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Nothing to say
    #3441116 - 12/03/04 08:35 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

This has become more apparent to me since I started seeing this girl over the past month. She is beautiful and loves to talk endlessly and I've found that when it's my turn to talk I have nothing to say. My life feels hazy and unclimactic and while I feel a strong attraction to society and people and general, I feel I don't have a voice or anything concrete to contribute.

I like to just walk around and stare at people, make eye contact with girls, and run around like a kid. I loathe any attempt at engaging in proper social conversation. I think it's a total waste of my time, yet it's the catalyst for forming relationships.

I don't want to talk, I want to wrestle and form tribal hunting parties.

I fear that I'm just making things more difficult than they have to be.


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Re: Nothing to say [Re: Grav]
    #3441126 - 12/03/04 08:48 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

I'm not much of a talker either. My girlfriend loves to talk. It works out pretty good that way. Of course, she's going to want some response and feedback. You can't be a vegetable. You have to learn not to fear that people will think what you have to say is stupid. Be yourself and say what you feel like saying and if it comes out garbled so be it. Let everyone get a good laugh and laugh with them. Most importantly, in my opinion, is to just be honest with yourself and others.

If the problem is that you simply have no interests that you can share, then you need to find some. Read read read. Always have a book with you. If you are reading, you always have something to talk about. Read the newspaper also. Get something like USA Today. It has all the top headlines in the news, fashion, entertainment, sports, etc. Read that every day and you'll have plenty to mention. And take up a hobby and get serious with it. Hiking is great, but you have to find something that you love. And make sure it's something that can be done with other people. Learn all you can about whatever hobby it is that you take up.

Well, that's 2cents. Hope it helps.


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Re: Nothing to say [Re: Grav]
    #3441136 - 12/03/04 09:00 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

Does this only happen with people you don't know too well? Or is it the same with close friends/family members?


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Re: Nothing to say [Re: NosferatuMan]
    #3441280 - 12/03/04 10:07 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

the more people you talk to, the more interesting your life will be...a lot of people talk non stop yet don't say anything..don't be one of those


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Re: Nothing to say [Re: Hendostan]
    #3441329 - 12/03/04 10:31 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

I have no help, but that was a neat post.

I too want to wrestle and join tribal hunting parties!


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