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ivi
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Yes
#3383252 - 11/19/04 08:16 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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I am fucking lonely. And please don't go off telling me something like "Hey! It's easy, life is beautiful, just go out more, party more, smile more, get to know more people!" etc. etc. I'm just not the kind of person...
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beejay
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Re: Yes [Re: ivi]
#3383260 - 11/19/04 08:21 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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yeah I feel ya, I've been a bit on the lonely road for a while myself. I'm trying to embrace it though, hard as it may be. I'll not try to offer advice, as you don't seem in the mood. All I'll say is keep your head up and keep doin stuff. Keeping yourself busy is key to not loosing your mind during times of loneliness. In the end you'll be better at something and that's always fulfilling... at least in my experience.
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bf6
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Re: Yes [Re: ivi]
#3383266 - 11/19/04 08:23 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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You're born alone and believe me you'll die alone. I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad, I'm just expressing my opinion.
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beejay
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Re: Yes [Re: bf6]
#3383278 - 11/19/04 08:28 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think for the most part your right, but I do think that some get lucky and find someone that truly compliments them. I believe this to be somewhat of a rarity though. Im just trying to get myself not to need anyone, but not reject people either. Its kind of a hard line to walk if that makes sense.
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bf6
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Re: Yes [Re: beejay]
#3383297 - 11/19/04 08:36 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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I love my wife more than anything in the world, but in the end I feel like I'll be alone. I would like to think otherwise, but...
We should make the best of our lives whether or not we're alone though.
-------------------- The only thing that burns in Hell is the part of you that won't let go of life, your memories, your attachments. They burn them all away. But they're not punishing you, they're freeing your soul. So, if you're frightened of dying and you're holding on, you'll see devils tearing your life away, but if you've made your peace, then the devils are really angels, freeing you from the earth... bloodflower6 Yay for Pornography!
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MOTH
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Re: Yes [Re: ivi]
#3383332 - 11/19/04 08:49 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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Is getting a pet an option?
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ivi
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Re: Yes [Re: MOTH]
#3383350 - 11/19/04 08:54 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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I have a cat.
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adrug
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Re: Yes [Re: ivi]
#3383455 - 11/19/04 09:28 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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awwww kitty...
Hang in there ivi. We might feel alone, but we're really not.
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Silven
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Re: Yes [Re: ivi]
#3383595 - 11/19/04 10:19 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ivi want to drink and drown our sorrows together? =P
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abhi
Why not?
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Re: Yes [Re: ivi]
#3384382 - 11/19/04 01:04 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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I have accepted loneliness. Got really comfortable with it few months ago ... way too comfortable.
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ivi
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Re: Yes [Re: abhi]
#3384393 - 11/19/04 01:08 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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Don't You get 'cravings'? Especially late at nights.
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abhi
Why not?
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Re: Yes [Re: ivi]
#3384400 - 11/19/04 01:10 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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For what? anything in particular?
Company?
I often daydream about being with certain people, or maybe not even certain people but just a person.
I am a bit over obsessed with the idea of "love" ....
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norwegian1
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Re: Yes [Re: abhi]
#3384418 - 11/19/04 01:14 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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ivi, i'me sorry you feel that way....I feel like shit today badlYYY totalling my g/f's car just makes things worse but.....thats why we got the shroomery, do vent,bitch you know let out some steam, to have fun...laugh.. etc
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ivi
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Re: Yes [Re: abhi]
#3384489 - 11/19/04 01:35 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
aje said: about being with certain people, or maybe not even certain people but just a person
exactically
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deoxy187
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Re: Yes [Re: ivi]
#3384694 - 11/19/04 02:20 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dude ya don't need any body except the little guy's growing in your Martha!! But really I understand where your commin' from, I just got out of a 8 year relationship, and even though I have people over all the time I still feel that I'm totally alone sometimes. It's next to imposable to escape the feelings of personal inadequacies!!!
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Re: Yes [Re: ivi]
#3384713 - 11/19/04 02:24 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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All that you don't surrender.. the world just strips away. I only feel alone when I'm around people. What you need to do is find people that GENUINELY feel the same way. But if you never go out... how do you accomplish this?
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Silven
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Re: Yes [Re: ricyjo]
#3384879 - 11/19/04 02:56 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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If I do go out it's near impossible to find people to connect with.
I find a lot of people I meet everyday, very stupid and lacking any inner intelligence, maybe even lacking conciousness of others and just immature in general... Am I alone in that feeling, or is it pretty much mutual throughout the Shroomery?
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adrug
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Re: Yes [Re: Silven]
#3384893 - 11/19/04 02:59 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'd say that's my biggest problem...
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Druggie04
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Re: Yes [Re: adrug]
#3385114 - 11/19/04 03:39 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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I agree 100% with Silven
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Todcasil
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silven, i concur... it is difficult to be lonely.
ive been attempting to get used to it, but its not working
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