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Dark_Raider
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Anniversary of hatred
#2935464 - 07/28/04 03:20 AM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well, in a week it will be a year since I left my ex. We were engaged and she cheated on me. Thing is, she proposed. What the fuck is up with that? I don't want to blame it on her but after that I had to go back to a psychologist due to several suicide attempts. I need some help around this time of year. Anything anybody can do would be much appreciated. Thanks.
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Re: Anniversary of hatred [Re: Dark_Raider]
#2935502 - 07/28/04 04:36 AM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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Forget her as best you can she is obviously a head case and you are better off with out her any one who would contradict themselves like that in such a personal matter that effects you so obviously is not worth your time or energy
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question_for_joo
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Re: Anniversary of hatred [Re: Dark_Raider]
#2935596 - 07/28/04 07:17 AM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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no bodda man, If she proposed then she wanted/needed you more than you wanted/needed her and she's probably feeling worse than you. There's other fish in the sea, etc.
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Re: Anniversary of hatred [Re: Dark_Raider]
#2936019 - 07/28/04 11:26 AM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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shit man, I'm really sorry
I've attempted suicide over similar matters before and the only advice I can give you is to put all of your will towards not thinking about her anymore. There's no solution to your problem, so you just have to walk away and move on. There is nothing more you can do but that.
maybe on the day of the anniversary itself you should make sure you're around friends and there's plenty of alchohol or whatever your drug of choice may be.
and remember dude, living well and moving on is the best revenge, and it will help you get over your feelings better than anything else you could do.
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Re: Anniversary of hatred [Re: DoctorJ]
#2937593 - 07/28/04 06:45 PM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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You're better than that, dude. Don't punish yourself for being hurt by someone else. Of course it feels horrible to be hurt by someone so close to you, but don't make yourself feel worse about it. Treat yourself. Tell yourself that life's worth living, because it is!! I can guarantee you that you probably have tons to look forward to, you probably just don't realize it yet.
If you can go through life and do your best to not like this phase you, you've already come a long way. Don't think about suicide, no matter what you'll just lose with that. It's not the answer. Find something that you're passionate about and focus on that! Have fun.
And I know that everyone says that there's other fish in the sea... well, they may not jump right into your lap, but when you find one you'll be thankful that you're still here. Keep on giving it, never give up.
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Re: Anniversary of hatred [Re: Dark_Raider]
#2938846 - 07/28/04 11:34 PM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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Hey Raider, You are better than that. Don't let her get you down that way. Nobody on this earth is worth taking your life over.
I had a friend who did take his own life. I still think of him often. He left behind a wife and 2 children. They still suffer today for what he did. Think of the ones who love you. Let Karma take care of her. Someone someday will do her the same way.
Peace Be With You
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Post deleted by Papaver [Re: UncleMike]
#2938853 - 07/28/04 11:36 PM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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GGreatOne234
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Re: Anniversary of hatred [Re: Dark_Raider]
#2941613 - 07/29/04 05:24 PM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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Edited by GGreatOne234 (07/29/04 10:15 PM)
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UncleMike
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Re: Anniversary of hatred [Re: ]
#2941746 - 07/29/04 06:15 PM (19 years, 7 months ago) |
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nice to see you too.
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