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 adrug
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#3210110 - 10/03/04 02:55 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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are men non-committive jerks? Why do I always get strung along? Do I have a perpetual booger hanging from my nose? WTF? 
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 Randolph_Carter
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 Re: Why [Re: adrug]
#3210136 - 10/03/04 03:03 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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I tink the booger is uber s3xhy. 
Give him a week to deal with his shit.
If no improvement, cut it off for the time being.
Guys will get away with anything they can, for the most part.
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adrug
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You think my booger is sexy?! Wanna run off to Vegas and get married? 
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Re: Why [Re: adrug]
#3210169 - 10/03/04 03:10 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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j00 know it, s3chy b00ger lady.....
set a date. 
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Captain Jack
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Re: Why [Re: adrug]
#3210427 - 10/03/04 04:20 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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and why are women so damn whiny?
some things we'll never know.
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because we have to put up with you retards 
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Re: Why [Re: adrug]
#3210454 - 10/03/04 04:27 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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the nuclear family model is way over rated.
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abhi
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Psilygirl
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Re: Why [Re: abhi]
#3210463 - 10/03/04 04:32 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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yeah that was geh.
i honestly think generalizing genders is lame, all people are different, men or women. i've met some very whiney men.
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abhi
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Quote:
Psilygirl said:
i honestly think generalizing genders is lame, all people are different, men or women.
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40oz
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Re: Why [Re: adrug]
#3210510 - 10/03/04 04:51 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
adrug said:
are men non-committive jerks? Why do I always get strung along? Do I have a perpetual booger hanging from my nose? WTF?
why is commitment that important?
if the 'somewhat significant other' bails out, then find another  
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Re: Why [Re: abhi]
#3210551 - 10/03/04 05:04 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
aje said:
Quote:
Psilygirl said:
i honestly think generalizing genders is lame, all people are different, men or women.
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adrug
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CJ: kindly ........, thanks. If I was looking for smartasses with attitude, I would've just posted this in OTD.
Edit by yours truly 
Edited by Ripple (10/05/04 09:49 PM)
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Re: Why [Re: 40oz]
#3210578 - 10/03/04 05:14 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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40 that may be true, but not everyone goes into the relationships looking for a small-time thing, i know for me, personally, i only want to date someone if its going to be a serious long term thing...anything else feels like a waste of my time.
I just find it extremely hard to really get a good guage of the person and listen to it before getting into a relationship. Its easy to ignore things you dont want to see.
Hopefully that will work out for you adrug 
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Re: Why [Re: adrug]
#3210585 - 10/03/04 05:18 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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People are just fucked up
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Re: Why [Re: Kremlin]
#3210586 - 10/03/04 05:18 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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I am exactly the same way. I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half or so and its been fun, but I need more than he's willing to give. It doesn't help that he still has feelings for an old girlfriend which I just found out about last night. So pardon me if I don't want to be second place. I shouldn't have to settle for that.
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Re: Why [Re: adrug]
#3210605 - 10/03/04 05:21 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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definitely. people with baggage are no fun at all 
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Re: Why [Re: adrug]
#3210642 - 10/03/04 05:34 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'd marry you, adrug.
Psily's right, I guess we shouldn't generalize genders. But most guys, myself included, are phobic about the idea of entrapment. If that's the right word for it. I think men are more inclined to wake up when they're 50 and realize they've been dead since they were 25. We see it happening to our fathers so we try and take steps early on to prevent it. Though I can't imagine your guys are having this issue, cause you don't seem like the kinda girl to put men to sleep.
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Re: Why [Re: adrug]
#3210785 - 10/03/04 06:29 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm sorry you're having a hard time, adrug. It sucks to feel second-best. Whenever I catch myself feeling that way, I try to change perspective and realize that people always have their own lives, just like mine and no one is really better or worse than anyone else, we just have different experiences with different people.
I know that probably doesn't help! Here's a hug anyway. 
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adrug
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Thanks for the words, guys. My ego is a bit damaged, but I will get over it eventually. The wound is still very fresh right now.
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