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Liquid_Dimension
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Girlfriend has left to college
#3105716 - 09/07/04 09:02 PM (19 years, 5 months ago) |
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My girlfriend left to college on saturday I live in NJ and now shes in Boston.We started going out back in early June,I love her very much.She's like...perfect,and now that she is far away I just feel all crappy.Like what if she meets some guy and yadda yadda,it's killin me.She told me not to worry about it but,you know how college guys are bah! Anyway,has anyone ever experienced this matter?
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Corporal Kielbasa

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ur screwed!
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Liquid_Dimension
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FUCK! lol...well uh thanks for the advice *scratches head*
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Corporal Kielbasa

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I kid I kid! I dunno if she is wurth any thing to you she'd be true. If she isnt then ta hell with her. Eather that or just keep it open and dont try to own her, cuz hell you just cant do that.
MAybe she might find some one new, maybe now, thats the way it goes. Sorry if I dont make you feel better, The thing is not to worrie about it cuz some things just happen. And they offten never happen for a bad reason, sure it may suck if something happens But dude..... I just think about how many pretty ladies I am going to meet untill I reach 35. Pending on how long my looks hold up for. You should think the same way.
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you should not be thinking the way that you are thinking, it will lead to and can cause lifetimes of misery into just one night. if you love her so much theres a reason, and that reason is also the same reason you should try and trust her, you cant stay with her without trust. and yes if your girlfriend is at least half way decent looking there will loads of guys trying to fuck her at college, deal with it, if you have a good girl she will take care of herself, you don't need to take care of her. plus you are far away. dont deny obvious facts tho, it is a good chance she will be hookin up at college. if u want u can give me her phone number and while im in boston in a few weeks visiting my friend in college, i can try and get into her pants and tell you what happens life is beutiful, and you don't need anybody else with you to enjoy it, remember that. if you ever want some advice shoot me a message ive been in the boat your in right now, that is jealousy.
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Ask yourself what you would do in her situation.
Odds are, she'll do the same
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Corporal Kielbasa

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Are you in school? Working a solid job?
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HarveyWalbanger
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....no girl is worth you being miserable over.
She doesn't make you happy... you make you happy...
Happiness isnt dependent on possessions, wealth, or possition.. just what you think of it.
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Liquid_Dimension
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nah im not in school,I have a part time job at fedex.I may be starting school in Jan.Honestly,this girl is worth the trouble.She's flawless.We have the same humor...i love her personality,she's a gem.And I'll do anything not to lose her.
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Corporal Kielbasa

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Oh damn man part time?!? No wonder your worrying.
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i would say at first, well, you're screwed. i've been dating my girl for over a year and about a half.
still, i donno if we go to different colleges a year from now ( which we may) that we'll stay together.
it is a great test though. if it is truly love, and meant to be, then no, she won't find another you at school.
then again, keep yourself open. don't grow distant, but stay in touch with YOUR reality.
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Two options I see here: 1. Trust her to stay faithful to you and hope things work out for the best. 2. Decide to take a break from each other and see other people. Either way, it doesn't have to be the end of your relationship. If you decide to see other people, you can still get back together later, and if not, then you can possibly find someone who's even better for you. If you go with the first option, make sure you know her well enough to put that kind of trust in her. In any case, if it's meant to be, then love will find a way.
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Summer loves. I hate Labor Day. It means the end to so much especially summer love. If the love is true if will still be there in the spring when all things are new.
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