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Anonymous #1
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Am I trans-phobic?
#28673622 - 02/24/24 04:05 AM (3 months, 30 days ago) |
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If I don't like transgenders?
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Anonymous #2
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I have a transgender family member, and I dont like them, the process or the mindset.
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Anonymous #3
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Transphobia; having or showing a dislike of or strong prejudice against transgender people.
Transmisia is any attitude, belief, behavior, or policy that: stigmatizes or harms trans, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming people; denies the validity of their identities; sees them as less human; and/or. treats them as less worthy of care and respect.
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous #1 said: If I don't like transgenders?
yeah but are you scared of them
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Anonymous #1
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No I just don't like them
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Anonymous #3
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I don't like grapefruit doesn't mean I'm grapefruitphobic
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Anonymous #1
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Having a dislike against transgender people.
I do have a dislike against transgender people.
Does that mean I'm transphobic, even though I don't have an extreme or irrational fear of them?
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Anonymous #3
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According to Wikipedia transphobia has its own meaning, not the same definition as phobia wich is strange as transphobia has the word 'phobia' in its name. 
Transphobia consists of negative attitudes, feelings, or actions towards transgender people or transness in general. Transphobia can include fear, aversion, hatred, violence or anger towards people who do not conform to social gender roles.[1][2] Transphobia is a type of prejudice and discrimination, similar to racism, sexism, or ableism,[3] and it is closely associated with homophobia. - Wikipedia.
A phobia is an anxiety disorder, defined by a persistent and excessive fear of an object or situation. Phobias typically result in a rapid onset of fear and are usually present for more than six months. - Wikipedia.
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Anonymous #5
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Don't worry, you are just an idiot.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #3 said: According to Wikipedia transphobia has its own meaning, not the same definition as phobia wich is strange as transphobia has the word 'phobia' in its name. 
Transphobia consists of negative attitudes, feelings, or actions towards transgender people or transness in general. Transphobia can include fear, aversion, hatred, violence or anger towards people who do not conform to social gender roles.[1][2] Transphobia is a type of prejudice and discrimination, similar to racism, sexism, or ableism,[3] and it is closely associated with homophobia. - Wikipedia.
A phobia is an anxiety disorder, defined by a persistent and excessive fear of an object or situation. Phobias typically result in a rapid onset of fear and are usually present for more than six months. - Wikipedia.
Hmm very interesting. I'm not homophobic, I don't have a problem with the gay and lesbian community. I just don't like transgenders. I definitely deny the validity of their identities & see them as less human and treat them as less worthy of care and respect 100%
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Anonymous #6
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Why? You just need somebody to hate to make yourself feel special?
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Anonymous #7
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Do you like furries or grown men who wear diapers?!?
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Anonymous #5
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I bet op likes no one and even hates himself.
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Anonymous #8
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Sounds like it.
I find the whole "phobic" usage misleading. Like saying someone is "homophobic" when they actually hate gay people. Its different than fear when you hate something. Like, Im not afraid of cilantro, i just hate the taste.
How come you don't like transgenders? Is it both male and female transgenders? Have you ever interacted with one before?
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #8 said: Sounds like it.
I find the whole "phobic" usage misleading. Like saying someone is "homophobic" when they actually hate gay people. Its different than fear when you hate something. Like, Im not afraid of cilantro, i just hate the taste.
How come you don't like transgenders? Is it both male and female transgenders? Have you ever interacted with one before?
Yes maybe 'phobic' is misleading. I don't know if a homophobe truly fears homosexuals or just dislikes them. I would imagine some would, not all.
I dont hate or fear transgenders, I just don't like them.
Maybe like how a transgender might dislike a drug affected heroin addict walking down the street.
How can I explain it, it's like how you see these flat earthers about, it infuriates me that they could even think that way. To me its totally absurd. It's the same feeling with transgenders. I believe they are wired wrong.
I have met quite a few transgenders in my time and it's unsettling. Yes it's both male and female transgenders they're both as of the same to me in that regard of dislike.
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Anonymous #9
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It’s normal to feel uncomfortable or weird about trans people. But denying them rights is fucked up.
I think you just want to suck on that big ol’ lady dick.
People been trans for a minute man. Lou Reed used to sing all about em.
Trans influencers and gatekeepers are annoying but who cares.
There’s many awesome trans people out there
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Anonymous #8
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Definitely get that.
Spiritually, transgenders are in the wrong body. Some even have multiple spirits. Its a strange situation.
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Anonymous #10
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I want ladyboy dink, I think OP does too.
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Anonymous #11
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It's almost like there is more proof that someone is actually not the gender that they grew the reproductive system for than there is that proves the world is flat, or round for that matter....
But I see your point, your getting upset over something that really doesn't have any influence on your daily life struggles because society has taken all the need for work and/or self fulfilling activities so you sit around and get annoyed by shit that doesn't matter.
The fact seems to be women are more comfortable with who they are and what they look like so the medical industry is pushing unnecessary medical procedures on little boys before their nuts drop and they realize how great it is to be your own man. Fuckn crooks.
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Anonymous #12
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Anonymous #1 said: I dont hate or fear transgenders, I just don't like them.
Every single one? You are certain that you would dislike every single trans person? What if you met a trans person that embodied human qualities you admired - bravery, self-confidence, loyalty, intelligence, kindness - you would still dislike them merely because they are trans? In that case I'd call you an asshole. Hating a kind person because of who they are makes you an asshole.
If someone said that because you were white or black, because you were male or female, that on that account they disliked you, how would that make you feel? Would you really not call that person a bigot? But you are doing the same thing to trans people here. Even if you don't agree with them about gender, it's not a reason to ignore them as a human and judge them just based on that. You wouldn't want anyone to judge you based on just one trait, would you?
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Anonymous #11 said: It's almost like there is more proof that someone is actually not the gender that they grew the reproductive system for than there is that proves the world is flat, or round for that matter....
Except there is evidence. For a start you're ignoring their own preferences and thoughts. But more importantly you're ignoring scientific evidence that transgender females have parts of their brain more closely resembling a female brain. So in some ways trans people physically do have the brain of the gender that they identify as.
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Anonymous #13
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I think you are allowed to think it's weird or gross.
Your not allowed to hate or harm them. But you don't have to pretend someone is "stunning and brave" because they are a woman with a beard.
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Anonymous #14
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It's the same as flamboyant gay people, why the need to be over the top?
Just exist like everyone else and let's all just get on with life.
There's a trans dude at the local grocer and he always looks well dressed and what I would consider fabulous. I've even told him that as well, there's nothing wrong with acting normal and still being trans.
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Anonymous #11
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Anonymous #11 said: It's almost like there is more proof that someone is actually not the gender that they grew the reproductive system for than there is that proves the world is flat, or round for that matter....
Except there is evidence. For a start you're ignoring their own preferences and thoughts. But more importantly you're ignoring scientific evidence that transgender females have parts of their brain more closely resembling a female brain. So in some ways trans people physically do have the brain of the gender that they identify as.
I'm not ignoring anything. I'm also not ready to consider other's opinions as facts. Just because a large group of people (or small group) claim a set of opinions are facts doesn't make it so, it's like believing that Biden got more legitimate votes than Obama, you can claim there is evidence of that, but we all know deep in our hearts it just isn't true.
Just like being born with a penis and testicles, you can claim you are not male, but the reality is that you are, cutting off your balls and taking drugs doesn't change the fact you are male, it can disguises it tho.
I can claim to be the queen of England, if enough people tell me I'm the queen of England I might believe it, they might believe it, but I'm still not the legitimate queen of England.
Not that I care who wants to do what with their own body, it's their body they have the natural right to do what they like with it, but I also have the natural right to think what I want.
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Anonymous #15
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"Homophobia" was the source term for "transphobia."
The initial idea being that it went beyond hating a particular person, or even just not liking them, to actually being afraid that the group of people in question could take over and "turn everyone gay." Or "try to make you gay." For the classic stereotypical homophobe, getting hit on by a gay dude is the equivalent of sexual harassment or attempted rape. And there is absolutely an element of real fear, but typically more on a societal level.
There have been "trans" people for thousands of years, and/or for at least as long as human societies have had culturally entrenched gender roles. I honestly find some elements of the current trend distasteful. It reminds me a bit of some of the lesbians I knew in college who almost certainly are married with two kids now. It just feels like there are a lot of entitled white men who are now able to conquer the boss level of the oppression Olympics: being a trans woman. I'm not talking about everyone here, but I am definitely talking about people like Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner. And this whole thing has become an absurd political football. Pro and against are both cheap talking points that politicians and corporations can use to virtue signal without actually doing anything of value or substance. And that naturally will cause at least some kids to jump on the bandwagon on either side, regardless of how they feel deep down. Personally, though, I would like to see the abolition of extreme gender roles and specific pigeonholes, and so almost all of the current debate seems counter-intuitive to me. But also, yeah, confused young people with penises who are suffering from both mental illness and a strong sense of entitlement do tend to get on my nerves. Especially when they become the default spokespeople for individuals who don't fully present as their birth gender.
I guess by the definition of homophobia listed above, there are plenty of people who would call me trans-phobic. I do resent that characterization, though. I'm ultimately just annoyed, not afraid or hate-filled. And it's probably fueled, in part, by long-term exposure to various queer spaces and communities, such that this new trend just feels kind of dumb and contrived and new-school to me. But hey, if the culmination is private bathroom stalls in all public restrooms, I'll take it lol
I do bear active ill will and prejudice for the religious fundamentalists who actively judge and persecute people for their personal decisions.
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Anonymous #3
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Transphobia is not a phobia as defined in clinical psychology (i.e., an anxiety disorder). Its meaning and usage parallels xenophobia.[16] The noun transphobe denotes someone who harbors transphobia. The adjectival form transphobic may be used to describe a transphobe or their actions. The words transphobia and transphobic were added to the Oxford English Dictionary in 2013.[17]
It has been argued that transmisia, with the suffix -misia meaning "hatred", would be a more accurate term, because transphobia is more about hatred of than about fear of transgender people. - Wikipedia.
Personally I don't have strong opinions towards trans people none of them ever done me wrong. I can't speak for trans people but I'll guess that not all of them are trying to force their beliefs on others but it does look like alot of them want society to accept their beliefs but they don't want to accept other people's beliefs. It's like a Christian and a Muslim arguing about God they both think they are correct but won't respect the other person's opinions. They say I believe I'm a woman I say I believe your a man let's agree to disagree and move on. It should just be about what people believe in persuit of truth not just an excuse to hate on somone because of their beliefs.
Edited by Anonymous (02/28/24 01:58 PM)
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Anonymous #16
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I don't see why it would matter to anyone whether someone is transgender or not, judge their character before anything else. There's too much hate in the world already for us to add more unnecessarily.
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Anonymous #11
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Have you ever had a good buzz going while you were downtown Vegas and let a chick take you to her hotel room to suck you off, passed out and then woke up next to a dude dressed like a woman?
Because that might cause transphobia...
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Anonymous #17
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Anonymous #1 said: If I don't like transgenders?
It depends upon what you mean by dislike and how it manifests itself. When I see, or, finally realize the person is a transgender, I experience a momentary sense of shock and maybe even a little involuntary disgust, honestly.
This doesn’t mean I’d ever support policy that attempts to rob a transgender of their autonomy or harm them in any way. Personally, I would never discriminate against a transgender person or try to inflict emotional or physical pain on one.
Transgenders are probably as physiologically and psychologically inclined to be who they are as I am to be a heterosexual man who doesn’t have gender dysphoria or whatever.
So, no, I don’t think a gut level dislike for transgenders necessarily makes you transphobic.
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Anonymous #18
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Anonymous #13 said: I think you are allowed to think it's weird or gross.
Your not allowed to hate or harm them. But you don't have to pretend someone is "stunning and brave" because they are a woman with a beard.
This. I even disagree on the hate part: Even though it may be morally wrong, people are free to hate whoever they want to (even as wrong as it may be). I personally think that it would be wrong. But you are most definitely not allowed to harm or deny them rights, though. And that should go for any race, sex, religion, etc.
That should go without saying.
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Anonymous #16 said: I don't see why it would matter to anyone whether someone is transgender or not, judge their character before anything else. There's too much hate in the world already for us to add more unnecessarily.
I also agree with this. I'm sure there's plenty of transgenders worth hating once you get to know them -- just like there are plenty of people in any race/religion/culture that are worth hating (simply because bad people exist in every single sect of society on this earth).
But hating them right off the bat before you know them as people, well, yeah that's fucked up.
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Anonymous #19
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Transphobic is just a word that limp wristed pansies use to try to convince themselves that anyone in the world might possibly be afraid of them, it also serves to easily dismiss their opinions about their obvious insanity and prevents them from feeling like they may need to actually answer any questions pertaining to the issue
Kind of like when someone is being shitty to someone else and they claim "oh your just jealous" or some other bullshit
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Anonymous #15
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Anonymous #19 said: limp wristed pansies
What, trying to get maximum mileage out of that thesaurus of middle school slurs you bought on Etsy?
I believe the phrase you used here would typically be associated with the word "fag."
And yet, I've had and overheard more conversations with gay men about this topic than anyone else. Many old-school gay dudes are somewhat puzzled by the latest developments. They were never confused about being men who fuck other men.
Yes, human nature being what it is, there will always be someone ready to hurl accusations of bigotry when things don't go their way. Also, people who have experienced bigotry, or even just feel out of their element, will sometimes read into a negative encounter and assume the worst. I've seen and experienced this in every concievable direction.
Yeah, it sucks being called a transphobe when you just expressed an opinion, and/or didn't really do anything wrong. It still sucks way more, for instance, to be beaten to death for showing up in the wrong place looking the wrong way.
Edited by Anonymous (04/02/24 08:49 PM)
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Anonymous #8
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Im curious what gay men think of Transmen. Would they bang? ive seen some photos of nude Transmen online and they are very convincing.
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Anonymous #20
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#15 flexing that false equivalency muscle. Are you white? You're a Nazi and you probably hate Jews. You may as well have killed Jews because you're white. You deserve to be called a Nazi because I feel bad for Jews.
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Anonymous #3
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If a man were to transition into a transwoman and then transition back to being a man, does that make him a transtransman or just a man?
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Anonymous #5
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Would make them a human.
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Anonymous #8
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I think that would be an Ex-Transgendered male.
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Anonymous #21
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I'm homophobic, transphobic, LGBTQRSTUVphobic. Don't care.
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Anonymous #5
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You need to eat more LSD. Your mind's a bit off.
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Anonymous #19
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Anonymous #21 said: I'm homophobic, transphobic, LGBTQRSTUVphobic. Don't care.
What is it exactly that your a scared of? Do you think it's contagious? Or do you think they're gonna rape you?
Personally, I don't fear them. I just have a seething hate for them. Probably because they're different than me and that's what papa taught me to feel about people that aren't like me
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Anonymous #22
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They are scared of everything that the little orange man told them to be scared of.
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Anonymous #19
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Fuck off with that shit anon 22. Don't make everything about your gawd on earth I hate the trans AND orange man so whatevs
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Anonymous #22
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But when did you start hating them?
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Anonymous #19
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I believe it was sometime after "they" proved themselves to be bigots and fascists
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Anonymous #22
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So you went to a rally? Yeah, that’s usually when people started deciding they needed to kill the imminent threat of trans folks. What exactly is so threatening about them?
Are you going to tell me that they’re grooming children? Where could you have possibly gotten that idea?
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Anonymous #19
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You're a fucking idiot dude
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Anonymous #22
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You’re a fucking bigot.
The difference is, I can actually prove it.
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Anonymous #19
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Yeah ok. Show me what you got
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Anonymous #22
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Anonymous #19 said: Transphobic is just a word that limp wristed pansies use to try to convince themselves that anyone in the world might possibly be afraid of them, it also serves to easily dismiss their opinions about their obvious insanity and prevents them from feeling like they may need to actually answer any questions pertaining to the issue
Kind of like when someone is being shitty to someone else and they claim "oh your just jealous" or some other bullshit
Boy that was easy.
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Anonymous #17
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Ain’t no god, regardless. Sorry my friends, none of y’all are going to live forever in the kingdom of Disneyland and wear Mickey ears with Jesus.
However, there was a man named CornPop. CornPop was a bad dude, he ran a bunch of bad boys. He was the scourge of the public pool until one fateful day a brave young man, armed only with a bicycle chain and an apology, confronted CornPop. That brave young man went on to become the 46th president of the United States. It’s almost as compelling a story as the 45th president who cheated on all of his wives and paid porn stars for sex.
Edited by Anonymous (05/11/24 08:21 PM)
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Anonymous #19
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Anonymous #19 said: Transphobic is just a word that limp wristed pansies use to try to convince themselves that anyone in the world might possibly be afraid of them, it also serves to easily dismiss their opinions about their obvious insanity and prevents them from feeling like they may need to actually answer any questions pertaining to the issue
Kind of like when someone is being shitty to someone else and they claim "oh your just jealous" or some other bullshit
Boy that was easy.
That doesn’t show that I’m a bigot which is impossible to prove since I’m not.
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Anonymous #22
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You just said that all the democrats are synonymous with trans people. Then just blanket termed all of the people that disagree with you as. “ insane limp wristed pansies.”
Why don’t you tell us about the great replacement theory too. I bet you know a lot about it. Bigot
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Anonymous #19
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I bet you've got some sort of pastel colored hair
Clearly you don't know what you're talking about but you'll have to take my word for it
Wake up bub
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Anonymous #22
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I don’t need to wake up. I’m not the one who’s yelling at strangers because of perceived differences that someone told you to hate.
Maybe you should think for yourself.
Bigot
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Anonymous #23
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Who cares if ur transphobic or not? As long as ur not planning on killing anyone, hurting or firing denying housing etc to a trans person it aint really a big deal. Just treat humans like they are friends, and maybe friendship will follow.
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Anonymous #19
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Anonymous #22 said: I don’t need to wake up. I’m not the one who’s yelling at strangers because of perceived differences that someone told you to hate.
Maybe you should think for yourself.
Bigot
The projection is strong in this one…yes
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Anonymous #22
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It’s just an educated guess. You like Tucker Carlson don’t you?
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Anonymous #19
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You haven't been right about one thing yet. You should quit while you're only this much behind
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Anonymous #19
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Let me try one now
I bet you don't like having a dick and feel like you're automatically a bad person for having one so you try your hardest to disassociate with it and have fantasies about having a vagina instead
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Anonymous #22
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I like my big floppy dick. So does your mom.
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Anonymous #19
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Anonymous #24
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Anonymous #19 said: Transphobic is just a word that limp wristed pansies use to try to convince themselves that anyone in the world might possibly be afraid of them, it also serves to easily dismiss their opinions about their obvious insanity and prevents them from feeling like they may need to actually answer any questions pertaining to the issue
Kind of like when someone is being shitty to someone else and they claim "oh your just jealous" or some other bullshit
Boy that was easy.
Because it's just the simple truth. nobody's afraid of mentally ill broke tards. They are loathe of it. homo-loathia and trans-loathia - the pervs are all false tactics and childish mentality.
Sick empty people got on a fad of dancing around bragging that they are the most unclean and shameful form of public pencil sharpener...what did they think was going to happen?
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Anonymous #24
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Anonymous #17 said: Ain’t no god, regardless. Sorry my friends, none of y’all are going to live forever in the kingdom of Disneyland and wear Mickey ears with Jesus.
However, there was a man named CornPop. CornPop was a bad dude, he ran a bunch of bad boys. He was the scourge of the public pool until one fateful day a brave young man, armed only with a bicycle chain and an apology, confronted CornPop. That brave young man went on to become the 46th president of the United States. It’s almost as compelling a story as the 45th president who cheated on all of his wives and paid porn stars for sex.
^^^^^WHY you got "vaccine"^^^^
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