|
Big_Dub
I'm just some guy



Registered: 01/12/11
Posts: 2,952
Loc: Los Angeles
Last seen: 13 minutes, 38 seconds
|
|
When I was a teenager my friends and I would hop fences and climb buildings and trees, jump off, be reckless
I miss that.
But broken bones are a lot worse when your 30something
-------------------- split_by_nine said: click me you fuck Send me a message
|
Lynnch
Strangerer



Registered: 04/29/09
Posts: 8,013
|
Re: loser (im sorry) [Re: Big_Dub] 3
#28642317 - 01/31/24 07:22 PM (3 months, 15 days ago) |
|
|
So.. you say you have an easy job..but is that a challenging job? a fulfilling job?
You mention friends and family.. but does that include a significant other? Children?
I think we all make our own meaning in life.. and that meaning is going to change over time and has to be sought after.
|
Big_Dub
I'm just some guy



Registered: 01/12/11
Posts: 2,952
Loc: Los Angeles
Last seen: 13 minutes, 38 seconds
|
Re: loser (im sorry) [Re: Lynnch]
#28642338 - 01/31/24 07:49 PM (3 months, 15 days ago) |
|
|
I am a teacher. It cam be very rewarding. But the problem is most parents legitimately do not give a shit about their child's behavior and education. Ive worked at several schools and have many teacher friends and they all say the same thing: the problem comes from the lack of parenting
I don't have a significant other or children. I'd like both. Rn I am living in my super small hometown, which is great for finances but terrible to meet people. The average girl my age has 2 kids and 2 different baby daddies, and doesnt offer much. That's good for some but I don't want to get involved in that
I understand meaning has to be pursued. It's why I play music, teach, and explore everything. I just can't help but feel stagnated.
-------------------- split_by_nine said: click me you fuck Send me a message
|
Cannabischarlie
Resident badass


Registered: 11/28/05
Posts: 15,188
Last seen: 2 days, 6 hours
|
Re: loser (im sorry) [Re: Big_Dub]
#28642342 - 01/31/24 07:51 PM (3 months, 15 days ago) |
|
|
-------------------- This section of the signature line has been intentionally left blank.
we could all use a little more sunshine.
yeah, she's funny and somewhat interesting. not a beauty queen, but not bad lookin. i'd feel quite honored to fuck janine garofalo. -tiny_rabid_birds
|
RJ Tubs 202



Registered: 09/20/08
Posts: 6,175
Loc: USA
Last seen: 23 days, 13 hours
|
|
Quote:
Big_Dub said:
I feel like a loser.
Self-loathing may be the most common source of human suffering.
Theodore Rubin's books have taught me a lot about self-hate.
|
GenesisCorrupted
Taoist, Writer, Student, Artist




Registered: 08/01/23
Posts: 11,739
Loc: PNW
Last seen: 7 minutes, 10 seconds
|
Re: loser (im sorry) [Re: Big_Dub]
#28642377 - 01/31/24 08:21 PM (3 months, 15 days ago) |
|
|
I hardly feel like your place is a reason to not go and meet people. Unless itโs like Instant red flag material. You should go and mingle. If the time comes that youโre ready to go to a place. Go to their place the first couple times. Warn them that theyโre yours is small. ๐
|
Big_Dub
I'm just some guy



Registered: 01/12/11
Posts: 2,952
Loc: Los Angeles
Last seen: 13 minutes, 38 seconds
|
|
I'm not worried about my house. I was talking about my town. The demographics are terrible.
-------------------- split_by_nine said: click me you fuck Send me a message
|
GenesisCorrupted
Taoist, Writer, Student, Artist




Registered: 08/01/23
Posts: 11,739
Loc: PNW
Last seen: 7 minutes, 10 seconds
|
Re: loser (im sorry) [Re: Big_Dub]
#28642401 - 01/31/24 08:42 PM (3 months, 15 days ago) |
|
|
So you mean where you live there is no one you would date?
|
Big_Dub
I'm just some guy



Registered: 01/12/11
Posts: 2,952
Loc: Los Angeles
Last seen: 13 minutes, 38 seconds
|
|
There are some, I'm sure... But hard to find. Like I said the overwhelming majority already are two kids deep with 3 baby daddies lol
-------------------- split_by_nine said: click me you fuck Send me a message
|
RJ Tubs 202



Registered: 09/20/08
Posts: 6,175
Loc: USA
Last seen: 23 days, 13 hours
|
Re: loser (im sorry) [Re: Big_Dub] 1
#28642424 - 01/31/24 09:08 PM (3 months, 15 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Big_Dub said:
I am a teacher. It can be very rewarding. But the problem is most parents legitimately do not give a shit about their child's behavior and education. I've worked at several schools and have many teacher friends and they all say the same thing: the problem comes from the lack of parenting
I'm a teacher, and the disruptive behavior in my school is generally blamed on brain disorders and ADHD. It's weird. Almost every time kids behave in ways that pisses adults off, all of the teachers and parents smile and say, "ADHD". They're terrified of considering what is actually motivating the children's behavior.
|
GenesisCorrupted
Taoist, Writer, Student, Artist




Registered: 08/01/23
Posts: 11,739
Loc: PNW
Last seen: 7 minutes, 10 seconds
|
Re: loser (im sorry) [Re: Big_Dub]
#28642425 - 01/31/24 09:09 PM (3 months, 15 days ago) |
|
|
Well dang. You said quite a few hobbies. Just go to those places that coincide with those hobbies. You should be able to meet somebody cool.
|
GenesisCorrupted
Taoist, Writer, Student, Artist




Registered: 08/01/23
Posts: 11,739
Loc: PNW
Last seen: 7 minutes, 10 seconds
|
|
Itโs so much easier than parenting isnโt it? I remember jokes about this when I was a kid. The only difference is they replaced Ritalin with something better.
Personally, I feel like kids are supposed to be kind of hyperactive assholes.
|
Big_Dub
I'm just some guy



Registered: 01/12/11
Posts: 2,952
Loc: Los Angeles
Last seen: 13 minutes, 38 seconds
|
|
Quote:
RJ Tubs 202 said: I'm a teacher, and the disruptive behavior in my school is generally blamed on brain disorders and ADHD. It's weird. Almost every time kids behave in ways that pisses adults off, all of the teachers and parents smile and say, "ADHD". They're terrified of considering what is actually motivating the children's behavior.
Yupp. Adhd is the go to for poorly behaved, lazy kids, and bc it's "special education" you can't do anything about it
I've only met a few kids throughout the years who seem to legit have it.
-------------------- split_by_nine said: click me you fuck Send me a message
|
LogicaL Chaos
Ascension Energy & Alien UFOs




Registered: 05/12/07
Posts: 70,093
Loc: The Inexpressible...
Last seen: 3 days, 10 minutes
|
Re: loser (im sorry) [Re: Big_Dub] 1
#28642444 - 01/31/24 09:36 PM (3 months, 15 days ago) |
|
|
Sounds like you need a new adventure, maybe even something dramatic like moving a new city or even a new state. It might be what you need to get the zest for life back.
|
Big_Dub
I'm just some guy



Registered: 01/12/11
Posts: 2,952
Loc: Los Angeles
Last seen: 13 minutes, 38 seconds
|
|
I have to do one more school year to finalize my teaching credential. After that I will definitely be moving.
I guess a lot of my" problems" are coming from being financially strategic. But it's the right decision and will pay off in the long run
-------------------- split_by_nine said: click me you fuck Send me a message
|
LogicaL Chaos
Ascension Energy & Alien UFOs




Registered: 05/12/07
Posts: 70,093
Loc: The Inexpressible...
Last seen: 3 days, 10 minutes
|
Re: loser (im sorry) [Re: Big_Dub]
#28642490 - 01/31/24 11:25 PM (3 months, 14 days ago) |
|
|
Nice!
Its good to be money smart, especially in this economy.
-------------------- "What you must understand is that your physical dimension affects everyone in the higher dimensions as well. All things are interconnected. All things are One. Therefore, if one dimension is broken or out of balance, then all other dimensions will experience repercussions." - Pleiadian Prophecy 2020 The New Golden Age by James Carwin PROJECT BLUE BOOK ANALYSIS! (312 pages!) | Psychedelics & UFOs | Ready to Contact UFOs? | The Source on Mushrooms | Trippy Gematrix | Dj TeknoLogical | Fentanyl Test Kits R.I.P. Big Worm || The Start of the Ascension Process was 2020. Welcome to the Next Great Era of Earth ๐๐๐
  Oregon Eclipse Festival 2017 :: Aug 19th - 21st :: Pure Paradise   Very Effective LSA Extraction Tek | ๐ง Advanced Cold Water LSA Extraction Method ๐ง |  Mescajuana - Mescaline with Marijuana | DMT Dab Bongs | UFO Technology! Shpongle
     
|
nightdad
I'm me, he's him, you're you!



Registered: 02/27/22
Posts: 721
Loc: QC
|
|
Settle down, get married and have a couple kids.
Cured my daily suicidal thoughts!
Gave me pure purpose and direction!
Never been happier!
|
spirit_shadow
Beta Crypt 3



Registered: 08/15/11
Posts: 28,144
Last seen: 1 hour, 31 minutes
|
Re: loser (im sorry) [Re: Big_Dub] 1
#28642691 - 02/01/24 07:49 AM (3 months, 14 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Big_Dub said:
Quote:
RJ Tubs 202 said: I'm a teacher, and the disruptive behavior in my school is generally blamed on brain disorders and ADHD. It's weird. Almost every time kids behave in ways that pisses adults off, all of the teachers and parents smile and say, "ADHD". They're terrified of considering what is actually motivating the children's behavior.
Yupp. Adhd is the go to for poorly behaved, lazy kids, and bc it's "special education" you can't do anything about it
I've only met a few kids throughout the years who seem to legit have it.
It's just been dumb ass kids having dumb ass kids for at least a generation now. What do you expect? Bad parenting combined with the fact that newer generations donโt use their brain for shit since all the info they ever need is in the palm of their hand. They will just read and not think for themselves. It's already happening in real time. Einstein was right on that one.
-------------------- Dab or die trying.....(this account is automated, all posts related to illegal activities or advice thereof are strictly from numerous online sites and are for informational purposes only)- Circa 2011 Ban lotto
|
nightdad
I'm me, he's him, you're you!



Registered: 02/27/22
Posts: 721
Loc: QC
|
|
Relying on anything but yourself to raise your children is fucking retarded. People trust the system wayyyyy too much.
Wake up, eat sugar then try and sit for 8 hours... good fucking luck.
Daycare is fucked. Full of pedophiles and communists.
School system is fucked. Full of alcoholic teachers that have zero interest in what they're doing.
My sister sends her two young kids to daycare every single day of the week. They're always sick with every fucking thing you could imagine. Ear infections, hand foot mouth disease, the flu, the shits. Name it, they've had it.
I thank God everyday that I make enough money so my wife can stay home and raise the kids herself.
It's worth it.
|
BrokenHeart
Stranger than most



Registered: 02/27/23
Posts: 139
Last seen: 1 month, 26 days
|
Re: loser (im sorry) [Re: nightdad] 5
#28642758 - 02/01/24 09:24 AM (3 months, 14 days ago) |
|
|
I am diagnosed with depression and generalized anxiety disorder from terminal medical condition.
That is exactly what brought me here. After years of constant pain. the big brians diagnosed me with mental disorders and started years of drug rearranging that left me feeling worse.
I trust the Dr's opinions but their solutions were hurting me and my family. My choices appeared to be an on and off schedule with benzos or continue in the magic pill hunt or come up with my own solution. I chose to read the same books the therapists did and come off all drugs. Now besides my life extending drugs, I regularly micro/macro dose mushrooms. Mushrooms have brought me the peace the Dr's promised the pills would. Reading the proper literature brought me the understanding the therapists could not. Treating myself is definitely a two pronged approach with good thought patterns being more important than the mushies but they definitely help.
I do not believe I have "depression". With as analog as our systems are a broad stroke description is vastly insufficient, but antidepressant coping techniques, mushrooms and kind words help me, hope they can help you.
Teaching is one of the noblest professions, historically preformed by honored, dedicated scribes and scholars. They, more than anyone mold our collective future. It is just recently (50 years) we treat them as nannies. You are important, we all need you.
|
|