are dicks and most girls are crazy. go figure


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: JTHM]
    #3711023 - 02/01/05 01:36 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

you guys all seem cool though


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: KristiMidocean]
    #3711024 - 02/01/05 01:36 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Personally, if some girl ever did that to me, I'd continue on my own path. Fuck him man, get new experiences and new boyfriends, continue learning in this life rather than dealing with drama like that.


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: KristiMidocean]
    #3711039 - 02/01/05 01:39 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

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KristiMidocean said:
guys i dont get them! help




and you think you females are simple?
HAHAHA

:laugh:!


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: 40oz]
    #3711052 - 02/01/05 01:41 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

dont be one of those girls who wants the guy just so no one else can have him, and then treat him like shit the whole time.


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Jim, if you were in my city, I would let you fuck my wife.


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: Jim]
    #3711075 - 02/01/05 01:43 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

ill take note. :smirk:


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: 40oz]
    #3711122 - 02/01/05 01:51 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

:lol:Sharp as ever, Forty.


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: 40oz]
    #3711148 - 02/01/05 01:57 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Sorry, my aim was a little off hitting the reply button...


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Jim, if you were in my city, I would let you fuck my wife.


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: blissedout]
    #3711169 - 02/01/05 02:02 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

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blissedout said:
:lol:Sharp as ever, Forty.




as always :wink:

you know, my 1st ever avatar
here at the shroomery yeeears back
is that very same one yer sportin  :thumbup: :thumbup:


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OfflineKristiMidocean
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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: Jim]
    #3712515 - 02/01/05 11:25 AM (11 years, 9 months ago)

its not that at all i dont want him so that others cant have him ... thats the thing i dont know if i want him at all anymore i want to re-evaluate my life and see if that is the path im suppose to takeif not then i want him to move on as well as me


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: KristiMidocean]
    #3713565 - 02/01/05 02:57 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

Seeing as you went to Austin to clear your mind??hang out with a friend, eat mushrooms and get sexual with some guy??it's pretty clear that you're ready to dump this fool and move on. He probably suspected as much and pulled the cord before you had a chance, and now feels miserable about it, because he's in love. Poor sap.
But this is all guess work. I say be alone for a while, as in don't hop from one person to the next, because vampires are real. Vampires... I think I'm gonna cry...


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: Alobar]
    #3713595 - 02/01/05 03:04 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

thanks for the repley you made me laugh! I too believe in VAMPIRES

COME BITE THIS! HEHE


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: KristiMidocean]
    #3713659 - 02/01/05 03:14 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

so your afriad he wont be there when you get back regrouping?  then he CANNOT be the "one".  because hes not there.

do you see?

go figure yourself out, if it is meant to be, then it will be...

you are most important though, right now and in the future.

:heart:


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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: Todcasil]
    #3713699 - 02/01/05 03:20 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

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Todcasil said:
so your afriad he wont be there when you get back regrouping? then he CANNOT be the "one".





Of course he cant be the one silly. Only Keanu can be the one.

On a brighter note. Us men are stupid. I broke up with this one girl a long while back, two weeks later I was calling crying about how stupid I was and how much I missed her. She didn't take me back, and I learned a valueable lesson along the way. I am dumb. Now I've taken measures to rectify this design flaw of mine, being stupid... not a man. Life is still confusing and women are even more so, but we live and learn. Hope that you find the answers to your dilema ma dear.


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Oh shit, don't drink it.... It would eat away your esophagus...
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Leave me out of this pissing contest, you fascist wang-dang-doodle!
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Re: guys i dont get them! help [Re: beejay]
    #3713706 - 02/01/05 03:21 PM (11 years, 9 months ago)

P.S. Todcasil you must answer to my thread about needing help... That is all.


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