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Invisiblez@z.com
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A good friend is on cocaine again.
    #3235138 - 10/09/04 01:38 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

A girl who has been my best friend for about 8 years just started using cocaine again tonight. She has bee doing lines at a party I was at all night. I am disturbed because she did not tell me about it, She used to have a cocaine problem several years ago and lately I have noticed several symptoms of it coming back. Tonight is the first time I have known for sure that she was using. How can I help her? How should I approach the problem? I have very little experience in this sort of thing. What can I do?

I also realized tonight that I just might love this girl. I'm so fucking pissed off and confused that I can not think. Anyone have any advice?


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Re: A good friend is on cocaine again. [Re: z@z.com]
    #3235452 - 10/09/04 03:46 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

The best thing you can do is tell her how you feel. Both the part about loving her, and that you are concerned about her habit. We love to hear men say "I love you", so I don't think you can go wrong there. Once you get that out of the way, spill the rest of your feelings without trying to force the issue.


Work on the love first, then you will have more leverage againsed her habit...


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Re: A good friend is on cocaine again. [Re: ATWAR]
    #3235482 - 10/09/04 03:56 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

i say, that's good advice.


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Re: A good friend is on cocaine again. [Re: ATWAR] * 1
    #3235870 - 10/09/04 09:00 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

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ATWAR said:
The best thing you can do is tell her how you feel. Both the part about loving her, and that you are concerned about her habit. We love to hear men say "I love you", so I don't think you can go wrong there. Once you get that out of the way, spill the rest of your feelings without trying to force the issue.


Work on the love first, then you will have more leverage againsed her habit...




Either that, or blow a huge fucking line with her and RIDE THE SNAKE!! :biggrin:


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Re: A good friend is on cocaine again. [Re: Land_Crab]
    #3236029 - 10/09/04 11:55 AM (12 years, 1 month ago)

Your friend knows how easy it is to be addicted to this drug. tell her she is making a big mistake and you will not support her in her decision to ruin her life.


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Re: A good friend is on cocaine again. [Re: fungigal]
    #3237020 - 10/09/04 06:45 PM (12 years, 1 month ago)

There's a good chance the blow will always be more important to her than you will. sorry


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