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InvisibleKingOftheThing
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so yeah i think i might like this chick
    #3011826 - 08/17/04 03:28 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

so now im torn between the single life which has its pros/cons and the dating life which has pros/cons...i dont know how it would even work..i have major trust issues and in a relationship its all about me..im very selfish..i cant have a needy girl, and u cant really tell how needy a girl is until you date her..i think im way too self-absorbed , like my life is the most important thing ...but its something ive tried to correct un-successfully..


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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #3011940 - 08/17/04 03:53 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

a sucessful relationship involves 2 people whos issues are able to be put up with by the opposing partner. Thats it.


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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #3012015 - 08/17/04 04:34 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

Dating can have it's pro and cons, no doubt about that. If you feel your not ready to date, then I'd suggest not jumping into it quite yet.

If you do want to give it a shot, then you know that relationships require some giving and you can't make your significant other happy if your not ready to give some of yourself.
If she's okay with having alot of personal space while in a relationship, then go for it. But from my point of view(i can't speak for other women) in the beginning of a new relationship, I like some attention, I also don't like to feel that I'm not trusted right from the gate recalling your trust issues statement. Woman like to feel like their wanted, as well as worth your time. Some woman can be needy, but at least give her a chance, before jumping to that conclusion. Just be sure your completely ready for it!
That's just my opinion.
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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #3012031 - 08/17/04 04:49 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

If you're even questioning whether you should or shouldnt get into this relationship,(which you are heavily),it is wise to just move on and let it go.These doubts will only magnify greatly in a relationship and you will resent her or the relationship b/c you will miss the single life that you are not ready to give up yet.

Relaionships have a peculiar way of either bringing out every little flaw or covering all flaws entirely.It just depends on the context of the relationship really. :grin:


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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #3014981 - 08/17/04 08:17 PM (12 years, 3 months ago)

It sounds like you just need one night stands. Until you are ready to consider other peoples feelings and stop thinking only of yourself you need not get involved with anyone.

I respect you for admitting that you are self absorbed.


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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: UncleMike]
    #3016747 - 08/18/04 03:33 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

:thumbup:


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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #3017121 - 08/18/04 07:04 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

if youve fallen for this gurl,
then your 'self absorbtion' will diminish overnight,
and will be replaced by open-mindedness, sharing &
caring and all that other happy lovey bullshit
that goes along with fallin for a gurl :grin:

if yer still in doubt, dont be a wanker,
hit it n quit it :wink:


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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #3019915 - 08/18/04 08:54 PM (12 years, 3 months ago)

fuck yeah. 40oz said it right. dude, a relationship is the only cure for the selfish shit out there. also helps you become more of a dimensional person. you won't have to be by yourself and crap.

unless you are completely stuck up with yourself i'd jump into the relationship. the chick will open you up, trust me.


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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #3026185 - 08/20/04 12:24 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

get tested, then get the girl tested, then do it and see if you still wanna be there 5 minutes later. You won't know how you feel about her till you've already busted your nut, then remember that feeling and flash back to it later. if it's wanting to find your car keys, your not ready.


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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: Shaw]
    #3027965 - 08/20/04 11:50 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

I have to agree. Fuck her first, then see how you feel.


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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #3048822 - 08/25/04 03:53 PM (12 years, 3 months ago)

yeah you could always just start out just messing around with her.....this is a good way to find out if she's needy or not as well. Like if she wants to stay the night, or cuddle or some crap....then she may turn out to be pretty needy....you may also realize after all this that you do actually like her and might find yourself....being less self-absorbed...people change. I have faith in you. So I'd go that route....test the umm waters.....


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    #3064352 - 08/29/04 04:54 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)



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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #3117937 - 09/10/04 12:07 PM (12 years, 2 months ago)

well i hit it a few times....and i realized i dont like her :shrug: oh well


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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #3118496 - 09/10/04 02:35 PM (12 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

KingOftheThing said:
well i hit it a few times....and i realized i dont like her :shrug: oh well




:lol:

man I'm glad I'm a lesbian.. a u-haul is required for our second date


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Re: so yeah i think i might like this chick [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #3118836 - 09/10/04 03:59 PM (12 years, 2 months ago)

:rotfl:


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