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Psilocybeingzz
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Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement
#2883622 - 07/12/04 07:42 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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My parents are getting divocerd and hearing them talk about ripping off each others pensions, and fighting about the ownership of the house and who gets this chunck of money ,or that chunck of money is making me sick to my stomach
My brother "N" and his grilfriend were at my parents house(I was there to) and he said he said that he and he girl friend have some news,....their getting married, so my dad pipes up right away and says...."really well I have some news to, your mother and I are getting a divorce", fucking dick couldnt help but turn a happy moment to a sour one just for his own feeling of satisfaction
Anyway the more I look at the situation and think about it....Love is Love , you dont need to be married to love someone or have kids with them (not that I want any SERIOUSLY I dont )
I think marriage at its worst turns love into a hollow business arrangement.
Sad.
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Re: Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement [Re: Psilocybeingzz]
#2883631 - 07/12/04 07:45 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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That sux, man. My parents are on the verge of getting separated(they're still trying to work things out, though). It sucks seeing this happen. I know you and me don't get along very well, but my heart goes out to you.
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Re: Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement [Re: Psilocybeingzz]
#2883662 - 07/12/04 07:54 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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My parents just had a messy divorce. It's fucking horrible, I don't think I'll ever get married, that is how I feel after going thru it all with them at this time anyways. It's rough and tough. Good luck to you bro, keep your head up.
I think it's just a legal agreement, Love is Love you are right.
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HarvestTheBrain
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Re: Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement [Re: Psilocybeingzz]
#2883712 - 07/12/04 08:08 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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my rents' have been divorced for some time now. I'm glad it happened when it did though...i barley remember it, but what i do remember sucks oh well, it's definetly for the best
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Psilocybeingzz said: fucking dick couldnt help but turn a happy moment to a sour one just for his own feeling of satisfaction
yeah, he is a dick for doing that
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Re: Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement [Re: HarvestTheBrain]
#2883722 - 07/12/04 08:10 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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True that is a shitty thing to do but people going thru serious trouble aren't thinking straight.
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Psilocybeingzz
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Re: Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement [Re: silversoul7]
#2883735 - 07/12/04 08:15 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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"I know you and me don't get along very well, but my heart goes out to you."
Well theres not rule inside my head that says we CANT. Thanks
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Re: Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement [Re: Adom]
#2883736 - 07/12/04 08:15 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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this is true. after time bitter feelings go away and they talk like normal people again...sometimes. a know a couple couples that fuckin hate each other still, mostly because of legal matters though. fuck greed
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Re: Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement [Re: Psilocybeingzz]
#2883744 - 07/12/04 08:18 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Psilocybeingzz said:
Anyway the more I look at the situation and think about it....Love is Love , you dont need to be married to love someone or have kids with them (not that I want any SERIOUSLY I dont )
I think marriage at its worst turns love into a hollow business arrangement.
Sad.
Absolutely! Having been almost married once, I can attest to the above.
Sorry to hear of your parents, btw.
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Re: Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement [Re: Adom]
#2883761 - 07/12/04 08:21 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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It sort of had to happen eventually, because there was no love left. (as if its a exhaustible resource )
But its shitty to hear the greedy MONEY centered talk, and the VILE threats of economic pain, a tit for tat, a " I will get you...." ....."well you will lose more" kind of thing.
The worst part is I am living here right now(out of work ), the cool thing is that since the hosue is being sold ASAP, and I have nowhere to live, the SECOND I get a new job , my parents will lend we enough money to get place of my own for about a month.
I just want to get a job and jump of this sinking fucking ship. I remember my dad saying......"this house is killing us", I think this house is awsome and it has a cool backyard, they killed anything that close to "family".
That is all.
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Re: Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement [Re: Psilocybeingzz]
#2883805 - 07/12/04 08:32 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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Very similar stuff happened to me I'm glad something happened when it did because I couldn't handle the shit that was going on any longer. Alot less greed oriented on my fathers part tho he just tossed in a huge control issue to stir the pot. It's just a huge pain in the ass.
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Re: Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement [Re: Psilocybeingzz]
#2883812 - 07/12/04 08:33 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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you know what the number #1 cause of divorce is?
Marriage.
yea, i definetly dont belive in the 'system' of you have to get married.... marriage is just bullshit, and just an idea that societ has placed in our (womens) heads of what one has to do in order to 'progress' the relationship.... just a bunch of bullshit. it's even bigger bullshit than valentines day... fuck that day.
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Re: Mariage turns LOVE into a business arrangement [Re: Psilocybeingzz]
#2883893 - 07/12/04 08:52 PM (19 years, 8 months ago) |
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divorce is scary. i'm sad to say i've been through 2 divorces. now my parents go so low on the dating chain.... my dad dates models in russia and my mother finds whoever is stupid enough to follow her every command. so my dad gets these transparent chicks with no english skills and my mom gets boring nerds with masters degrees in bug science.
lifes a bitch. relationships are annoying to keep together. but once you find someone who's willing to go through hell and back its great.
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