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InvisibleDelyrium
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help - i'm being harrassed!!
    #2878039 - 07/11/04 02:29 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

alright - so i am having a very horrible situation. i became involved w/ this guy and to make a long story short - after numerous times of telling him we were not going to be together - he snapped.

he now has my boyfriend's phone # and is harrassing me telling me that he will call my boyfriend and tell him all these horrible things about me. he will also be calling my parents and saying the same. he will be calling my friends and try to pin them all against me as well.

he is a controlling and extremely manipulative human being. i am in another state while he does this too.

my mom tried called the cops but they need more solid evidence - more like - physical evidence.

i don't know what to do - i have called and warned everyone BUT my boyfriend (who hasn't been picking up his phone BEFORE this all started).

this guy is INSANE and i will NOT let him ruin my life (which he has planned to do).

what do i do? or say?


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878065 - 07/11/04 02:39 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

Thats tough Del....

Does he know where you live? Can you just change your phone numbers? I mean its a bitch to do but it might be worth it if the cops cant do anything..

You could beat him up maybe? I dunno.

What do you mean say bad things? Real bad like he cant say them? Cause you say your boy and mom already know so.. does it matter? Or is he just gonna start pranking you and shit.

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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878069 - 07/11/04 02:41 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

it may be tough but you're going to have to shoot him, it's the only way


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878074 - 07/11/04 02:47 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

well i would make the people around you aware of this nutcase so his threads become worthless and everyone just tells him to shut up when he calls because everyone he is the nutcase. i dont know. if he is a physical thread maybe you can hire someone to protect you, there are many that are willing to put a stalking nutcase a lesson if you just ask you know. hope things works out for you.


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InvisibleDelyrium
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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: iloveraving]
    #2878077 - 07/11/04 02:47 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

well see - hehe - my family has connections and i could get both his legs broke - but i don't wanna go to that extreme YET.

As in really bad things - telling my boyfriend that i have been fucking this guy and all this other shit. this guy's main goal is to say the most nastiest shit in order to get my boyfriend to break up with me. he says "if i can't have you - then no one can".

the worst part is - my boyfriend is a good 4 hour plane ride away from me right now. he doesn't know any of this is happening yet either because i can't get in touch w/ him.

i'm tempted to buy plane tickets and go there this weekend. i will NOT let this crazy fuck ruin us. whatever it takes.


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878083 - 07/11/04 02:50 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

why were you fuckin' around on him anyhow...

i mean ya that stalker definitely has a major malfunction...but fuckin' around on your boyfriend ain't too cool either...


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InvisibleDelyrium
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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: SoDak_Stranger]
    #2878106 - 07/11/04 02:58 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

that's not what happened. my boyfriend and i decided to separate. i dated this other guy (without having sex) and told my boyfriend and ended it with the other guy (the stalker). after months of trying to be just friends (because we have a LOT of people that we both know and see constantly) i am guessing everything boiled through him.

he threatened me when i went out to see my boyfriend but i didn't take anything serious. it has been a long battle of trying to get this guy out of my life. he has called me so many times that his phone calls alone have ran up $200-300 phone bills - now i generally keep it turned off and hang up if it's him.

he is bipolar as well. i hate having enemies and so i would try and be friends w/ him because we would see each other around town. he would be nice and normal - we could go out skating together and have a normal day w/o any problems. until when i last got back to NY and he tried to have sex with me and i told him to get away. he took it well and we went to the beach to go skimboarding - that day he heard me talking about my boyfriend coming to Vermont for vacation with me. he FREAKED and started yelling at me. it got to the point where i called my mom and was crying hysterically and asking her to pick me up. then he switched and became normal again and apologized.

this happened many times - he would flip out and then become nice again. i heard from friends and family that i should stay away bc he was crazy but i thought maybe i was over reacting and he wasn't that bad.

it became apparent to me now that he is an extremely dangerous person. he was able to control me and manipulate me. he tried to put me against my mother and my friends. he would tell me how horrible my mom is and what she does wrong. he would tell me my friends really don't care about me and are just saying he's bad because they are jealous..

i fell complete victim to him. and it's stopping now.


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878112 - 07/11/04 03:00 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

i fell victim to this once before and ended up being raped. i need to see through people a little better than i have.


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878127 - 07/11/04 03:07 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

You hurt his feelings ...you never hurt his "Feeling"


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878128 - 07/11/04 03:08 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

:sad:

What happened to your roommate that you weren't getting along with?





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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Learyfan]
    #2878135 - 07/11/04 03:11 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

o i am living with a few other people - things are good w/ that. i got along w/ my other roommate but i wasn't happy about the living situation - it got creepy when i found out about the escort service he was running.


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878168 - 07/11/04 03:26 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

You're talking about the one who you said "this is war" about or whatever?

Tell us all about the escort sevice.




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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878169 - 07/11/04 03:26 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

I'm usually a pretty calm, relaxed, non-violent person, but I suggest since you can have him beat up, do it. If he still bothers you, or does any of that shit, have him beat up again.

In my opinion, there's no telling what a crazy person will do, he may stop, or he may not, he may do very drastic things.

Negotiating with crazy unpredictable people almost never works in my opinion.


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878180 - 07/11/04 03:34 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

how does the dude have your moms #, your bf's # & all your friends #'s...

any conversation you have, record it on a microcassette recorder.


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878234 - 07/11/04 04:10 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

2 words for ya... RESTRAINING ORDER


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: 40oz]
    #2878237 - 07/11/04 04:12 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

fortyounces2freedom said:
how does the dude have your moms #, your bf's # & all your friends #'s...









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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878535 - 07/11/04 05:42 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

Aw, that sucks to here Del. Sounds like this guy is totaly unreasonable. If you havent tried already, you should sit down, or talk with him on the fone, and just tell it like it is. Tell him things were good, but your happy with your current boyfriend. The Truth is a underrated tool.


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: iluan]
    #2878644 - 07/11/04 06:01 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

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2 words for ya... RESTRAINING ORDER




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InvisibleLe_Canard
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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: iluan]
    #2878704 - 07/11/04 06:17 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

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iluan said:
2 words for ya... RESTRAINING ORDER





:thumbup:

This sounds like someone else's ex as well... :rolleyes:

I hope things work out for you too, Del. :laugh:


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Re: help - i'm being harrassed!! [Re: Delyrium]
    #2878995 - 07/11/04 07:17 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

wow thats really shitty.
Restraining order should be your first course of action. Second should be violence. Talk to him once, and tell him that if he ever calls you, your moma, or your bf again that there will be severe reprocutions, and if he does fallow through.
breaking his legs might be alittle much, but noone would fault you if you had someone work him over abit.


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