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OfflineCaRnAgECaNdYS
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Ahh...I'm frustrated!
    #3011219 - 08/17/04 12:25 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I don't know why or how this happens. I seem to get sooooo frustrated so easily. I'm a very impatient person so I'm easily frustrated with anything that has to do with waiting. People who keep me on hold, frustrating. That's not really the point I'm getting at, sorry. I guess my biggest problem is just being frustrated with people. People who like to argue do it to me the most. I don't mind a good debate every now and then, but there are people who just like to argue for the sake of argueing. How can I keep myself from letting people like this get to me?

How do you guys keep yourselves sane?
Am I the only one who gets frustrated so easily?
And how the heck can I help myself be a little more patient?

Any and all advise would be greatly appreciated!


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OfflineLightningfractal
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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
    #3011323 - 08/17/04 12:48 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Slow down, take time to stop and smell the flowers, get to know yourself, take psychedelics, expand, grow, spread love, teach peace.


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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: Lightningfractal]
    #3011494 - 08/17/04 01:27 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I'm trying. I'm actually going to be getting some mushies very soon. It'll be my first experience. Hopefully, that'll mellow me out some.


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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
    #3011517 - 08/17/04 01:33 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Cultivate patience and loving kindness.Realize that most people are ignorant morons and let them just be what they are.A million people would disagree with any given person but does it really matter?No.

People disagree.Dont take it personally.Others are just looking for a target for argument.Just ignore it.


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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: UnenlightenedOne]
    #3011748 - 08/17/04 02:43 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Kindness I can do. Patience is a hard one. Another problem is trying to ignore those morons. I'm one of those who feel like I must have the last word, or I get..hehe, frustrated. But your absolutely right, there are alot of ignorant people out there and I just have to learn how to ignore them.

Thank You!


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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
    #3011869 - 08/17/04 03:36 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I used to have terrible frustration, to an unbearable level.  It started because of invalidation from my parents, the feeling of not being heard.  It got to the point where I was taking it out on myself.  It's taken me a long time to move past that. 

I still have a pretty bad temper, and am very impatient.  I am continously working on it though.  What helps me is making small goals for myself throughout the day, with an emphasis on peace.  Everytime I start to feel overwelmed with frustration, I simply breathe and think peaceful thoughts.  If I am having an especially hard day, I will take a permanant marker and write, "Breathe" on my hand to remind me. 

Self awareness is definately key to this.  Once you make the decision to be more patient and forgiving of others, you only have to follow through for it to happen.  :sun:


hope that helps,
:heart:

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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
    #3011937 - 08/17/04 03:52 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

masturbate.


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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: Barbi]
    #3011982 - 08/17/04 04:11 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Thank you Ellemy....I'll try that!



as far as masturbation, that's only a temporary fix!


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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
    #3012013 - 08/17/04 04:32 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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Kindness I can do. Patience is a hard one. Another problem is trying to ignore those morons. I'm one of those who feel like I must have the last word, or I get..hehe, frustrated. But your absolutely right, there are alot of ignorant people out there and I just have to learn how to ignore them.





Whenever someone is mean instead of being mean back always be kind in return to stop the flow of negativity rather to continue the negative downward spiral.

Having to have the last word is well...A part of the human ego.I definitely dont mean this in a bad way but from a psychological viewpoint.Humans feel the need to win,to strive,to be highly competitive.But the thing is,what do you really win or accomplish by having the last word?Nothing but arguments and frustration.If both people have to have the last word it will only escalate into a higher negativity.The key is to slowly learn to say your piece and leave it at that and let people say whatever silly little ideas they may have even if you feel it is totally wrong.Always respond with fact,truth and kindness rather than accusations,anger,frustration or etc.People will respect you more and take your opinions and ideas more seriously.

Its like this,no matter where you go,no matter what you do there will ALWAYS be criticism and there will ALWAYS be a group of ignorant people.In a world of 6 billion human inhabitants,it is nearly impossible(nothing is truly impossible only improbable) for every person to agree with you.

The key to defeat anger is to transform the anger and negativity into something positive that does not further cultivate negative feelings.When angry, instead of responding with fury and negativity, do something else positive or even creative to take your mind off it.Do something that occupies the mind or something that makes you feel good.But never suppress anger merely transform it.Eventually you really wont get angered anymore.

Patience is merely a matter of taking small steps and eventually reaching a goal that requires a million steps.Slowly you will accomplish the goal.Try to refrain from getting angry in the first place.Transform anger when it arises.Try to understand the other person's reasoning for his or her view.Also realize that people do not mean things personally.You make a post.Someone else reads it and either agrees with the idea of the post or opposes it.They therefore make a post either supporting or opposing the idea you have put out there.None of this is personal.None is against you as a person.Its all a matter of people opposing ideas when they post negatively which usually stems from personal experiences,friends/family's experiences,religion,being biased,culture,personal beliefs and a multitude of reasons.The same goes when someone supports a post.Its merely the other side of the same coin.It is precisely the same way people use to come to an answer/response.

So breathe deeply and meditate.


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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
    #3012029 - 08/17/04 04:48 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

desireesden2003 said:
Thank you Ellemy....I'll try that!



as far as masturbation, that's only a temporary fix!




its only temporary if you stop.


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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: Barbi]
    #3013087 - 08/17/04 01:22 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

What makes you think she does not currently masturbate?


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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: Lightningfractal]
    #3015601 - 08/17/04 10:41 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I do, I do...geez.

But it doesn't always work.


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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
    #3015696 - 08/17/04 11:12 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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I'm actually going to be getting some mushies very soon. It'll be my first experience. Hopefully, that'll mellow me out some.




If you're that frustrated perhaps now isnt the right time to try mushies for the first time. I know you've probably heard it before but it is all about setting and mood, etc.

I often feel those feelings too. People who I've talked to (and trust) have given me one main idea: find some kind of release; whether it's painting, hitting pillows, or yelling curse words at strangers some of us just find it harder to vent.


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Re: Ahh...I'm frustrated! [Re: SuckerLove]
    #3015962 - 08/18/04 12:02 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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SuckerLove said:
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I'm actually going to be getting some mushies very soon. It'll be my first experience. Hopefully, that'll mellow me out some.




If you're that frustrated perhaps now isnt the right time to try mushies for the first time. I know you've probably heard it before but it is all about setting and mood, etc. 





I agree.  Try to work on your frustration before tripping, then when you're doing well, treat yourself to those mushies as a reward.  :smile: :mushroom2:


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