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OfflineJalruza
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People treat me in a wierd manner
    #3407376 - 11/25/04 08:43 AM (12 years, 18 days ago)

Its like during the past 6 month ive been getting constant remarks that i ACT like a girl not a guy. Its not the way i look but the way i act and EXIST, with a sort of femenin vibe?

I havent tripped with friends in a long time so i dont know what other people look like when they trip and smoke, but just now i came across this pic




see the way that guy on shrooms clutches his hands close to his body like a baby.
Thats what im talking about, i find myself falling into such state even when im sobber.

And the reaction i get from people pisses me off and lovers my self esteem. Is it really me or theres too many red necks in my area?


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: Jalruza]
    #3407419 - 11/25/04 09:44 AM (12 years, 18 days ago)

Mushrooms dissolve your ego and as such you're not going to act a certain way all the time. Society wants you to act "manly" but naturally you may not act like stereotype. Realize mentally you're much more free than these people and they're either jealous or just too damn stupid to be anything but what they've been told to be.

Self-esteem and mushrooms DON'T go hand in hand but that doesn't mean you can't be happy with who you are.


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: Jalruza]
    #3407432 - 11/25/04 09:58 AM (12 years, 18 days ago)

haha, that's my husband and I.  We were tripping pretty hard. 

Terence Mckenna always said marijuana was a feminine spirit.  He said that the men with the long hair in the 70's details this fact.  Before that, it was crazy for a man to wear long hair. 

My hubby has always been on the feminine side.  I adore this, and I've had several girls remark to me that I'm lucky for finding a guy like that who is straight.  :wink:

In my opinion, when tripping or smoking a lot, you sort of get into a free, childlike frame of mind, where appearences no longer matter so much.  So maybe you're just more chilled out then your friends.  :cool:

I'm a girl, but even I have noticed an increase in femininity within myself the more I smoke weed.  I love it.  I've always been such a tomboy, so now I feel like I have an excuse to act girly for once.  :grin:

Don't worry what people think about you, man.  If people are giving you a hard time for acting "girly," they're probably just feeling upset because you're threatening a gender role.  Big deal, just live!  :heart:


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: MOTH]
    #3407461 - 11/25/04 10:23 AM (12 years, 18 days ago)

hey thanks u two for kind replys, btw i hope u dont mind that i used ur hubbys pic as illustration


yeah i shouldnt worry what other think, but at the same time i dont feel like a man very often either. Sometimes when i relax into a proper state, i can feel im projecting masculine vibes around me - and not just macho but i mean GOD type of masculine vibe, but thats usually not the case in day to day life, i think i havent developed my sexuality properly yet, something with my second chakra - think its got to do with it


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: Jalruza]
    #3407465 - 11/25/04 10:25 AM (12 years, 18 days ago)

irts like inside i feel like a mommies boy

its really REALLY anoying, and girls dont like that much either :frown:

and i dont know what to do about it im 21 ffs i think its about time i came into age


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: Jalruza]
    #3407501 - 11/25/04 10:45 AM (12 years, 18 days ago)

Nope, don't mind at all about the pic!

Quote:

Ewok said:
irts like inside i feel like a mommies boy

its really REALLY anoying, and girls dont like that much either :frown:

and i dont know what to do about it im 21 ffs i think its about time i came into age





Okay, this is just my observation, so take it for what it's worth.

Girls who are more willing to settle down and invest in a long term relationship are interested in more feminine guys.  I've seen this in all my friends, my friend's families, and even in people who I don't really know.  I don't know why this is, except maybe subconsciously they believe that a more feminine-looking guy is better for child-rearing.  I think I saw a study on this once on the Discovery Health Channel. 

At the age of 21, you won't find many girls willing to do this.  I know how it is, trust me...at my college, as soon as I tell all the girls my age I'm married (at 21) they tend to look at me like I'm absolutely crazy.  *Most* people are not prepared to settle down in their twenties, male or female. 

In high school, the older girls I hung out with always went for the chisled, masculine guys.  Now I see more and more of these girls getting interested in guys with softer features, and gentler ways. 

It's sort of like how guys like the sluts when they're younger, because they're just interested in getting some, but when they're older and ready to settle down, they like a more mature, virtuous girl who will return the committment.

So I guess what I'm saying is, don't sweat it.  Your day will come!  :heart:


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: MOTH]
    #3407855 - 11/25/04 01:27 PM (12 years, 18 days ago)

The masculine ideal is like a Barbie doll--everybody strives to be it, but it's an impossible goal and nobody succeeds. Perhaps on the outside guys will act overly macho to appeal to this ideal, but on the inside they're hurting. Just be yourself :yesnod: :mushroom2: :tripping:


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: Jalruza]
    #3407961 - 11/25/04 01:54 PM (12 years, 18 days ago)



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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: esin]
    #3408100 - 11/25/04 02:51 PM (12 years, 18 days ago)

Is that guys name in the photograph Jonathan, and does he live in Newcastle. He looks very very much like a guy i know in passing......


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: Jalruza]
    #3408767 - 11/25/04 06:51 PM (12 years, 17 days ago)

It's the rednecks, definitely the rednecks.


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: Jalruza]
    #3410251 - 11/26/04 12:22 AM (12 years, 17 days ago)

Yeah girls don't like pussies. They either ignore them or walk all over them and get what they can out of them ($$$).

ALot of things can cause the pussy syndrom; raised by a single mother, a passive father that was easy to dominate by the mother etc..

It's not easy to cure , but it's imperitive that you do. It is almost impossible to have a healthy sexual relation with a woman untill you do.

You don't have to become MR Macho or Mr Asshole, but you do need to develop assertiveness. One way to do this is practice. When in a relivent situation assert what you want, don't just say "What ever you guys want to do"

Also don't be a push over. Don't be the guy that can always be counted on to do any favor no matter how unreasonable. Don't pick up that friend at the airport at 2 am on a work night. Let em take a cab etc etc.


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: MOTH]
    #3410270 - 11/26/04 12:25 AM (12 years, 17 days ago)

Fem guys don't = good marriage. What ends up happening is he gets married to a dominating bitch that makes his life a living hell to the day he dies


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: esin]
    #3410351 - 11/26/04 12:41 AM (12 years, 17 days ago)

Quote:

esin said:




yea man, fuck what others think


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: Jalruza]
    #3411213 - 11/26/04 05:24 AM (12 years, 17 days ago)

I am pretty fem too.

I'm not a macho guy, I don't like fighting, I'm not interested in sports. I don't try to look or act tough. More than once have people thought I was gay. Although I don't really know if this is because of me joking around about being gay (people are such homophobes and I love exploiting it).

I know I kind of act girly in ways, but it's really not that bad and I'm not bothered by it.

I don't really understand how it is that you act or exude a fem vibe though. ?

Also, I suppose we are to assume that you are straight, but, are you?


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: Amber_Glow]
    #3411425 - 11/26/04 09:39 AM (12 years, 17 days ago)

Act how you want man, it's your body and your life, not theirs.


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: MagussugaM]
    #3411639 - 11/26/04 11:34 AM (12 years, 17 days ago)

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Time keeps ticking and running away
And It's taking us fast to a brand new free dimension
Too cool to mention well that's the intention
But some of us too dame blind to see
Jesus is the King Volume I
Jesus is the King Volume II
Shroomery MSN club
I'm talking to aliens!
Volcano Vap and Brain Chakras
Hilary Duff!!
:gethigh:


Edited by Ewok (05/09/06 07:49 AM)


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: Jalruza]
    #3411656 - 11/26/04 11:40 AM (12 years, 17 days ago)

i think its got to do with energy

not just sex but the fundamental energy that goes thro ur base, and yes sex is part of that energy, and whenever i expose myself to it old reflexes take over


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Time keeps ticking and running away
And It's taking us fast to a brand new free dimension
Too cool to mention well that's the intention
But some of us too dame blind to see
Jesus is the King Volume I
Jesus is the King Volume II
Shroomery MSN club
I'm talking to aliens!
Volcano Vap and Brain Chakras
Hilary Duff!!
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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: Jalruza]
    #3412450 - 11/26/04 03:23 PM (12 years, 16 days ago)

So girls make you nervous? That sounds pretty normal to me.


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Re: People treat me in a wierd manner [Re: poke smot!]
    #3413264 - 11/26/04 07:43 PM (12 years, 16 days ago)

Hey man, I'm on he feminine side too.My parents divorced when i was like 4 or 5.So my mother raised me with my bro.Anyway,this kinda gets to me at times as well.I have a girlfriend who i love very much and loves me as well,I'm very affectionate towards her and she says she never met a guy like that.I Don't see this as a big problem but I wouldnt mind a small change,I feel as though I need to improve on my personal development.


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