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DUBS
Trippin' Mofo

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Hopeless
#3682099 - 01/26/05 06:40 AM (19 years, 6 days ago) |
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My girlfriend tells me she is hopeless. She says she can't see things happening for her, but she also can't see herself doing stuff to make things happening. She also said she doesn't like to deal with reality. She's 17, she tested out of high school recently, she is not yet going to college although she plans on the local City College, she has no job and very rarely leaves her house even. I dont know what to tell her, I know how she feels but she can be stubborn so I dont know what I can say to her that she will believe. What should I say to her? What can I show her? Any help at all will be greatly appreciated! Peace out.
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Irradiated_Feces
doomedgeneration


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Re: Hopeless [Re: DUBS]
#3682176 - 01/26/05 07:38 AM (19 years, 6 days ago) |
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Here is what you say...
GET OFF YOUR ASS YOU LAZY CUNT AND DO SOMETHING WITH YOUR LIFE AND QUIT WALLOWING IN YOUR USELESSNESS!
sorry you may want to sugarcoat that a little... or not it's up to you.
When she says shit like "I can't see things happening for me, but also can't see myself doing stuff to make things happening." you know fuck that, if she isn't willing to try and do something with herself then she absolutely is hopeless and deserves no pity.
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Divided_Sky
Ten ThousandThings

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Quote:
Irradiated_Feces said:
sorry you may want to sugarcoat that a little...
Alot.
-------------------- 1. "After an hour I wasn't feeling anything so I decided to take another..." 2. "We were feeling pretty good so we decided to smoke a few bowls..." 3. "I had to be real quiet because my parents were asleep upstairs..."
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Society
Mmmm... pizza


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You can tell her that someone else feels similar to how she does...
You should talk with her more and get to the root of the feeling and find out why she feels the way she does. Your description of her state of mind seemed a little vague to discern...
Get her to join the shroomery!
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blink
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Re: Hopeless [Re: Society]
#3683993 - 01/26/05 03:59 PM (19 years, 5 days ago) |
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Tell her to get on with her life.
She's lucky to be here right now.
Out of all the things that exist, she is part of the exclusive "human on earth" crowd of the universe, only 6.5 billion alive at this time juncture.
She's blessed, don't let her forget it.
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UKShroomHunter55
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Re: Hopeless [Re: blink]
#3688392 - 01/27/05 12:24 PM (19 years, 5 days ago) |
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Well you should go out and have a good time dispite the fact that she doesn't go out and socialise. maybe if she sees what a good time is, then she'll have more motivation to do things that she likes. try making new friends and showing them of in front of her.
This could either help or send her spiralling in her depression. Goodluck, one thing i would like to ask is how connected do you feel to her. it might be time to move on before you start getting negatively affected from the current circumstances.
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