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baraka
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Nice guys never get the girls
#3003738 - 08/14/04 07:24 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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Dammit i sware i need to start being an asshole or somthing so i can be more successfull with the ladies. Sigh... smoken a doob beofore work at 10am.... I am depressed someone give me some loven... i sware this shit happens to me every time i meet i chick i think i like. Im bout to say fuck relationships and be that person that just sleeps around but i dont think i want to be ahh fuck it i gotta go to work.
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ganeshaa
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls *DELETED* [Re: baraka]
#3003747 - 08/14/04 07:35 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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Post deleted by ganeshaaReason for deletion: ditto
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baraka
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: ganeshaa]
#3003748 - 08/14/04 07:37 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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nutten i guess, oh well... im used to it by now anyways.
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Ripple
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: baraka]
#3003751 - 08/14/04 07:39 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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The good Karma will come your way in the end nice is better
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kindkesey
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: Ripple]
#3003756 - 08/14/04 07:41 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah, good thing happen to good people!!
and you sure sound like a good person!!
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Annom
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: baraka]
#3003761 - 08/14/04 07:46 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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Good friends can give you as much/more love(it's different, I know) as a gf. You don't need a girl to recieve love and you don't need a girl to be cool.... That's for now... in the end you will find a girl and she will give you so much more love than if you were an asshole or something.
Try to relax and enjoy what you have! No need to be depressed! NEVER!
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stefan
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: baraka]
#3003783 - 08/14/04 08:15 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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same here... it sucks doesn't it?
Being an asshole isn't a good solution I think. I'm never going to do that anyway.
>Try to relax and enjoy what you have!
yeah sure that's true, but there are a lot of moments that you miss just being with someone. I have plenty cool loving friends (both male and female) but still, you can't compare that in any way imo.
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Ripple
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: stefan]
#3003792 - 08/14/04 08:24 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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Keep on shining
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Annom
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: stefan]
#3003824 - 08/14/04 08:45 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah... I know what you mean. It does suck!
On the other side... I promised myself I would stay single for the next 2years after three relations ended. Girls can give so much shit
Well... That was of course a stupid promise I still have a sort of open relation with my last girlfriend(who was and still is my best (female)friend) and we can have so much fun, share things and give/make love. It for sure is wonderful and I consider myself very lucky.
Because she was/is a very good friend I do think love from a friend and love from a gf are not totally different for me.
BTW: I had the luck the girls came to me. I'm not the guy who talks to everyone in every bar or club.
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Vulture
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: Annom]
#3003842 - 08/14/04 08:59 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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yeah man i know exactly where your comming from. Ive been the same way my whole life...you just have to keep the faith brother! Ive had like 1 girlfriend my whole life and i dont even really count that. But things are hopefully turning out for the best now.
Good things will come your way...just keep being the person you are. I know its hard for people like us to let our gard down....i wish i could...but everytime i get shitted on you know? Me and crystal were tlaking about this the other day....we have both had similer lives and are both afraid to let our gards down for fear of getting shitted on once again.
So just take it easy...take it slow....easy skankin my brother!
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Phishgrrl
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: baraka]
#3003927 - 08/14/04 09:44 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'm sorry Baraka, if I was single I would totally stick to the nice guys. I will never understand why girls go for the assholes. I LOVE nice people with a kind personality. I can't stand stuck up men, it's a huge turnoff. There are too many single nice guys where I live, I just don't understand it. I have a ton of great single guy friends, but not ONE single girl friend. WTF??? Where are all the cool girls lookin for a cool boyfriend?
It's beyond me.
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: Phishgrrl]
#3003931 - 08/14/04 09:46 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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the nice guys get married.
duh!
its punishment for being nice guys and not getting the pooty tang like the playa playas!
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Phishgrrl
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: Barbi]
#3003935 - 08/14/04 09:47 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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oh, is that it? Hmmmm come to think of it, I think you're onto something.......
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Ripple
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: Phishgrrl]
#3003942 - 08/14/04 09:48 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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he hit the nail right on the head!
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Pumpkin_Blythe
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: baraka]
#3003979 - 08/14/04 10:01 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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That is 100% absolutely not true! I dated the biggest dork who was the NICEST guy for 3 years. He was 26 when I met him and had NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND before me. He was sweet he was kind, he opened doors, he would never do anything wrong! Actually come to think of it I was annoyed by all that crap and it ultimately lead to our downfall. Your right nice guys SUCK ! lol
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Phishgrrl
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Hmmm...I'd have to say you were lucky but of course I don't know the whole story. There are so many different traits that I find attractive, nice and kind being some but there are lots more too.
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: Phishgrrl]
#3004004 - 08/14/04 10:12 AM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ok my ULTIMATE man:
Tall 6?2 or over Dark hair (brown) Light eyes (green(
A tattoo or two but not like whole body, I want bad boy not prison boy. Lol A great sense of humor Has to like to be physical. I want a man I can tackle and play with you know what I mean? BIG HANDS (yummmmmm)
Now I do not know where I got this formula, but it has been my type since I was 16 and met my first boyfriend Rob, 6?4 and all those things except no tattoos. Every since then that is all I have been with except the ?NICE GUY?
I don?t know how we ended up together.
He is;
5?10 Glasses A wine rep 100% predictable Very fast in bed (like 2 minutes and done)
But for some reason for a period of a few years we clicked and I guess when that happens you just don?t care that your outside your box. But in the end I was bored with him, I will always be there for him, he is the father of my child and I love him for giving her to me. But in the end nice guys finish last so I guess he better get in line! Lol
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Phishgrrl
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It's so weird....I really don't care what someone looks like if they're healthy and has the right personality. People become beautiful or not so attractive depending on what they're like. I've seen so many guys that may look good in a picture that I can't stand because they're so arrogant.
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: Phishgrrl]
#3004248 - 08/14/04 12:10 PM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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damn it aint that the truth baraka i just dont get it no girls ever seem to go for the nice mellow dead head types
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Re: Nice guys never get the girls [Re: baraka]
#3004257 - 08/14/04 12:15 PM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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Hey man I feel for you, but I got the exact opposite problem. I'm too much of an asshole toward chicks. I can attract them easily but pretty quickly they realize I'm not gonna tone down the jerk routine and they split.
I used to be the nice guy without a clue. Now I gotta find something in between that works.
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