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Offlinek2nride
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I kinda have a girl problem
    #3243751 - 10/11/04 05:29 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

The original thread was posted here
http://boards.cannabis.com/showthread.php?t=6297

i thought I could get some more answers if I let u guys know whats goin on,


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OfflinePathos
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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: k2nride]
    #3243788 - 10/11/04 05:37 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

better off finding out for sure rather than wondering what couldve been, IMHO


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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: Pathos]
    #3243856 - 10/11/04 05:54 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

You just need to be yourself and have confidence. Girls like guys when they are comfortable and easy to be around, not nervous and too afraid to say anything for fear of fucking up.  Sensitivity doesn't have to equal weakness, despite what society would have you believe about "real" men.  But you also don't want her to think you are immature and would get too attached too quickly.  That might scare her off.  Just tell her what your heart wants to say, and try to have fun.  Worst case scenario - she rejects you, but at least you know..that's better than wondering, right?  I've been in your situation and I've always felt better after telling her what's on my mind and hearing it straight from her rather than wondering and trying to figure her out..cause trust me, you will never completely figure her out! hah..Good luck bro, things always work out the way they are supposed to, so don't put so much pressure on yourself. :smile:


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Offlinek2nride
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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: Pathos]
    #3243860 - 10/11/04 05:55 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

yeah. i have a story about your post.
I used to be really shy in high school. There was this one girl that was a cheerleader. She was pretty hot and had a good personality. There were a lot of guys that check her out. Anyway, Im pretty sure that she liked me because of little things that she did. Like if i saw her in the hall in the morning, she would smile and say hi. She would be flirty torward me also. I cant remember how she knew i existed, but we just knew eachother, but were never really friends. My senior year in hs, i had a class and sat next to her. i didnt really talk to her that much, becuase i was too shy. Homecoming came up and she didnt have a date for a long time. I remember she would talk about not having anyone to go with. I knew that if i asked her, then she would have said yes. But i was just too shy and waited too long and she ended up going with a sophmore.

What would have happened if i asked her? That is the same question i thought about for a long time. I wish i would have asked, because i was mad at myself for a long time.


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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: k2nride]
    #3243903 - 10/11/04 06:10 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

there have been a few girls that Ive liked that I was pretty sure liked me, but I was always too shy to do anything, and I ended up kickin myself in the ass later. The times when I actually mustered up the courage to ask girls out, Ive had positive results. Worst that can happen is she'll say no.


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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: k2nride]
    #3245942 - 10/12/04 02:07 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

but then again i work with this girl. 'IF' she said no, then i would hate to have to still see her often knowing that she knows i want to be more than friends, but she doesnt.


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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: k2nride]
    #3246083 - 10/12/04 03:13 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

You know what, im so high and i just figured out a perfect solution to see if she likes me or not.
Heres how it goes:
The next time we hang out, ill have us come to my house and watch a movie or somethin. Then during the movie, ill do something small like rest my hand on her leg, or put my arm around her and see what she does. If she doesnt want to be anything but friends, then she won't want me to do that and will more than likely say something. Everytime i have tried this with a girl, they usually let me know they like it by making a move torward me.
How do you think it sounds?


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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: k2nride]
    #3246192 - 10/12/04 04:01 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Sounds like a plan. Go for it and let us know what happens.


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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: Frappy]
    #3246280 - 10/12/04 05:20 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

ok.


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OfflineSilven
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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: k2nride]
    #3246487 - 10/12/04 08:55 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Read signs.

Does she laugh a lot even if you say something that's only "kinda" funny?

Does she go out of her way to make you laugh or have a good time?

When you're talking to her, are her palms wresting upwards at all?

When you and her are sitting around, do her feet point toward you, this is a sign of full attention.

Does she try to make it a point to look directly into your eyes atleast one time each time she speaks?

All of the above signs are signals that she is attracted to you.

I like your plan as well, try it out and let us know the good news when she says yes! :smile:

(P.s. I'm in your situation :wink: )

Those who can't do, teach.


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Born: 10/31/83, which makes me a Scorpio.

1) Scorpios are the most highly sexed of all the signs of the zodiac.
2) Scorpios are prone to excesses: booze, drugs, sex, bad puns, etc.
They usually exploit the weaknesses of others, who fall victim to
their capacity for total lust & sexual abberation.
3) Scorpios possess great intellectual curiosity & creative talent. They
think they are rebels & are arrogant, proud, conceited, and worth every
penny of it.

What do you bring to the table?


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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: k2nride]
    #3246681 - 10/12/04 11:33 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Putting your arm around her isn't really much different than just asking her out, is it? Unless you do something lame like pretend it's an accident.

I have a suggestion. If she wants you as something more than a friend, and either doesn't really have a boyfriend or is ready for a change, she's probably kicking herself now for having told you that she has a boyfriend. And that's HER fault. You shouldn't have to pay the price. So try this: next time you have finished having a fun time with her and you are saying goodbye, just before you turn around and walk away, pause for a few seconds while you look in her eyes, then say real nonchalant "kinda too bad you have a boyfriend" and then shrug and walk away. Then don't mention it again. If she is interested in you, she will HAVE TO do something about it - probably by telling you in some way that she doesn't really have a boyfriend anymore. THAT's your signal!!

Good luck.

KS


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OfflineSilven
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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: KidShelleen]
    #3246712 - 10/12/04 11:56 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

KidShelleen, that's genius... *mutters about why he didn't ever think of that*

And in fact, I'm going to try it in my situation as well.

- Silven :mushroom2:


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Born: 10/31/83, which makes me a Scorpio.

1) Scorpios are the most highly sexed of all the signs of the zodiac.
2) Scorpios are prone to excesses: booze, drugs, sex, bad puns, etc.
They usually exploit the weaknesses of others, who fall victim to
their capacity for total lust & sexual abberation.
3) Scorpios possess great intellectual curiosity & creative talent. They
think they are rebels & are arrogant, proud, conceited, and worth every
penny of it.

What do you bring to the table?


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Re: I kinda have a girl problem [Re: Silven]
    #3247645 - 10/12/04 04:49 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Girls are people too, they aren't any better or worse than you.  If she isn't putting alot of emphasis on her boyfriend and is showing alot of positive body language then just be like "hey, you wanna go get pizza this weekend" or something simple.  Don't go for anything elaborate or really romantic, it's way easier to start with something easy and fun, worse comes to worse, you just go out and have a slice of pizza and have fun.. or she says no thanks.  Don't let yourself go down in flames because you're too shy - I'm a shy guy too and I can't tell you how many times I've probably missed out because I didnt say something (or anything in my case... It doesnt help your self confidence when you've had a speech impediment since you learned to talk - but I'm much better now :smile: )  Not to mention alot of girls are just as shy and squeamish as we are, but you gotta be 'the man' and make the move.


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