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phishytrip
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would your good friends/roommates do this?
#3661536 - 01/22/05 12:06 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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i have 2 roommates at my apartment.....
one i moved in with in the begining and is very loyal, but is a drunk, unstable and has no idea where his head is...has a great job that he fucks up all the time, but he cant lose it, just get suspended, railroad worker...its strange, but also he is a raging cokehead...he just pisses me off because hes lost everyday, but he has money to pay the bills...sometimes, late but, can count on him
the other roommate moved in to fill our 3rd bedroom, good thing lowered the rent but said he was going to stay and live but now quit his job and is moving back to LA with his father bought a one way ticket and said hed be back...haha....hes leaving behind about 300 in bills...he said hed mail them back because now hes broke...but what the fuck, when our gas gets shut off because he didnt want to pay and quit his job and shit....its just funny because when he moved in he was like yea ive got a nice job, which he quit, but if i had a tape recorder from the night he moved in, id play it back and say what happened....this roommate is the one pissing me off...i didnt think friends did this friends
im the only college student living here, my money for rent and bills is coming from a settlement i got from a car accident, i gave the money to my mother so when i need it she gives it to me for bills and rent and shit....
im just lost....any ideas to help me out?
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spud
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: phishytrip]
#3661554 - 01/22/05 12:12 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Stab the fucker and steal his wallet.
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phishytrip
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: spud]
#3661559 - 01/22/05 12:14 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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but theres nothing in his wallet? see im lost
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: spud]
#3661570 - 01/22/05 12:16 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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move out with the first roommate into another place
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phishytrip
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: BrAiN]
#3661594 - 01/22/05 12:23 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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thats the b plan on my 2 plans....get a new place with him or go by my self....
but the 1st roommate, is a fucking drunk cokehead, its embarrassing
i brought back some girls i met at a bar one night...cool girls, and they left because of him...he makes an ass out of himself, puts chairs through the cieling and shit....it just sucks because when hes sober, hes a great guy.
but hey dont get me wrong, i drink and do the occasional snapper, but im not blowing 3-4 hundred a week on it
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: BrAiN]
#3661599 - 01/22/05 12:25 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Move in with someone who's not a "raging cokehead". Those people, while they may come through sometimes, are typically loose cannons, and will screw you in the long run.
I would know, I've been one...
Do whatever you can to find someone else who's a little more academically oriented to live with. Maybe if you live with someone who shares a common goal, things will be easier.
I really don't know what else to tell you, I've never been in that situation. Good luck, though!
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phishytrip
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: Burke Dennings]
#3661613 - 01/22/05 12:29 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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yea its a tough descision, because ive been that raging cokehead too...
but were im at right now, im having a hard time finding a new prospectical roommate, id rather have a good rommate then live alone, but i think living alone is wieghing out more than anything, but on the look out for something....but thanks
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phishytrip
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: phishytrip]
#3661616 - 01/22/05 12:31 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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prospectical - not a word.... i love making new words expanding my vocabulary...but all of you know...
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phishytrip
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: phishytrip]
#3661702 - 01/22/05 01:13 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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so i think im going to live here and ride out the semester and deal with it and when summer break comes ill take action, so i have 3 months to figure out my plan....
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BrAiN
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: phishytrip]
#3661727 - 01/22/05 01:29 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Oi. Have a talk with him. Tell him if he doesn't stop acting like an ass then you're leaving. That's unacceptable behavior even for a cokehead. Make him substitute pot for the booze at least. If he won't.. then keep puttin the PEER pressure on him. When he gets drunk... keep pushing the pipe on him.. hahahahah ... maybe then he'll swap it for alcohol.. if not.. at least it'll sedate him
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phishytrip
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: BrAiN]
#3661764 - 01/22/05 01:49 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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yea but, you contradicted him 10 fold...hes a junkie so to speak without the heroin...its also tougher because i want to give everyone a second chance, especially my rommates, but, i cant kick him out, we split the deposit...im just in a really tough spot...im going to wiegh this semester out, most likely, im going to go on my own.
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: Burke Dennings]
#3662022 - 01/22/05 05:48 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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yeah ive known some peaple who lost themselves on mr white... the best thing u can do for them is drop em on their asses... i know it sounds cold but only the dude himself can decide to change his life and in order to do that he needs to fall realy hard before he gets the picture...
all of the peaple i knew like that eventualy 'fell from grace' eventualy got themselves together again... but only after falling flat on their asses... and in the meantime, no matter what the personality of the person is, he/she will eventualy betray you.
coke is like the snake in eden... its a kewl part of the scenery as long as u keep it at a distance but if u listen to it talk next thing u know ure fuckin naked!...
but seriously... (and at the risk of sounding like oprah) i think this requires some 'tough love'...
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: Vertigo6911]
#3662038 - 01/22/05 06:13 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Dude, he might feel like a good friend, but in reality, he's your roommate. You won't see much of him after college. Don't wait until AFTER college to make college, itself, your priority. electrode has the right idea. Been there, done that. School orientated roommates are easily found on a list at your school. Meet with them and scope out the place before moving in. Give yourself plenty of time to choose a place. I had alcoholic roommates, they didn't indulge in anything else, just booze. Even after confrontations, they ended up stealing money from everyone else, not a good way to pay rent. If you can't pay rent, you can't begin to concentrate on school. You're in the REAL world. Spread love, but look out for yourself. You could always confront him from a distance.
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: phishytrip]
#3662265 - 01/22/05 10:04 AM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
....hes leaving behind about 300 in bills...he said hed mail them back
Get it in writing!
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: phishytrip]
#3662638 - 01/22/05 12:21 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
phishytrip said:
i brought back some girls i met at a bar one night...cool girls, and they left because of him...he makes an ass out of himself, puts chairs through the cieling and shit....it just sucks because when hes sober, hes a great guy.
im struggling w/ the same problem. my roommate is a great guy sober, but alcohol brings out the inner-demon in him.
he put a nasty hole through the wall this morning with a chair. looks like shit and now we've got another hole to try and hide till he fixes it.
he has a job where he's probably never gonna get fired from...he shows up late a lot and usually hungover. its all over some 8 year relationship that ended last year....
what a pussy IMO
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Re: would your good friends/roommates do this? [Re: phishytrip]
#3663090 - 01/22/05 02:58 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Get rid of both of 'em, especially the drunk/coke fiend. Wastoids are notoriously unreliable, belive me. I know because I used to be one....
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