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InvisibleMOTH
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Why do some people show up so damned early?
    #2945792 - 07/30/04 07:04 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Something is annoying me.  There is this guy that ALWAYS shows up for the stupid D&D game my husband runs 2 hours early. 

TWO HOURS EARLY. 

He's out there right now in fact.  It pisses me off.  Then whenever I need my husband to do something (something he'd already have done if it weren't for the person who came early) the person gets all pissy and demanding of my husband attention. 

Another thing that irritates me is the fact that I hardly see my husband anymore because of the stupid mandatory overtime that they make him put in at Dell.  I guess it's paying off since he recently got promoted but still...I wanted to have some cuddle time with my husband today on his day off and that fucker decides to show up TWO FREAKING HOURS EARLY. 

I respect the fact that my baby likes to play D&D and I know that he enjoys it, and I'm stuck in the game too now.  I hate playing, but I play for him because I like to spend any time that I can with him.  But I feel like I'm competing for his attention nowadays and I hate that feeling.  It makes me want to do something impulsive, like burn his D&D books or strip naked and go streaking in the living room so that early fucker will get all flustered and leave. 

Anyhow, this is just a stupid rant because I just now tried to talk to my husband and then the early person interrupted me (because he's a GUEST *gag*) and now I'm holed up in the bedroom while they have a great and dandy conversation out in the living room. 

I'm frustrated to tears.  I don't know how to communicate with my husband that this is bothering me like it is.  I know I should, but I don't know. 

Anyway, another silly post from me.  :tongue:


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: MOTH]
    #2945828 - 07/30/04 07:17 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

"It makes me want to do something impulsive, like burn his D&D books or strip naked and go streaking in the living room so that early fucker will get all flustered and leave. "

LMAO....try that, it might work!!


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: MOTH]
    #2945833 - 07/30/04 07:19 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

There, there Ellemy. I know the woes of living in a house full of D&D dorks. They used to keep me up 'till sunrise when I had work in the morning, all talking about necromance and children's crusades and God knows what other extremes of dorkiness. Tell your man you're feelin' frisky, and would rather lay pipe than role dice.


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: MOTH]
    #2945838 - 07/30/04 07:20 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Haha you should post pictures of the guy that shows up early. If he's that hardcore about D&D he's probably pretty amusing to look at.


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: Tomatadunothing]
    #2945875 - 07/30/04 07:30 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Tomatadunothing said:
Tell your man you're feelin' frisky, and would rather lay pipe than role dice.




I'm not SURE that I know what that means, but if I do that will defenitely work.


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: MOTH]
    #2945877 - 07/30/04 07:31 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

tell him the game is starting 2 hours later.

sex will always come before anything. is d&d a dell game?


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: kadakuda]
    #2946024 - 07/30/04 08:21 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

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kadakuda said:is d&d a dell game?



Mercifuly ignorant of the horror that is D&D.

Back in the early 80s a lot of people were playing that shit. Thank god I avoided ever playing a game! I resisted my nerdiness as much as possible.


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: MOTH]
    #2946052 - 07/30/04 08:33 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Even 'guests' have to respect the 'house-order'.

Where would we get ?

Take you the time with your hubby, you deserve. Compromises should not go to a 'load-only' for one person.

That's no silly post at all.

'Beware of the beginnings.'

I hope I could have been at service :smile:


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: BlueCoyote]
    #2946699 - 07/31/04 12:35 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

What about a game of "hide the dice"?  :wink:


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: MOTH]
    #2946765 - 07/31/04 01:02 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Perhaps it would be a good idea to first tell your husband exactly what you just told us. That you feel like you aren't spending any time together and that when you finally might have a couple of hours this dude shows up at your house way early and cuts into the only bit you two have alone. Suggest to your husband that he nicely let this dude know that two hours early is too early and that he needs to be with you, his wife, for a little while before the game starts. If buddy is interrupting when you two are trying to have a conversation it's probably a good idea to let him know that it's extremely disrespectful, and perhaps let him know that you don't feel comfortable with him showing up that fucking early.

Also if you really hate D&D you really shouldn't be playing it just so that you can spend that time with your husband. It sounds like you guys really need to have a serious heart to heart discussion in which you tell him whats going on with you, emotionally, obviously not blaming or chastising, simply communicating what you feel is missing in your relationship.

I dunno, sounds like it's worth a try to me. If he claims to be too "busy" or "tired" to have a conversation, and keeps making excuses to put it off then he's being really disrespectful of your needs and seriously needs a wake up call.


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: NiamhNyx]
    #2946852 - 07/31/04 01:36 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Thanks guys

I talked to him tonight and we cuddled and he said, "why didn't you tell me how you were feeling earlier, sweetheart?"  (I always try to hold it in..) It instantly made me feel better, especially when he said that he could tell something was wrong.  He knows me like a book...I can't hide anything from him.  Also, he said that he would make sure and tell everyone NOT to show up more then a half hour early for the game. 

So I guess my bitching was pointless after all, but I sure felt better after I did it!  :smile:

thanks for listening


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: MOTH]
    #2946861 - 07/31/04 01:39 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Well, he loves you, and we love you, and you're just plain lovable.


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #2946924 - 07/31/04 02:06 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

:heart: :heart:


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: MOTH]
    #2948453 - 07/31/04 02:29 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Awesome, I'm glad to hear it turned out well. That's the beauty of open communication!!! :laugh:


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: MOTH]
    #2948469 - 07/31/04 02:33 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

glad it all worked out


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Re: Why do some people show up so damned early? [Re: NiamhNyx]
    #2948644 - 07/31/04 03:13 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I got this kid. That stops by my house on the weekends at 8 in the mornin. That means I get about 4 hours sleep before I get woken up by his scruffy mug pokin round my room. I got to just tell him whats up.


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