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InvisibleSwami
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Is Phone Sex Adultery?
    #3458374 - 12/07/04 03:36 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

If a spouse indulges in phone sex with another is that adultery?

What about naughty e-mails?

Blowing a kiss?

Winking?

Where do you draw the line?

People love to make these things complicated, but I will attempt to simplify it (if possible!). Anything that you say or do with another with sexual intent that would make your spouse uncomfortable or that you feel the need to hide from him/her is probably going too far.


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Swami]
    #3458434 - 12/07/04 03:58 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Yes Swami it is.

The line is drawn at the point of Entertaining the idea of sex. Having the thought is fine. It is when you dwell on it. Make it a fantasy. Let the first picture become a movie playing for your own satisfaction. Then the danger of going to the movie house becomes a real possibility


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It is better to keep your water can in your pants :grin:


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Fucknuckle]
    #3458463 - 12/07/04 04:10 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

i don't think it is, only when you have to hide it or go against their wishes.


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Swami]
    #3458490 - 12/07/04 04:33 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

Swami said:
Anything that you say or do with another with sexual intent that would make your spouse uncomfortable or that you feel the need to hide from him/her is probably going too far.




This is stating the obvious.

To answer your question:
No, phone sex is not adultery, not anymore than pornography could be viewed as adulterous.


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Signo]
    #3458743 - 12/07/04 09:42 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Some partners are ok with liberal sexual intent. Pornograpgy, phone sex, multiple partners even...if it's ok with both of them...no harm done, I guess.

If it's not and goes on all sneaky secrets, then there is obviously a problem...


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Swami]
    #3458884 - 12/07/04 11:05 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

A hard cock hath no conscience.


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Lightningfractal]
    #3458931 - 12/07/04 11:25 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

Lightningfractal said:
A hard cock hath no conscience.




true wisdom


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Invisiblegettinjiggywithit
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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Swami]
    #3459004 - 12/07/04 11:51 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

I would postulate swami started this post shortly after I was posting hypothetical parties in the group hug post, which I did in humor to lighten up some of the tension around here.

In that thread he asked me if my husband would approve of it. Thats why I think he put this up.

For for the record, when I said hell NO, I thought you meant me actually having such an after hours type party. I wouldn't either. We don't allow even drugs in our home, we have a child. The parties I host in real life have childrens and family themes to them.

As far as typing hypothetical parties on a message board for laughs, he could care less. You should see some of the stuff him and his corporate buddies pass around to ease the monotony and tension of business e-mails. He shares them with me and we laugh.

Then again we arn't prudish religious people. Both of us love to indulge in warped humor. Just the other night, we were driving home from somewhere admiring all of the christmas decorated homes and were joking about putting those deer in our yard humping each other.

That wasn't enough, soon Santa joined the humping party in the lawn.

Can you imagine driving past that? We roared! We'd never actually do it though.

When , you asked if he would approve, what were you asking about his approving anyway? My making a joking around post, or my actually hosting such a party? Was I suppose to be barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen instead?


back on topic

Here's a question for married christians. What if you and your spouse played french maid or pool boy in the bedroom or something like that. Wouldn't the idea be to fullfill fantasies of your spouse being some else? If in your mind they are, then, religiously speaking, you would be commiting adultry with your spouse.

Those yoplait yogurt comercials are funny, where you think something "adulterous" is going on and then their teen ager walks in and rolls her eyes as if her parents are wierdos.

FYI, I don't type ANYTHING I would not be okay sharing with my hubby.

I do think that if people have serious thoughts and feelings for others outside of their marriage they want to ACT on, it's time to check the health of the marriage or part ways.

People I think should be monogomous out of pure choice, not obligation. My hubby and I choose only each other again and again every day-so don't worry about my marriage. We be jammin, figuratively and literally.  :heart:


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: gettinjiggywithit]
    #3459425 - 12/07/04 01:59 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

I wouldn't either. We don't allow even drugs in our home, we have a child.

I don't even allow children in my home. Drugs come first!


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: gettinjiggywithit]
    #3459430 - 12/07/04 02:01 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

What if you and your spouse played french maid or pool boy in the bedroom or something like that.

Details woman! We need details!


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InvisibleSwami
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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Signo]
    #3459561 - 12/07/04 02:28 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

No, phone sex is not adultery, not anymore than pornography could be viewed as adulterous.

I didn't say anything about talking on the phone, I meant using the telephone itself...oh, nevermind.  :rolleyes:


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Swami]
    #3459582 - 12/07/04 02:33 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

Swami said:
What if you and your spouse played french maid or pool boy in the bedroom or something like that.

Details woman! We need details!




We are only 36 and married for 9 years so we don't need to role play yet to keep it fresh. Maybe when we are 56. LOL


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: gettinjiggywithit]
    #3459829 - 12/07/04 03:23 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

HUm............. I think he was hoping for some JUICY DETAILS :cool:


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Swami]
    #3459838 - 12/07/04 03:26 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

Swami said:
No, phone sex is not adultery, not anymore than pornography could be viewed as adulterous.

I didn't say anything about talking on the phone, I meant using the telephone itself...oh, nevermind.  :rolleyes:




Haha well in that case I think it would be masturbation unless... I'm sure you can use your imagination there.


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Kenny7822]
    #3459850 - 12/07/04 03:28 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Christians/Catholics at least are not allowed to masterbate. Your still going to hell if you have sex with the phone.


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: gettinjiggywithit]
    #3459863 - 12/07/04 03:31 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

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gettinjiggywithit said:
Christians/Catholics at least are not allowed to masterbate.




How do they do it haha, I know I wouldn't be able to.


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Kenny7822]
    #3459903 - 12/07/04 03:41 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

They do it , then go to confession and say ten Our Fathers and Ten Hail Mary's.


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: gettinjiggywithit]
    #3459917 - 12/07/04 03:44 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

It just dawned on me why so many catholic priests are so freaking horny they are jumpin alter boys.

They sit in these confessionals, hearing all this talk of sin, and lust of the flesh, and desire, and adultery and masterbastion and people "impure" thoughts and are expected to remain celibate and not touch themselves.


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: gettinjiggywithit]
    #3459942 - 12/07/04 03:49 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

They do it , then go to confession and say ten Our Fathers and Ten Hail Mary's.

I often fantasize (or is it super-size?) about Mary. There's something sexy about a shepherd girl in a robe.


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Re: Is Phone Sex Adultery? [Re: Swami]
    #3459962 - 12/07/04 03:54 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

Swami said:
I often fantasize (or is it super-size?) about Mary. There's something sexy about a shepherd girl in a robe.




That has to be a sin haha.


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